Everyone already knows what an ideal husband should be. This is even known to the men themselves, however, unfortunately, they do not always adhere to the rules. Everything is clear with an ideal lover (here it turns out better for men). But what should a woman be like so that she can claim the title of ideal lover?
To understand how to excite a man, it is not necessary to study any books on sexology or visit doctors. You just need to understand for yourself a few rules of conduct in life and in love:
- First of all, a woman must love herself. Oddly enough, only the one of us who loves ourselves more than him, can be loving, and affectionate, and will not encroach on his freedom in the family and relationships, and be uninhibited in sex and temperamental in love. And she goes to bed not to fulfill her “conjugal duty," but for herself. Only that woman who lives with him because he is dear to her, and not for the sake of family and children, knows how to quickly excite a man. In principle, that's just to all of them taken together it makes an indelible impression and starts with its behavior. A woman who loves herself is an eternally popular mystery for the stronger sex. But in the process of solving it, you can live your whole life. What could be more interesting?
- You need to behave relaxedly in sex. Of course, the art of flirting is a concept that everyone owns to one degree or another. That's just when it comes to bed, the woman begins to be shy and loses the courage that slipped in her words. Sex is a natural continuation of romance in love. Remember that seductive underwear should not be worn for someone, but for yourself. Just like that, for self-confidence and increase self-esteem. You need to speak quietly and muffledly. In no case will a woman who screams will ever have a clue how to arouse a man, because a loud voice is not seductive, but disgusting. And finally, remember that you need to be able to have fun. Then your partner will also be satisfied.
- You need to be able to kiss. Do not kiss (which is also very important), namely kiss, caress, alternate gentle touches with more persistent. Much is known and written about how to excite a man with a kiss. One thing is clear: no pressure and onslaught, because the lips are an erogenous zone, they do not endure haste. Love to kiss, do it gently, touching it lightly, then replace these caresses with more passionate, persistent ones that speak about your serious intentions and desire to continue.
- Be proactive, but do not show aggression. Remember that aggressiveness is a sign of powerlessness. Start petting first, luring and beckoning with you. You will see what effect you produce, especially if you are doing it for the first time. Remember that being in bed a passive partner, quietly waiting for her fate, you will receive a corresponding appeal. A man will behave with you like a log. Pleasures, as a rule, in this situation no one gets. The fact is that knowing how to excite a man, you need to put this into practice. Not everyone will understand that you want to make closer contact with him if you are sitting and watching TV in anticipation of the first step from him.
- Strive to please your partner. The best rule in this case is to give more than receive. Love to bring pleasure to the partner, then, as proven by sexologists, your pleasure will be much stronger.
- Know how to understand a man and strive to make him understand you. A bed is not a place to live in hints. Tell him directly, in the intervals between caresses and kisses, what you want from him. The next time is unlikely to be repeated.
Remember that it is one thing to know how to excite a man, and another to be able to do it. This is not the whole list of rules for a woman’s behavior, but the main thing is not quantity, but quality. So gain confidence, courage and go!