How to apologize to a girl? It would seem simpler - said “I'm sorry” and you're done. But it was not there. By virtue of their nature, women experience much more sharply than men even the slightest afflictions, grievances and other injustices addressed to them. Therefore, a whole strategy should be developed in order to have as many chances to earn a girl’s forgiveness.
But first, let's see why a girl can be forgiven. Most likely, she was too hurt by your behavior (inattention or a more serious misconduct). She inside outlives your quarrel hundreds of times, while feeling that she deserves better treatment. Another obstacle to forgiveness can be pride and pride (or rather pride), as well as the opinion of girlfriends or mothers.
But one thing is for sure - there is no situation where it would be absolutely impossible to apologize to a girl. It all depends on your desire, determination and, of course, a good knowledge of female psychology. And if the first two qualities are your personal, then about the latter you have come to the address. Below we provide recommendations to help you achieve the result.
How to apologize to a girl: pause
Meanwhile, as you have committed an offense and your apology must surely pass some time. Firstly, the girl’s emotions will calm down during this time, and you will have more chances to get forgiveness. Secondly, if you do not “show signs of life” for several days, then the offended beauty will believe that you have realized your guilt, consider your inappropriate behavior. In any case, she will be impressed. Thirdly, if the "timeout" is delayed, then the girl will already begin to torment doubts - maybe she herself is to blame for the quarrel and that you really are "pouting" at her. With the latter scenario, there is a chance that she will get bored and offer to make peace herself.
How to apologize to a girl: face-to-face conversation
When, in your opinion, the necessary pause has been sustained, do not call the girl or write an SMS with a request to forgive you - it is fashionable, modern, and this is too commonplace. This may not impress her. It will be best to come to the girl in person. In extreme cases, write her a real letter (on paper) and send it by courier.
At the same time, in a letter or in person, let the girl know that she is special, unique and means a lot to you. She must believe, see, realize that no one will deal with her better than you. Tell her with all the sincerity that you are capable of, all the good things you think about her, and do not focus on the details of the quarrel. They don’t wave their fists after the fight, so if you came to get forgiveness, you should not again recall the situation that caused the disagreement (even if it was the girl’s fault). Since you decided to apologize, it means that you a priori admitted your wrong.
It’s better to ask for forgiveness , surprisingly, empty-handed. Bouquets, sweets and valuable gifts - all this, of course, is beautiful and is necessary in a relationship with a girl. But let it all be later when you make peace. The fact is that some women can take your gifts from the heart as an attempt to buy their forgiveness. And it will be extremely unpleasant for them.
How to apologize to a girl: tell the world about your feelings
If the girl still has not forgiven you yet, try to surprise her with your imagination, ingenuity and resourcefulness. Do not confine yourself to a simple inscription on the asphalt under its windows, order a huge poster in the advertising agency with your heartfelt apology, which then will need to be placed near its entrance. Or order delivery of a huge number of balloons to the office where your beloved works, or the institute where she studies, so that all her colleagues and bosses will witness your apology. In such circumstances, it will be simply inconvenient for her to show herself completely cold and proud. You can negotiate with the musicians and perform a serenade, for example, in Spanish. Print your photos together. Of these, you can make a large collage and install it at her work, in the porch or in an educational institution. And you can even write the letters “P”, “P”, “O”, “C”, “T”, “I” on separate sheets and give them to random passers-by, explaining to them the essence of such a small but very important performance for you .