Somehow this issue was featured in the well-known program “100 to 1”. He was asked on the street by ordinary people, and the participants in the TV show had to guess the answers received. Here are the six most popular answers to the question of what or who may be ideal: spouse, figure, marriage, man, couple, person. Within this article, we will not disclose all these concepts, but focus only on the latter. In our opinion, this is the most obvious answer. So, the perfect person, who is he?
Perfectionism
Perfectionism is the installation by people of excessive demands on their own lives. Once they asked themselves the question: “What or who can be perfect?” - and formed in their head the image of a perfect person. For this reason, they cannot accept their imperfection or forgive themselves errors in any kind of activity. They are unhappy with their appearance and regularly look for flaws in their lives. Inconsistency with the image of a perfect person causes suffering.
What to do?
If you find in yourself the traits of a perfectionist who thinks he knows what or who can be perfect, then just accept this fact. Admit to yourself: "Yes, I am so and I want to fix it." Do not blame yourself for the mistakes. On the contrary, experience must be drawn from them.
Learn, develop, try to love yourself as you are. There should be harmony and balance in everything. We advise you to become a nonsense. Surely you heard the phrase "healthy do not care." Just do not go too far. Always think about balance.
If we were asked the question: “What or who can be ideal?”, Then we would answer it like this: “There is no perfection in this world.” After all, it is the imperfection of each person that makes him unique. If people were perfect, then the world would consist of biorobots. Therefore, look at life soberly, take on your own personality, and every day try to become a little better than yourself yesterday!