Crayfish are known as the most subtle and romantic natures among all the zodiac signs. Sensual, emotional, well-groomed and tastefully dressed, they are of increased interest in women, attract them with some special magnetism of their own. But is the man Cancer suitable for family life, is he capable of a strong constant relationship, will he be a good family man? Is it worth trying to win his heart and tie his future with him, or is it better to stay away from his claws?
Cancer backs up ...
Like crayfish, the man Cancer is very secretive; he not only disguises his feelings and thoughts, but without hesitation he will resort to lies and deceit, so as not to betray his true motives and desires. Even its best qualities Cancer, just in case, prefers to hide. He is smart and memorable, has a well-developed intuition, instinct and creative thinking, but is often unsure of himself. No one is so susceptible to frequent mood swings as the Cancer man - it seems that he was just cheerful and active, and after some moments he is already dominated by melancholy. Cancer is conservative and panicky afraid of any changes and problems, knowingly assuming that it will not be able to cope with them. In a difficult situation, he backs away and tries to hide behind even the mask of impregnability and detachment.
He is not bad - he is not easy
Not the most attractive portrait looming? But do not rush to conclusions! Do not forget that under the carapace a thin, sensual nature and a big heart are hiding. Cancer man is attentive to others and prone to compassion. His conservatism is not only a commitment to tradition, but also an underlying desire for constancy. That is why this womanizer and seducer is very attached to his family. His house is a real fortress, and his household is the best environment. He is a wonderful father, infinitely patient and caring towards his children. He expects support from his wife always and in everything, and if it corresponds to his ideas about the ideal (and for Cancer his mother is most often such), he himself becomes a reliable, albeit demanding, companion. At home he is gentle and affectionate, it is not for nothing that women intuitively suspect that a man Cancer in bed is able to give true pleasure. So it is, if the partner answers Cancer in return.
Cancer must be conquered
If you decide to conquer the heart of Cancer, get ready for a long siege. A man born under this sign will easily and willingly enter into a fleeting relationship and even insist on it himself. But, having received his own, he will just as easily backtrack and quickly lose interest in the recently so desired "booty." He will not at all consider a sexual partner as a potential companion of life, and he will choose a wife long and carefully, based on completely different criteria.
In order to arouse his interest in the matrimonial plan, you need to be patient, remember everything that the Cancer man loves , and unobtrusively but methodically prove to him that it is with you that he will gain peace and confidence. You certainly need to get acquainted with his mother or learn about her as much as possible, and try to repeat it in household matters, in housekeeping, in communication with your son. It is necessary to show that in his own family he will be surrounded by the same comfort and convenience that he appreciates so much in his parental home.
You need to learn to give in, because the man Cancer absolutely does not endure conflicts and quarrels. You will have to give up financial independence, since Cancers love money, but do not really like to spend it; however, he will not spare money on the house and family, but he will solve these issues himself. You will come to terms with the fact that a big child will always be with you - capricious, masterful, but not too independent, and therefore in need of your care.
No matter how your relationship develops, do not rush things. There will come a moment when he himself discovers that in front of him is the woman of his dreams. And then you will find out how persistent, persistent and inventive in courtship a man Cancer can resist the pressure of which is simply impossible.