As you know, fights do not lead to good, because it is not without reason that they say that a bad world is better than a good quarrel and, all the more, a brawl. However, in real life, skirmishes sometimes happen and therefore are reflected in our night visions. In this connection, a completely relevant question arises: what is the dream of a fight in and what secret meaning does it carry? Armed with dream books, try to figure it out.
The interpretation of dreams that came from the ancient world
People began to start fights, and, accordingly, and see them in a dream, a long time ago, perhaps even earlier than they got the right to be called Homo sapiens, that is, rational beings. However, only in the era of high Hellenic culture did they bother to compose written interpretations of those outrages that they often witnessed in night visions. Especially succeeded in this classic of ancient Greek literature Aesop. With his dream book, perhaps, we will begin.
Explaining to contemporaries (and descendants, of course) that they were promised a fight that had come to him in a dream, the fabulist poet made the following judgments. In his opinion, to witness the battle, but not to get involved in it (which is very prudent) in real life means the approach of some kind of difficulty, which, however, will be overcome without much effort. If the dreamer nevertheless got into a fight, but not with the goal of supporting one side, but only in order to separate the buoys, this could portend to him imminent troubles, possibly caused by someone's rash act.
Further, according to the dream book compiled by Aesop, a fight in a dream with an adversary far superior in growth and physical development means an understatement of one's own merits and a clear understatement of self-esteem. If the dreamer not only refused to participate in the brawl, but also kept the warlike crowd from this, then in reality this promises him unexpected support in a difficult situation, as well as the acquisition of loyal and reliable friends.
Opinion of an authoritative psychoanalyst
At the beginning of the 20th century, the Austrian psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud also found it necessary to tell the world what a fight in a dream means. Those who are familiar with his works, probably know the scientist’s tendency in all movements of the human soul to perceive an intimate background. He did not change himself this time either. So, in his opinion, if a man sees himself fighting in a dream, then this indicates his aggressiveness towards sexual partners. Moreover, this “sexual aggressor” clearly has sadistic tendencies.
At the same time, according to a dream book compiled by Freud, a fight in a dream caused by a woman indicates that she is prone to masochism and therefore may become a victim of sexual aggression, well, at least from one of the men mentioned above. But on the other hand, dreams in which a woman constantly fights with someone betray her desire to establish a relationship with a sexual partner who is much younger in age.
Concluding his comments on what the fight seen in a dream may mean, the venerable master shares with his readers another curious thought. In his opinion, if a person dreams that he watches others fight, but does not intervene, this indicates his secret desire to watch the sexual joys of strangers, especially if there are elements of sadism in them.
Dream Interpretation for adults
Freud took the baton of interpretation of dreams in the style of “18+”, which was published in our days, “Intimate Dream Book”, the name of which testifies to its very specific specificity and this alone attracts the attention of readers. I must say that they do not remain disappointed. For example, about what the fight seen in a dream means, its authors boldly claim that it testifies to the dreamer's fear of failing on the love bed.
In their view, such dreams happen to people who feel insecure and for this reason at the most crucial moments give in to internal panic, which leads to the most sad results. As a result, they become stronger in their opinion of their inferiority and, as a result, refuse to try to establish intimate relations with someone.
But we will not talk about sad things, but let's see what the very confident British say about this, because they sometimes have to see fights of men and even women in a dream.
English dream book
Among the inhabitants of Foggy Albion, there were always enough brawlers, not without reason it was from there that modern boxing came to us. Well, since daytime realities, as a rule, become the plots of night visions, the British often had to ask themselves the question, what does it mean in a dream a fight, the witnesses or participants of which they happened to become. Based on their opinions, the English Dream Book, popular all over the world, was created, which has recently become widespread in our country.
The main idea contained in it is that dreams about fights can hardly promise good luck. In most cases, they portend to the dreamer family troubles caused by his misunderstanding of loved ones and attempts to withdraw into their selfish aspirations. Adversely, such a dream can also affect lovers - having fought in a dream, in reality they, as a rule, break up.
Do not run away from enemies and do not fight with the ladies
The British also noticed that if a dreamer in night dreams escapes from someone and gets a fair amount of slap in the face, then in real life this portends the triumph of his enemies, secret or overt. But if he still finds the strength in himself to overcome fear and, having turned around, to slap a persecutor into a good crack, then in reality he will be able to adequately resist the attackers.
