You have always dreamed of a large and strong family in which the husband will be faithful support and protection. The dream came true, you got married, and it seems you lived happily and happily. But at one point everything collapsed: the beloved husband left the family, without really explaining the reason for such a rapid departure. Not only that, he filed for divorce, and you should be bred soon. Familiar situation? Surely you now do not know how to live on, because you still love your husband. What to do: start a new life or try to keep the old one? While the ex-husband is far from you and is not going to return to you, you can take the first steps to use yourself. At least to try, because no one will condemn you if you do everything to renew the once-strong alliance.
To get started, pack up your courage and stop crying into the pillow. Anyway, this will not make you feel better, and your ex-husband will not see this suffering. It is better to spend time on your beloved, go to the hairdresser and beauty salon. Parting with her husband is not a reason to become depressed. Moreover, you are going to return your husband, and for this you need to be in combat uniform. Make a beautiful hairstyle, buy a pair of elegant dresses and high-heeled shoes. To drown out the pain, do not rush to cakes or alcohol. Excess weight and poor health do not need you.
Sitting at home, in a relaxed atmosphere, try to analyze your relationship with your husband. Pay attention to what difficulties you had to face in family life, how often you quarreled, and what was the reason. Remember what irritated your husband in you : maybe he’s tired of your everyday omelettes, or he’s bored of sitting with you every night in front of the TV. This is necessary so that you can understand the reason for the husband leaving the family. Very often those men who lack female attention, affection and sex leave the family. It will not be surprising if your husband leaves for another woman: having found the one that has managed to surpass you (for example, in terms of sex), he, without hesitation, will go over to her in search of a better life. Of course, probably, you already know why the husband left. Then move on to the next plan of action.
It seems like your ex-husband will not understand you if you call him, beg him to come back and even threaten, because without him you have no reason to live on this earth. With such actions you will only scare him away and already lose the last chance for reconciliation. Lie down on the bottom. Try not at least temporarily to look for reasons to meet and do not dial such a familiar phone number. Simply put, do everything to disappear from his life. It is likely that the ex-husband will miss you, will understand what happiness he has lost, and he will already think about reconciliation. It’s not for nothing that they say that in order to miss a person, you just need to forget about his existence.
Now the last one is left. After a pause, we proceed to decisive action. In order to try to return the husband to the family, you need to appoint him a date. You should not book a table in a restaurant, it is better to call him home, because here together you have experienced more than one happy moment. Cook his favorite dishes, light candles and open a bottle of wine. Remember, once your family also began. It is worth noting that you do not need to insist on an urgent date. If the ex-husband says that he does not succeed, it is better to wait and call back tomorrow. Only if you can count on reconciliation, if on his part you still have feelings.
Finally you met. Most importantly, talk to him. No need to swear and remember the unpleasant moments of your life together. You have already analyzed everything, and now you know what you did wrong. Just remember how you felt good together, look at a family photo album together. Will the husband return? And this will depend on how he perceives the current situation and whether he wants to save your marriage. A man is an unpredictable creature, but he always chooses a life where he is warm and comfortable.