A wedding is an event that many girls dream about. From a certain age, they are already making plans for how the day of celebration will look. However, fate is not equally favorable to everyone. Some marry well at an early age. And others cannot find a suitable partner in any way. In such cases, you can take matters into your own hands and find out about signs of marriage.
Undoubtedly, much depends on the girl’s faith in them. Some people claim that signs help you learn a lot about marriage. Is this true or not? Decide for yourself.
Signs for the imminent wedding
There are a great many traditions and customs. But there are also signs of marriage that have been tested by many generations.
If a lonely girl dreams of the dead, then it is likely that in the near future she will marry. However, such dreams should be calm. Dead relatives should be at peace. The dream for the wedding should be in the form of a regular conversation with already gone family members.
It foreshadows a fast wedding and a bouquet of flowers. But the girl should not give it or just give it away. She must find him herself
Another sign associated with dreams. If a girl, being half asleep, senses someone's presence near the bed, this is for a fast wedding. It is believed that in this way the brownie is trying to drive the mistress into someone else's house.
Signs at the wedding
Being a guest at someone else's holiday can also help sort out your own marriage. If during the holiday a little wine or champagne was accidentally poured on a girl, then you should not worry about a spoiled outfit. This event is a sign of an imminent wedding.
They say that using someone else’s triumph can bring your own closer. To do this, it is enough to be a witness during the wedding of the couple. In addition, single girls should not refuse to dance with the groom. Another common tradition is the bride’s caught bouquet. We must try to catch him if you really want to get married.
It is very useful for a girl who passionately wants to go down the aisle to help the bride with the choice of a wedding dress. It is best if an unmarried lady undertakes to sew it. This action has a beneficial effect on the fate of a lonely girlfriend. If you secretly pick up a bride’s pin or hairpin while sewing, the chances of getting married increase significantly.
If at the wedding table the girl got a place between two brothers or sisters, then do not change places with them. This arrangement is another way to bring the day of marriage closer. Of course, a lonely girl can herself take a place at the table between brothers or sisters, not hoping in this matter for the help of fate.
Becoming the godmother - for the imminent wedding
If a girl dreams of an imminent marriage, then she needs to become the godmother for her baby friend. You must take your responsibilities seriously. The godmother must love and care for the baby. In this case, she will play her wedding when the child learns to walk.
Peonies - Harbingers of Marriage
Flowers are good not only in the bride's bouquet. It is possible to bring the moment of marriage closer to ordinary everyday life. It is enough to surround yourself with peonies. These flowers help to attract a suitable candidate to the hostess.
It is required to plant peonies at home in pots. Artificial flowers will also bring happiness. They can be assembled in an original bouquet, which must be placed in a conspicuous place. Peony symbols, such as a keychain, postcard or badge, will also help to bring about a quick marriage. All this must be kept closer to yourself.
One of the most powerful means is embroidering a peony on your clothes. During this process, you need to think about marriage.
Among the signs of marriage associated with peonies, one can name a dream, in the plot of which these flowers are presented to a girl. If she herself tears peonies in her night dream, or they suddenly grew up under her window, then with absolute certainty it can be argued that the dreamer will soon be married.
Spiky Harbingers of Wedding
Not only peonies help to learn about the day of marriage. Cacti do an excellent job of this task. It is a symbol of a long and happy family life. Therefore, it is necessary to mention more often among friends that they like these plants. Presented cactus - for the imminent wedding.
Marriage Signs for Christmas
But not only on a typical day, you can understand how soon the wedding will take place. Signs of marriage are especially strong on holidays. Previously, single girls were forbidden to throw garbage from their homes at Christmas. It was believed that this action could drive away the narrowed from her.
If at Christmas the girl was presented with a new pair of shoes, then in the coming year she will meet her love and play a wedding. If money comes with the shoes, the spouse will be not only gentle, but also rich. Of course, this sign is very controversial, as some people (for example, parents) sometimes specially give their daughters, who sit up in girls, shoes or boots. However, the sign "works" only when this gift was made unintentionally.
A domestic cat trying to get outside on Christmas day is a symbol of the fact that a young owner will soon appear in this abode.
There is another sign of a quick marriage for Christmas. If the girl lost her hairpin somewhere, then soon an offer will be made to her, and the matchmakers will be welcomed.
There are other signs to get married. The first guest on Christmas points to early marriage. If he turned out to be a man, then the free girl living in this house will soon go down the aisle.
Signs for the New Year for the wedding
During the winter holidays, people become especially sentimental and superstitious. Almost every person dreams that in the old year all problems and sorrows will remain. For many, the chiming clock is a new beginning. Unmarried girls have especially many hopes for the New Year. They, like children, are waiting for this holiday, believing that it will definitely change their life. year they want to find their family happiness.
And how many fortune-telling is there for the New Year! Most of them are related to dreams. It is believed that it is on this magical night that fate will surely show them a betrothed. If a girl celebrated until the morning, then the “bride” of the groom can be postponed until Baptism. On this holiday, dreams are also prophetic. If the girl on New Year's Eve almost immediately after midnight went to bed, but did not see the groom in a dream, then in the next 12 months she will not become a bride.
There are other signs of marriage for the New Year. They say that if a girl cuts herself while preparing dishes for the holiday so that blood comes out, then in the next 12 months she will definitely go down the aisle. Hair loss before the New Year is not a reason for frustration. According to signs, the thinning hair is a symbol of the fact that the girl will soon get married. Of course, this statement is very controversial, especially for those girls who have hair problems.
Another sign of marriage is that on New Year's Eve it may seem to a girl that someone is calling her, for example, on the street. If she crosses the threshold, then in the coming year she will certainly become the wife of a good person.
Signs for baptism for marriage
The idea of a wedding does not leave many girls during church holidays. Those who want to quickly tie the knot of marriage need to throw a ring on the floor the night before Baptism. According to the sign, if the decoration rolls towards the door, then this year the girl will meet her lover, and they will soon play a wedding. If the ring has chosen a different direction, then the year will not bring her the desired marriage.
Soon the wedding will be, the usual apple will tell you. According to the sign, the girl at Epiphany must peel the fruit with her own hand and carefully cut it into two parts. Then you need to carefully count all the seeds. If there will be an even number, then the girl will soon be offered. If not, then be patient.
According to another sign, a girl needs to leave her house early in the morning and go along the road. If the first person to be met is a man, then this year will be a wedding. If a woman, an elderly person or a child, then you should not hope for a marriage proposal.
Superstition and Customs
The people there are many unwritten rules that have become a tradition. Many of them relate to how not to act in order not to drive the groom away from the house.
If a girl wants to get married, in no case should she try on someone else's wedding dress. No need to give in to the desire to feel like a bride. This act will only delay the desired event.
When cleaning, do not take revenge with a broom around you. This object creates a certain circle, fencing off the girl from the suitors. There is another superstition associated with the broom. During the general cleaning before the holiday, it is necessary to sweep the floor from the threshold to the window. So the girl certainly will not discourage the future groom.
Do not sit free girl on the corner of the table. If you do not follow this sign, then for seven years you can forget about marriage.
Conclusion
Almost all girls dream of a wedding. Some want to hold a magnificent celebration, to call all relatives and friends. Others like a modest holiday, which will be attended only by the closest people. Signs of marriage can not tell which girl will have a wedding. They indicate only the fact of triumph.
Some believe that all signs are superstition. Perhaps it is. However, every year, hundreds of girls make a wish under the chiming clock, throw a little ring on Epiphany, and at a friend’s wedding they try to catch a bouquet thrown by the bride.