You can distinguish a fake from gold, it is easy to identify a fake bill, but to recognize a person is much more difficult. But if you have clear criteria for what a real man should be, then, knowing him better, you will definitely tell who invited you on a date: a fake or a nugget.
Any woman dreams of seeing next to him a real man, a prince on a white horse or a knight in armor. But the fabulous image does not always coincide with reality, and you can run into anyone. But the girls really want to meet the ideal candidate for life partners.
In this article, we will tell you what it means to be a man. In other words, what qualities should be representative of a strong half of humanity, according to women.
Masculinity
Perhaps the most important quality. After all, it is it that reveals the essence of a man, combining courage, honor, nobility and fortitude in him. One who possesses this quality is very close to the image of his ancestors.
Responsibility
According to women, a man should be responsible. Of course, in ancient times this was easier. He killed the beast, brought the prey and again run to hunt - this was the working day of our distant ancestor. It seems that everything is very simple, not like in the modern world, where a man should bear a much greater responsibility. It is necessary not only to protect and feed your family, but also to “turn on” the head in certain situations. And this is a rather difficult task.
Ability to keep the word
There are people who say one thing and do something completely different. And there are men who refuse words for selfishness. You can’t do this. If the word was given by a real man, then he will restrain him, even if it does not bring him benefits. These representatives of the stronger sex will always be appreciated and respected.
Courage
A man must be doubly brave: for himself and for his companion. It is unacceptable to hide behind the backs of your mothers and wives.
Honesty
This quality is far from all representatives of the stronger sex. Most even lie to their wives. Of course, you can deceive others, but yourself - definitely not. The main thing is to be honest with yourself.
Decency
We can say that this is a synonym for honesty. It is a very rare quality among the male population. It is unlikely that somewhere you can find a 100% decent man. After all, he must protect, feed and love his own family, not cheat on his spouse, respect the elderly, not commit bad deeds, never cheat, etc. This image is too utopian. And if you meet such a man, then you can put him in the museum, as a valuable and rare antiques.
Kindness
This quality should be inherent in each representative of the stronger sex, especially if you have your own family. Without a good attitude, it is impossible to educate children. Of course, this does not stop some, but what will come of their offspring in the future?
The main sign of kindness is respect for old age and love for animals. In general, to find out the “true” face of a man, you need to find out how he relates to “striped and mustachioed”. Also pay attention to how he speaks about his own parents or grandparents.
Industriousness
This is one of the qualities that reflect the essence of a man. It closely echoes the responsibility that we wrote about above. A man should not be lazy, because he is a producer of resources (money) for his family. In addition, there are many household chores that a woman is unable to cope with. You have to be a man and help your chosen one, and not lie on the couch with a can of beer and watch TV.
Determination
One of the most important qualities. Any man should know what he wants to achieve and for what he lives. These can be different areas: hobbies, sports, career, work. If there is no goal, then the man simply goes with the flow, and all his free time devours surfing the Internet, TV, drinking, lying on the couch, etc.
Sense of humor
On the whole, it’s very difficult to live without him, and it’s also quite difficult to conquer a woman, resolve a delicate situation, etc. In modern reality, a sense of humor is not just important, it is vital. As one satirist said: “If it weren’t so funny, it would be scary.”
Mind
For many women, it is the mind that reflects the essence of men. If it is not enough, then it is unlikely that a person will make a good head of the family. Raising children, solving household issues, making money - all this is fully or partially on men's shoulders. And in the organization and calculation of all this, the mind plays a paramount role.
Sexuality and appeal
Many believe that men should by no means be attracted by their appearance. This is an erroneous opinion. Definitely a must! But this is not about cute faces, but about real male sexuality and attractiveness, when a woman walking nearby feels both safe and pleasant.
Intuition
Although men are not so developed, nevertheless, each of them should have a certain sixth sense, suggesting that a woman needs help. The main task of the representative of the stronger sex is to console, protect, help in difficult times, well, or just stay close.
Mutual assistance
A well-known actor in his interview said: "I do not divide the housework into male and female. If necessary, I can also sew a button, wash, and cook, and change the diaper for the child." That's what a man can be! And this is absolutely normal. Moreover, it should be so. If before women were engaged exclusively in household chores, now they work on an equal footing with men. And they can also be delayed at work. Therefore, a real man will not tell his wife who returned after a hard day that he is too tired and will not do anything.
Mobility
In the high rhythm of modern life, a man is simply obliged to be mobile and mobile. Sitting in one place, you cannot feed yourself or your own family. And only parasites and idlers sit out their pants.
Independence
Many women answer the question “what is the essence of a man”: “in independence”. That is, in the ability to solve absolutely any problems without any help.
Accuracy
Here we do not mean metrosexuals, who, apart from their appearance, do not care about anything. We are talking about basic rules of personal hygiene and minimal care for their appearance. Remember, people always meet on clothes.
Personal opinion
A man should have indestructible principles and his own opinion on any issue. Otherwise, he will either become henpecked, or he is already.
Devotion
At the moment, this quality is more typical for swan relationships than for human ones. Although ideally every man should be a devotee.
Love
To parents, darling, children, acquaintances, relatives and more. Love for others and the whole world ... because without it it is difficult to live and be in harmony with oneself.
Conclusion
So, the essence of a man is expressed in the presence of the above qualities. Although they are not a panacea. After all, every woman has her own understanding of what a real man should be.