All people want attention and are very attentive to their person. They notice what they are told and how, even if they do not show it. When people live in marriage, then vain family responsibilities are taken for granted, and no one considers it necessary to say thank you for what the other half does every day. And often it is for such trifles that I want to hear words of gratitude. But it’s not necessary to wait for great events or achievements to say “thank you” to your loved one.
How to express your gratitude in words
It is very nice to hear words of gratitude to your husband from you. This may be a few sentences said in a conversation before bedtime. There may be a confession on the day of your family holiday or his birthday, SMS on Valentine's Day, or a note put quietly in your coat pocket before leaving on a business trip.
Most importantly, words of gratitude to the husband from the wife should be sincere, saturated with affection and tenderness. It doesn’t matter how old your man is, at any age he can feel like a teenager and blush from the message he has read. Of course, they want to hear nice words at any time of the day, and if you want to have a happy marriage, you will not save on words. Kind words are one of the most valuable things that cost us nothing, but makes the heart of another person beat faster.
If it's hard to express your feelings
Most people run into problems when it comes to expressing their feelings. The wife is faced with the fact that she cannot express gratitude to her husband, cannot pick up words. But it’s never too late to start, in writing it is easier to do, and then switch to verbal gratitude, which will not be limited to a dry “thank you”.
If it is difficult to come up with gratitude in a beautiful form itself, then there is nothing to worry about borrowing some thoughts from other women. The main thing is that these thoughts correspond to what you want to say.
Thoughts in Prose
Here are a few options on how gratitude to a husband from a wife may sound, or vice versa, and it is not necessary to wait for some reason. So, wishes from the spouse:
“You and I have been together for so long that it seems to me that has always been like this.” During this time, I still have love for you and the most sincere feelings. You are not just a husband to me, you are my best friend with whom I can talk about everything in the world. I am never bored with you. Thank you for joyful and sad moments, you are always there, endlessly support me and trust me. Without you, my life would be completely different. I love you!
“I am so grateful to you for everything you do for us.” Every day you go to work so that we don’t need anything, you look for ways to fulfill our little desires - it is so valuable. I admire your mind, the strength of your character. You are the best for me in the world.
“Thank you, my beloved, for being always with me, for your patience, your wisdom, which can save us from any problems.” In this world it’s not easy to build a happy marriage, but I’m lucky. In your hands I can be weak and fragile, but at the same time feel completely safe. Thank you for being in my life.
Men are not indifferent to verses
This is absolutely true! There are a lot of male poets, they themselves often show their feelings for the fair sex. And how pleasant it is when a beloved woman expresses gratitude to her husband in poetic form. It can be short poems or long poems, it all depends on your mood.
How many years have we lived together? But as before - the same thing,
I look at you spellbound and goosebumps run.
You sent me this universe, and it could not be otherwise.
Among thousands of each other found, for me it means a lot.
With my love and fear, I opened the door for you
You once believed in me with your boundless love too.
I am grateful to you for your trust, care and understanding.
For support, for your friendship and attention.
It’s so nice that in this universe you give me warmth and summer,
I am glad with a word, a smile, thank you for that.
Short poems with words of gratitude
You can write a small verse in gratitude to her husband for some specific action or in support. For instance:
My beloved, I am immensely pleased
To be your friend, a good and faithful wife.
I appreciate your everyday work, your strong hands.
I always miss you, I do not like moments of separation.
Thank you for the warmth, for gifts, flowers.
It’s so nice that in one of your names
My dreams have come true.
Kind words are always pleasant
In the everyday life of our men, other women are also surrounded: at work, old friends, former classmates. So that none of them could attract him with their sweet speeches, you should be on your own and always be able to choose the right words. Gratitude to her husband is always pleasant, he will like it if you notice his efforts and will be grateful for them.
Kind words are a special sign of attention, although people do not often show them. We were taught from childhood to say "thank you" even where we do not feel gratitude, calling it the rule of good form. Fatigue from insincere "thanks" makes you silent where you just need to talk. That is why sincere gratitude to her husband will be appreciated by him.
If you don’t know what to thank for, then say “thank you” for the fact that your husband came home without delay or did something for you. You do not like it when your efforts are taken for granted.
How to find a reason to thank
Sometimes you get so used to taking everything for granted that you don’t even know what to cling to. It is enough to set a goal for yourself and be attentive and observant. Words of gratitude should be without sarcasm. Express your emotions, say that you are pleased that your husband took out the garbage, because you are so tired that you already had no strength for this. Or brought home products on the list that you wrote.
- I am pleased that you spend time with children.
“I'm so glad when you don't stay at work.”
- Thank you for buying me sweets, I’m right in the mood!
Even such small phrases contribute to good relations in the family. Such an attitude will become an example for your husband, so that he too would be grateful for those simple things that you do for him.