In a very unexpected way, the authors of the "English Dream Book" answer the question of what the fight with a woman seen in a dream promises (although it is difficult to imagine a brawl between a gentleman and a lady). Oddly enough, but, in their opinion, she foreshadows the dreamer quick love, especially if the image of the lady with whom he mated in night vision corresponds to some real prototype. However, this novel will not bring happiness, but will only serve as the reason for emotional experiences.
Dream Interpretation Longo
Now let's see how such dreams are interpreted in our country, where a good fight from time immemorial has been almost an element of national culture. It is enough to recall fist fights “wall to wall”, without which not a single holiday could take place in the old days, or the “dismantling” between the merchant Kalashnikov and the oprichnik Kiribeevich sung by M. Yu. Lermontov. In order to fully get the information we are interested in, we turn to the dream book compiled by the popular Russian magician, illusionist and TV presenter Yuri Longo.
Characteristically, his point of view is fundamentally different from the above judgments. First of all, the wizard claims that a fight in a dream is a good omen, promising an active life to the dreamer, as it indicates a surge in his internal energy. People who receive such visions at night are not inclined to passively expect changes in life, but create their own future. In old age they, as a rule, “have something to remember.”
In a very original way, the author also interprets the question of what it means to separate the fighters in a dream. In his opinion, this testifies to the tendency of the dreamer to play the role of an arbiter in real life, which, however, is not always possible, especially in the absence of proper authority among others. If, however, he separates the brawlers, he receives a lot of cracks, then this indicates that in reality he likes to intervene outside of his affairs, for this he is often punished. Conclusion: do not stick your nose where you should not.
Fight with friends
Since in real life fights break out on a variety of occasions (and sometimes even without them) and have countless forms, then the dreams generated by them are very diverse. Their interpretations are given in the "Modern Dream Book". Opening it, you can, for example, find out what the fight with friends seen in a dream promises.
It turns out that it all depends on what is the real relationship with the dream hero. If in reality the dreamer is associated with strong friendly feelings, then after such a dream they will only intensify. And vice versa: a fight in a dream with a man who does not deserve friendship, but claims to be it, serves as a warning against further rapprochement.
Close fight with close relatives
Still very curious is the explanation of the question of what a fight with a father or mother seen in a dream can mean. If in reality such blasphemy is difficult to imagine, then in night visions it may well happen. As it turned out, this dream most often visits young people and testifies to their secret desire to free themselves from overly intrusive custody of parents or close relatives. They are advised, without condemning relatives, to act in accordance with their preferences, but at the same time not to go beyond the framework of generally accepted morality.
Never fight with girls!
At the end of the article, we will consider another rather absurd, but often encountered plot of dreams - a fight with a girl. He also finds his interpretation in a number of popular dream books. For example, Mr. Miller, already mentioned above, believed that a fight with a young lady indicates that the difficulties experienced by the dreamer in real life only seem serious and will soon be overcome.
However, he makes a reservation that if the result of the fight was any external damage - broken noses, torn hair or bruises under the eyes, then in reality things can turn into serious troubles at work or in personal life. It is even possible that they will have far-reaching consequences.
The opinion of our contemporaries
Mr. Miller expressed his opinion at the beginning of the 20th century, as for modern dream books, they also say what it means to fight in a dream with a girl. As in all other interpretations, the meaning of what is seen is made dependent on the overall plot context. For example, if the dreamer is not a participant, but only a fleeting witness to the fight, this indicates a quick and useless cash outlay. However, once he lingers, carefully examining the presented picture, how in reality he may find himself in the center of some disturbing events. At the same time, the dreamer should personally intervene in the fight, as in real life his best endeavors will be crossed out.
Two important circumstances should also be considered. First: if you dreamed of two (or several) fighting girls, you should not try to separate them, since in this case you can become a victim of a false accusation in reality. And the second: a wound received in a dream from a young person (heart wounds do not count), in real life can portend betrayal by loved ones.
Add a little optimism
However, not everything is so bad. One must strive for victory not only in reality, but also in a dream (all the more so since it is much easier), and the reward will not take long. It was established that if the dreamer nevertheless gets involved in a fight with the girl and can overcome her (which does not always work out), then in real life he will be able to avoid many unpleasant circumstances. We will try to always avoid not only fights, but fleeting quarrels, then dreams will not be clouded by their plots.