Do you want to hug a girl for the first time, but don’t know how? Or maybe you’ve been together for a long time, but you still don’t understand how to determine the moment when you should use a sweet hug? Let's try to figure out how to hug the girl with whom you start a relationship, continue, or for the time being, only friendship.
Pick the right moment
The first and most important rule of a good hug is choosing the right moment. It is very difficult for many young people to determine when a girl is ready for this. And often such a problem arises: the guy hugged the girl by the waist, and she called him and ran away.
What moment can be called correct:
- When did you just meet. This hug will be interpreted as "I'm glad to see you" or "I missed you very much." But you should not lean on a fragile girl with all the weight, just simply gently acquire as a friendly gesture.
- Emotional moment. The girl complains about something or vice versa shared a joyful event - time for a hug. And again, remember that a girl is not a man and patting on the back from all over with shouting "Hurray, well done" is not a good idea.
- Goodbye. Again, a nice gesture saying that you will miss your companion.
How to understand that a girl wants to be hugged?
If we want to understand how to hug a girl properly, then it is worth realizing the most important thing - her body language. It is very important to catch non-verbal (that is, not those that speak in words) signs that the girl is already dreaming that you hug her to her. The list of signs is attached below, but remember that these are only stereotyped, and each girl is an individual:
- The girl looks at you, smiles and looks into her eyes.
- He winds his locks on his finger, touches his hair, as if drawing your attention to them.
- When you sit together, she tries to reduce the distance, and her feet and hips are directed in your direction.
- Concerns you during the conversation. Can lightly touch your shoulder or pat him when you joke.
- Shortens the distance by asking to rate her perfume or beads.
How to understand that the girl does not want to be hugged?
For a successful understanding of how to hug a girl, you must also understand when a girl is not ready to hug. And if in cases with a long relationship you can already roughly understand the mood of the girl, then there may be difficulties with new acquaintances.
Does the girl turn away and not look you in the eye? Step back when you shorten the distance? Her lips are compressed and she is not laughing at your jokes? Disturbing signs, but do not mean yet that you are disgusting to a girl. It is possible that she believes that a guy and a girl are embracing only after a long meeting, and simply not yet time.
You can’t hug a girl by force, it’s not only wrong, but it can completely destroy the relationship between you.
Hug tips
We supplement the article with some tips on how to hug a girl:
- Remember hygiene products. After sports, you need to take a shower, otherwise you can scare away the lady with "aromas".
- Do not rush at the girl suddenly. Hugs are a smooth process.
- Make contact, listen to the girl and what she says.
- Do not hug for too long unless you are a couple in love.
- Do not jerk your hands sharply.
Many girls do not really like to cuddle. It is worth finding out if the girl is tender with you, but does not respond to hugs.
For couples who are already in a long relationship, it is usually not difficult to understand when one of the parties needs support. However, if you have problems with this, then try the trial and error method. If a girl says she doesn’t want to hug, this does not mean that she has stopped loving you or is cheating on you. It is likely that she was used to experiencing some emotions inside herself, and you disturb her cocoon. But she will gladly share the joyful moments with you. Hug more often - it brings together!