Quite often, men and women wonder how a husband should relate to his wife. After all, it is no secret to anyone that harmony in the family depends on it to a great extent . Yes, she is believed by many to be achieved through the behavior of a woman. But at the same time, a man must behave with dignity. Otherwise, there will be no harmony. After all, a woman is the same person. She should not tolerate bullying and disrespect for herself. So what features should be taken into account so that relations between spouses develop well?
Respect
The first and rather important point is respect. Without it, it is impossible, in principle, to imagine normal relations. How should a husband relate to the wife he loves? Respect.
This does not mean being henpecked. But a man should respect his beloved woman. It is impossible to insult, humiliate and offend, all the more, raise a hand on your wife. This is the height of disrespect. It is not recommended to speak about the spouse’s parents.
Equally
The relationship between husband and wife is something that cannot be described briefly. Each family has its own rules of conduct and relationships. Despite this, there are still common features.
The next tip is to treat your beloved woman as an equal. And in any situation. Usually this feature is no longer observed when the wife goes on maternity leave and sits at home with her children, without replenishing the family budget. Even so, the husband should not reproach the woman. Spouses are equal members of the family. In any case, in Russia. This rule is regulated at the legislative level. Therefore, it is worth remembering that a man and a woman in a family have equal rights. It is impossible to infringe them.
Conversations
How should a husband relate to his wife? Separate attention requires conversations between spouses. It's no secret that women tend to communicate a lot. But men do not. They speak briefly and to the point.
A good husband will learn to listen and listen to his beloved wife. Do not interrupt, you need to give her a talk. It is necessary to allocate time for conversations daily. and do it not as a favor. For most women, a husband is the meaning of life. And so she tries to share her feelings and emotions with him.
What's next? If a dispute has arisen, in no case should one stoop to humiliation. If emotions prevail, you should either avoid dialogue, or communicate with a woman calmly. As much as possible. Wives are emotional people. Very often, they remember everything that was said by their husbands in haste. And in the future it will play a cruel joke with a man.
Support and empathy
How should a husband relate to his wife? Women, in view of the special structure of the psyche, the structure of their organisms, require sympathy and support. Especially if there are any problems. Do not immediately decide everything for a woman. First of all, it is required to support her and to sympathize, empathize. Both in word and in deed. Show tenderness and affection when the wife needs it.
A husband is a support for a woman. Therefore, the spouse must be sure that her beloved man will be able to support her in difficult times. This is extremely important. Perhaps for her husband, sympathy and empathy are not so significant. But for the wife - completely. A marriage in which a girl does not have support from her beloved man is doomed. Most likely, she will begin to look for her on the side.
Support
How should a husband relate to his wife? It has already been said that a man is a support for a woman. The head of the family, the "stone wall", which protects from adversity and danger. This behavior is inherent in a real man.
The most important thing is that the support really be. And so that it is not an illusion based on words. Beloved wife should feel safe with the man. Then she will be able to give her affection and love to her husband. Only in this case a harmonious relationship is possible.
Unfortunately, now the trend is that wives begin to take on part of men's responsibilities, and rely on a spouse fails. From here arise family problems that cannot be solved in any way. A loving husband is a reliable protection and support for a woman. The man who gives confidence in tomorrow.
Home, baby, entertainment
It has already been said that spouses in marriage should be on an equal footing. Now a little specificity. Quite often after the wedding, the beloved wife begins to serve her husband, she is engaged in home, everyday life, and family. In the modern world, women, as already mentioned, often work to help her husband provide for his family. And then they step on the “second shift” - they do household chores.
A similar phenomenon for a relationship is fatal. How should a husband relate to his wife? Help with the child and housework. Give a woman time on herself. And if the husband rests from time to time (for example, he goes fishing once a week), then his wife also has a similar day of rest. This is especially true when both work. It is unfair if, after a hard day, the husband sits down to play at the computer while his wife cleans, erases, cooks, does homework with the children, and so on.
In other words, there should be mutual help and understanding in the family. Of course, every good husband must remember his male responsibilities. And do not involve a wife in them. If it so happened that for some life circumstances a woman began to perform male functions, a part of the female husband takes over. This is the guarantee of equality and successful relations, harmony in the cell of society.
Pregnancy
Very often people are interested in how a husband should treat a pregnant wife. Indeed, during this period, a woman's body is rebuilt. Someone becomes calm, someone - an unbearable hysterical. How to behave?
The following tips will help a man maintain harmony during the pregnancy of his beloved:
- Pregnancy is not a disease. This should be remembered. But, as many say, it’s easier to go to work with a cold. It should be remembered that during pregnancy a woman is most vulnerable. Therefore, it is recommended to be patient and not to react violently to emotional changes.
- Again, pregnancy is not a disease. Shaking your wife like a crystal vase is not necessary. But the requests of a woman in a position worth listening to.
- Support and attention - this is what a pregnant woman needs. If the wife asks to go for an ultrasound scan and look at the baby, her husband should better agree. And show interest in the unborn child. The woman will be pleased.
- The wife’s tantrums and strange desires are temporary. They, as already mentioned, need to endure. In no case threaten to divorce, do not leave the girl "in position" alone.
- Less stress. The woman whom the man loves needs to be protected from any troubles during pregnancy. After all, the baby’s health depends on it!
All these tips will help a man prove himself as a loving and attentive person. Of course, you should not forget about all other features. In principle, the key to success is:
- respect;
- attention and understanding;
- equality;
- ignoring some female emotional outbursts;
- manifestation of concern.
According to Sharia
Most peoples of the world have special instructions on how a husband should relate to his wife. This is a normal occurrence. What can offer, for example, biblical legends, as well as Muslim traditions?
According to Sharia, a man should be guided by the following tips:
- Communicate with his wife on equal terms and not prohibit everything that the Sharia allows.
- Tolerate resentment that a woman says. Do not respond to her aggression. Be nice to your beloved during quarrels.
- To please the wife, to make laugh and entertain. But at the same time it is important to maintain harmony, to remain authority for the girl.
- Keep a woman. It is necessary. A husband who does not contain his beloved is a shame for the family. At the same time, the money a wife earns is her money. She has the right to spend them as she sees fit.
- A naughty woman (who does not follow Sharia) should be raised. It is not allowed to beat hard, in extreme cases and not in the face.
- All wives are treated equally. This applies to both security and attention.
- Protect and protect a woman who is a wife. Protect where Sharia is not prohibited.
- If the husband does not love his wife, then do not show his neglect. To humiliate, offend, insult, beat - too. It is customary for Muslims to treat women with respect.
Bible
And what tips on male behavior in the family can be distinguished from the Bible? To be honest, the instructions are somewhat similar. What does the Bible say? How should a husband relate to his wife?
Among the teachings are:
- The manifestation of firmness of character and at the same time tenderness for the wife.
- Beloved woman must constantly praise, admire her. Then the girl will improve.
- Be on equal footing. Family is equal. It is required to give in to each other, to help.
- Do not criticize your wife. The woman who is next to the man is the choice of the head of the family. It is not necessary to criticize a weaker sex.
- Keep in mind the importance of "little things."
- Do not ignore the woman’s need to be with the man. Attention beloved should be given first.
- Satisfy the needs of the wife, with understand to relate to mood swings.
There is an old Russian proverb: “A good husband has a bad bird and a queen. And a bad man has a fool.”
All of these tips, if observed, will provide a woman with comfort, tranquility and coziness. The girl will happily satisfy her husband's desires. Therefore, it is important to understand that harmony in the family depends not only on wives. If a man behaves with dignity, then there will be a corresponding couple next to him!