For each mother, the question of how to marry a daughter so that she is happy in marriage is the most important dilemma in her life. However, this problem is easily solved with the help of sincere prayers to God and the saints, who should only ask for a husband for their daughter, so that later everything will work out in the best way.
Prayer rules
Even the mother’s strongest prayer for her daughter’s marriage can only be empty words, if you say it thoughtlessly. Therefore, when communicating with the Lord and the saints, you should be guided by some rules that will help you to be heard.
- Before you begin to pray and ask for higher powers for help, you need to go to church, buy candles there, confess your sins, ask God for forgiveness and give alms to those in need.
- During the ceremony, you should completely focus on your words, which should come from the heart and be fully felt.
- It is not necessary to memorize the text of a prayer word for word, it is much more important to pronounce it, sincerely believing that the request will be heard, and the desire will be fulfilled and will bring only good.
- You cannot pray when you are in an absent-minded state and your thoughts are hovering elsewhere.
- The best time for the ceremony is the morning when all the household members are still sleeping and you can fully concentrate on communicating with higher powers.
- Before praying, you should wash yourself, put a cross on your neck, put a burning candle in front of the icon and kneel before it.
Appeal to Nicholas the Wonderworker
Since St. Nicholas was the father of three girls whom he could only marry after much torment, it was he who should offer a prayer that his daughter would marry.
- I ask you, Blessed Nicholas, about your beloved child (full name of your daughter) and I trust in you. Help my daughter as soon as possible to meet her chosen one, who would be measured and honest, faithful and kind. And protect my child from marriage with a sinful and lascivious man, careless and demonic. Amen!
Another prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker
In addition, there is another answer to the question of how to marry a daughter to a good man. In this case, you will also need to stand before the image of St. Nicholas, light a candle in front of the icon and pronounce the words of the prayer.
- I appeal to you, Nikolai Ugodnik, our protector and savior. I tearfully ask you to help my daughter (daughter's full name) with a wonderful sign in the form of a good, kind husband. I beg you, do not be angry with my prayer and do not refuse your luminous mercy. May the marriage of my child come true, and in Heaven all reason. Let the daughter's marriage be completed, and all this will be relied upon by the miracle of God. So be it in the name of the Father, and his Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Prayer to Mother Matron
If you are looking for a strong prayer to give your daughter in marriage, the Prayer Matrona of Moscow is best for this. True, before pronouncing his words, one should fully realize the need for him. After all, if your daughter is still young, inexperienced and does not want to bind herself by marriage, then praying for her marriage is not recommended. And if, on the contrary, a girl has long dreamed of marriage, but she does not manage to find a good husband, then it is worth saying the words of prayer.
- My dear mother Matrona is begging you tearfully, I ask you for the happiness of your beloved daughter (full name of the daughter). Help her with her choice not to make a mistake and protect her from unfaithful and dashing men. Send her a bright marriage and a long marriage life, which will proceed according to the laws of God. Thy will be done. Amen.
Another prayer to the blessed Matron
But there is another option for marrying a daughter through prayer to old Matron. True, in this case it will be necessary to first light three candles purchased in the church, imagine a happy marriage of a daughter with a good and caring man, and only then whisper the words of the prayer to herself.
- Oh, blessed old woman, mother Matron! I ask you, protect the child of my beloved (full name of the daughter) from pernicious marriage, and in return send her chosen one good. And I implore you, let him not be married but not rich, with no heavy hand, but not drink, and not walk. May they live happily according to the laws of God, glorifying God the Father, his Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Prayer to the Great Martyr Catherine
In addition, when asked about how to marry a daughter to a good man, clergymen answer that mothers need to pray to St. Catherine for this, which helps them find happiness in marriage. To do this, you need to say the words of prayer in front of the icon, and at the end of it, ask the martyr in your own words for the daughter of a good husband. And the prayer sounds like this:
- Oh, blessed martyr Katerino! You are the vessel of purity chosen by the Lord, the pillar of Orthodoxy and our representative and ascetic, who is now resting on the holy mountain. We pray you, hear the voice of our prayer, behold how thy servants are in poverty, light our darkened mind and endow us with wisdom. Help us, with the help of your prayer, to defeat our carnal desires and the machinations of evil spirits, and then we will be free from their hostile attacks during life and its outcome. We ask you, a wise virgin, grant us everything that we desire for our benefit, ask this from your beloved Bridegroom, Christ our God. And then we will hasten to praise the Lord of mercy in prayers of thanks and begin to offer him honor and glory now and ever and ever. Amen.
A plot for the marriage of a daughter
In addition to prayers, there is also a conspiracy of the mother, how to marry her daughter. If the mother reads his words, then the man who is connected with fate with the girl will appear in her life as soon as possible and make her happy. And in order for the ritual to work, it will be necessary to go out into the open place early in the morning, face the rising sun and pronounce magic words.
- Far, far, beyond the oceans, in a copper city and in a wooden tower there is a good fellow, which is chained in 10 chains and closed with 10 doors. And only my good word can free this good young man, and then he will quickly rush to his narrowed one. Therefore, I am speaking, mother dear (your full name), this young man in love with a red girl (full name of a daughter). And now he doesn’t want to walk or have fun without her, and now he can’t live without her even in the parental house near his mother and father. In a dream, she will appear to him in reality, and he will see her both at dark midnight and on a bright day. Without her, he will not see joy, and comfort will not come to him. So my word came to an end, and my daughter's red (daughter's full name) - the beginning.
Conspiracy to the Lord God
In addition, there is another conspiracy that will help solve the eternal maternal problem of how to marry a daughter. Only this time, the appeal will go to the Lord himself, so before pronouncing the words, you should go to church, completely clear yourself of extraneous thoughts, focus only on your desire to see your daughter in a happy marriage. After that, you will need to light a candle in the image of God, concentrate on its light and begin to read the cherished words.
- I sincerely ask you, Lord God, hear my prayer. Lord, bring thou into the house of my young fellow-daredevils and more, for they should not run more in the wild. But we don’t need any kind of people, or thieves, or mediocrity, only the daring, kind and faithful are required of my daughter (full name of daughter) as husband. Those who do not like will then be taken away, and let my only beloved child get the only one. May my words be fulfilled. Amen.