Male psychology is a very complex thing. Representatives of the stronger sex live with women, take care of them, but at the same time use their "rules of the game." How to become a winner in it? To do this, you need to know these rules and understand them. The better the lady will learn the secrets of male psychology, the more she will rise in the eyes of her lover as a wife, as well as as the mother of his children.
Three whales?
Relations between women with a stronger sex are often tense and complex. Sometimes, even after ten years of living with their spouse, ladies do not always know how to predict his future actions and understand the motives of his actions in one or another case.
There are women who believe that studying and understanding male psychology is not so difficult. After all, the life of the stronger sex is built on three pillars. These are hobbies, work and woman. They believe that these components are nothing but the cornerstones of male psychology. But everything is far from simple. That is why male psychology for women is as dark a forest as female psychology for men. But it is still possible to study the main motives for the behavior of your companion.
Fine organization
Male psychology is such that only in appearance the sons of Adam seem so unshakable, assertive and self-confident. Sometimes a feeling arises that they called the strong sex only because of their physical superiority. Women can be much stronger in some situations. And this power is difficult to compare with anything. Her manifestation is female love, wisdom, and even cunning. But the representatives of the stronger sex have a delicate and vulnerable soul. And in this lie the most important secrets of male psychology. The sons of Adam are creatures that must be handled with particular care. In this case, one should not discuss stories with persistent princes and impenetrable knights. In real life, relationships with men are nothing more than thin crystal. Of course, shaking them is not necessary. But in any case, a woman should show understanding, respect and sensitivity, doing this unobtrusively and tactfully. Otherwise, in the soul of her chosen one, she will affect the deepest feelings.
How to understand the psychology of a man in a relationship with a woman? Men's secrets consist in the fact that the stronger sex also dream of being loved. Having realized this once, the lady will gain invisible power, becoming incredibly attractive to members of the opposite sex.
Without stepping back
Based on our experience, each of us knows that any person can make a mistake. This is a vital axiom. However, when studying male psychology, it becomes clear that it does not apply to representatives of the stronger sex. In their opinion, they cannot be mistaken by definition. This is especially true in cases where, as a result, a woman is right in a given situation. Studies have convincingly proved: the likelihood that a man admits his mistake is almost zero. Maybe, and just for the sake of appearance, he will apologize. However, somewhere there, deep down, his opinion will not change. The man will still be convinced that someone else is to blame for the situation. It can be colleagues at work or ill-wishers, a fateful combination of circumstances, etc. Moreover, he will believe in this completely sincerely.
How to understand male psychology in this case? What causes such an illogical human behavior? Yes, he just wants to stay a good guy for everyone and not disappoint anyone's expectations. This is how male psychology works. There are simply no men who would not strive to be the best. And this applies not only to the current period. Such a subtlety in the psychology of the stronger sex took place dozens and even thousands of years ago. Of course, deep down they realize that they made a mistake. However, if men are constantly reminded of their mistakes, then this will make it even worse.
What should a woman do in the situation when she still turned out to be right? Do not insist too much on your point of view and constantly remind the man of his loss. You should look at the situation with his eyes. Of course, this is not easy. However, a woman who truly values relationships must learn this. In the eyes of his lady, the gentleman should see only admiration and delight. And this despite the fact that at the moment he says absolute stupidity.
Relationship to marriage
What is male psychology in love and relationships with women? Representatives of the stronger sex rarely make friends for the sake of a serious and long relationship. Thoughts about marriage are still more likely to be visited by women. Of course, this statement does not apply to first love, which is considered the most sincere, strong and eternal.
But be that as it may, an attempt by a woman to “ring” her lover or even hint at it can seriously spoil not only his mood, but also the existing relationship. The fact is that such things for men act as an encroachment on personal freedom, which is something holy to them, and are perceived very painfully.
This allows you to compare male psychology with the psychology of lions. After all, these animals initially create a certain personal territory, and only after some time they allow females to appear on it. Movement of women towards the establishment of family relationships should be careful and slow. Any wrong step - and everything will have to start all over again. In this case, be patient. With the manifestation of excessive pressure, a man can simply close on "his territory" and completely disappear from the life of a lady. That is why , in order to achieve its goal and legitimize relations, it will take patience and patience again.
Desire for approval
The psychology of men is such that they all, regardless of age, love to brag. There may be any reason for this — a new car, the number of books read, or a model wife. This man proves to others that he is the best. Representatives of the stronger sex especially brag about women. The admiration of the ladies serves as a real balm for their souls. Researchers believe that it is enthusiastic attention that is the main incentive for the sons of Adam against women. Male psychology is built in such a way that, having received the approval of his beautiful companion (especially if he is not indifferent to her), a person is capable of much. Unfortunately, history does not have information about how many bloody battles were launched and brilliant discoveries were made for the kind words of the lady of the heart and the splendor of her beautiful eyes.
Of course, everyone needs approval of their actions and deeds. However, with regard to men, this quality is especially pronounced in them. This is how the representatives of the stronger sex are arranged. Anyone who is familiar with this facet of male psychology regarding women can safely take advantage of it. Having become a constant source of admiration for your companion, you can achieve a lot.
