Girls who did not suffer from obsessive fans - raise your hand! There are no such! Indeed, any of us at least once, but fell into a situation where a young man molested her with a reverent desire to meet. However, he does not care at all whether you are interested in making new acquaintances or not. Without really knowing how to stitch guys in a similar situation, you first try to hint to him that he is not your type, and then firmly say: “No!” But this does not stop the obsessive fan ... What to do? How to sew guys with whom you are not on the way? Read the article soon!
Not so simple
Some young people are so intrusive and boring that it makes them sick! They somehow find out your phone number and start getting their empty calls, they stick to you everywhere: in parks, discos, clubs and so on. Is the simplest “no” really the most proven way to stitch guys? Not! And for at least two reasons:
- Some individuals are so uneducated that in vain do not understand the solid girlish "no." Rather, it acts on them the exact opposite! They think they flirt with them like that ...
- There is one delicate moment here: just sometimes you don’t want to offend a person, if the guy is inherently good, kind, but not to your taste.
As you can see, you can’t get off with one negative answer. Need to connect the brain! After all, one of the two of you must do it! So, turn on the head!
How to sew guys correctly
- Talk to the obsessive guy. Talk calmly and measuredly. Bring to his attention that you and him are not on the way, that you are completely different people, that he has his own life, and you have your own.
- Tell a potential boyfriend that you already have another young man, that he is nervous and jealous. If the boy does not understand in a good way, we begin to act in a bad way!
How to sew guys once and for all
- Pretend to be a mercantile girl. As soon as he starts to "ride on your ears", "cool" him, saying that you only meet with boys who have an expensive car, as well as a big and fat ... purse! Insolently ask him to buy you an expensive ice cream, cocktail or chocolate bar.You can "finish off" him by asking about whether he has his own housing. If the boy still doesn’t get to the boy, he thinks that you’re joking like that, we move on to the next option!
- This is a rather vulgar and radical way, but sometimes it is simply necessary. If a constructive conversation does not work out, the guy is deaf, as if in a tank, then tell him that you are a lesbian (or a transsexual). Believe me, such a statement will confuse and frighten any guy. At one time, this method helped me a lot. True, I added a fairy tale to the legend about my sexual orientation that I am mentally unhealthy and will now start yelling at the whole neighborhood that they are raping me. Then she got up and left. The guy, too, seemed to be blown away by the wind. Girls, the way is checked! True, I doubt that my fan believed that I was a lesbian. Most likely, he thought that I was really not friends with my head, and decided not to mess.
- In the end, get up and leave. Will start to chase - go into a crowded place, get your phone and shout loudly that you are calling the police. Only without show-offs, girls. They said - done. Call the call center and declare that you are being persecuted. If the boy gets untied while you talk, then immediately tell the duty officer that he heard this and ran away. If you don’t leave, then just stand and wait for the police.
Girls, it’s not difficult to stitch guys. The main thing is to really want this and not give him any chance. Good luck