The old feelings have gone somewhere, there is no tenderness, and sex with her husband is happening less and less. As if they had replaced a man, love seemed to have disappeared. Even the very existence of a family is in jeopardy. What to do if the husband has cooled?
Start by analyzing your relationship. Often the husband cools if the wife initially loved him less than he did her. At a certain stage, he began to realize that he was giving too much strength without receiving the proper return, the romantic halo evaporated and the husband remained with the understanding that his love was not mutual enough. A wife who is used to the position of a spoiled princess, usually experiences this situation rather painfully.
However, a more common case is when the wife, on the contrary, loves more and pays too much attention to her husband. He gets tired of her calls, guardianship and trouble - and begins to try to communicate less in order to somehow reduce the amount of desire directed at him. This is logical - I give you less attention, and you give me less attention. As a rule, very good women dissolve in a husband, and therefore they are especially sorry when they sincerely care - but they are rejected, tired of excessive attention.
Also, no matter how trite, the reason for the cooling is that the woman's appearance has changed not for the better. Too many people want to relax after the wedding, too often women are confident in the unearthly love of their spouse. Love may remain after the wife crosses the centner mark on the scales, but in most cases the attraction suffers greatly. And a man begins with potency problems. And if he doesn’t succeed with his wife, he can blame his wife for this and with good conscience go to the side. What to do if the husband walks and does not pay due attention?
You need to change yourself for the better, and the goal should not only be the improvement of external data. Yes, good fitness combined with reduced calorie intake will make you slimmer, but this alone is not enough. Excess weight, as a rule, is also associated with the disharmony of the inner world, with the tendency to replace all pleasant emotions with food, a certain stop in development. In order not to feel pain due to the inattention of the husband, you need to take your time with new activities, you need to feel independent and successful. You must, within the framework of the possible, become a new personality, and not just return the beautiful contours. It is good to find a young trainer in the gym with a reputation who will show what to do. If the husband has cooled, you need to get more male attention. And in predominantly women's groups it is often very difficult to get support. Of course, her husband cannot be cheated. You can intrigue a little, but there should not be real betrayal, because then the husband will easily leave you, you yourself will give him a good reason.
On the other hand, you can play a little with a sense of jealousy. Let the brothers of friends or other acquaintances of acquaintances seem to accidentally compliment you on the street and pay attention to your husband’s eyes. He must know that not only he needs you. It is very stimulating. There can be a lot of answers to the question: “What to do if the husband has cooled down”, but in order to really change the relationship, you must become a new person. So that he falls in love again. It’s good to radically change the color of your hair and hairstyle, and for the time being it’s good to hide the figure in spacious clothes until you show him the final result of your efforts. Read more upscale literature, not detective stories and women's novels, but classical Russian and foreign literature. After a few weeks of daily reading, you will notice that your consciousness has become wider, you use other words and look at the world in a new way.
There is another situation. It seems to you that your husband was bewitched. What to do in this situation? If his attitude has changed dramatically, this may be, in this case, you need to try to persuade him to go to confession and communion. However, more often the attitude changes gradually and the sorceress has nothing to do with it. In no case do not contact the witch yourself with the question of what to do. If the husband has cooled, only you can save the family. Work on oneself and relationships. And no other way.