Communication process
We all know well that brevity is the sister of talent. And this fact should be taken into account in the process of communication, which men and women consider from different perspectives. For ladies in this case, the most important is the form. They can communicate just for fun. For a man, on the contrary, any conversation is just a way of transmitting information. This is another secret of the difference in psychology between the two sexes. Representatives of the strong half of humanity perceive what is said literally. They, as a rule, are not strong in hints, ornate sentences and hidden ways of communication. Men are specific. Based on this, a woman should build her verbal communication. She should not assume that the chosen one will read the thoughts of her companion, like an open book, and she will understand all the hints literally. It is worth recognizing that the structure of the male brain is somewhat different. That is why so often bitter disappointment comes to the ladies. To avoid this, it is worth remembering that the more a request or desire is veiled, the more likely it is that a man simply does not understand it. His beloved needs to speak directly about what is required of him.
It often happens that a woman tries to make her request with the help of hints. It seems to her that she expressed herself quite clearly. But the man does not understand the desires of his lady. This annoys her, and her chosen one only feels that they are unhappy, but does not know what to do about it.
Women should know that a man is always logical and concrete. He is used to asking direct questions and getting clear answers. For ladies who want to be understood, it is recommended to learn how to speak a language that is understandable to the interlocutor. It will be much more effective than guessing desires and thoughts.
Emotion behind the iron mask
The world of men is very oppressive and harsh. In it, any manifestation of emotions is often considered a weakness. That is why from a very early age a real man seeks not to show his emotions, hiding them behind an impenetrable mask.
For example, problems at work. A man immediately turns into a non-talkative and gloomy, and sometimes aggressive creature that only wants to be left alone. And this applies to everyone, including children, spouse and even parents.
Very often, this behavior of a loved one leads to the fact that a woman begins to build very negative assumptions. In her soul there are bad suspicions, while she either takes offense and goes into herself, or arranges an interrogation for her soulmate, taking offense afterwards. But in either case, the woman only aggravates the situation, adding to the man a bad mood.
This issue will be resolved later. This will happen only after the problem is "digested" by the man himself. And it does not matter what happened to him: a quarrel with a friend, resentment or conflict at work. There is only one way out of all these situations. What should a woman do in this case? She just needs to be patient and understand this situation without aggravating it even more. After all, her lover is not to blame for anything. This is male psychology.
Love for companies
As you know, people are collective creatures. Together they united in ancient times, they love to do this today. This is especially pleasing to the stronger sex. Almost all of its representatives, from small to large, prefer communication in companies. Such groups can gather by age and by interests, as well as with the aim of creating an alliance against a common enemy. In the first case, everything is clear. Peers will always find topics for conversation. A combination of interests, which may coincide in any field (fishing, sports, cars), is considered quite natural.
As for the third species, it is the most aggressive and saturated adrenaline. Representatives of such a company are ruthless to opponents, do not perceive the points of view of other people who are distinguished by an increased sense of justice.
The fact that a man spends a lot of time in the company, a woman can relate differently. In this case, there are only two options. The first of them is to take everything for granted. However, you can even become one of the members of this group. In the second option, you will need to work out settings for yourself, believing that a loved one has just a wonderful company, that he has good friends, etc.
Attitude to the disease
What could be worse than an ill man? After all, in early childhood, he perfectly learned that during his illness, he automatically becomes the center of the universe. In such a period, he is allowed not to do much, while others at the same time show concern and attention.
A woman should not break this scenario. She needs to cook her beloved broths and decoctions, feed from a spoon and sympathize with a serious condition. This is where the little family secrets of relationships lie. Male psychology allows them to take all this for granted. This will save real family happiness.
A man in love
As we have already said, representatives of the stronger sex tend to hide their own feelings, considering this an element of weakness. However, male psychology in love is somewhat different. This feeling can change a person’s behavior. You can find out that love has come to a man by the following:
- Increased attention. He seeks to be with his beloved woman as often as possible, or at least watch her.
- Idealization of your own behavior. Men in love tend to become better than their rivals, while changing in a positive direction.
- Trust. The psychology of men is such that if they are in love, they are ready to tell the lady of their heart about the personal and the innermost.
- Praise the object of adoration. In the early stages of falling in love, only the positive aspects of the chosen one are noticed.
- Jealousy Any representative of a strong half of humanity always wants to be the only woman. This is male psychology. In relation to men, in this case, a steady desire is shown to enter the struggle with their rivals. Nobody intends to share the chosen one with others.
Relationship strength
How is a man attached to a woman? Male psychology allows us to talk about the representatives of the stronger sex as hunters who are not at all interested in easy prey. That is why ladies need:
- Show sexuality and femininity. After all, the sons of Adam love with their eyes, paying great attention to the external image. At the same time, a woman should not confuse sexuality with vulgarity
- Smile more often. Such a person looks cheerful and cheerful, attracting people like a magnet.
- Show female wisdom. A man always seeks to be considered the head of the family. That is why a woman should do everything possible to maintain this status.
- Admire your chosen one. For any reason, it is necessary to notice all the achievements and advantages of a loved one.
It is worth remembering that the more a man invests in a woman, the higher the importance of the lady of the heart in his eyes and the stronger the relationship.
In this case, not only money is considered as such investments. Attachments can be in the form of time, gifts and actions. At the same time, a woman should respond with gratitude, recognizing her chosen one as a magnificent and worthy companion, not stinting on kind words and compliments.