A strong half of humanity is an integral part of the earthly world. The first man was a man, God in the religion of Orthodoxy acts as a man, a man and a keeper of peace in the family is also a man. A burden of responsibility was laid on his shoulders, not only for himself, but also for his chosen one, for his children, for his parents. Women adore him and adore him, obey his will and obey his authoritative opinion, his image is endowed with fate with the qualities of fortress, courage, independence and freedom. But why do men cry?
What are man's tears
The concept of "male tears" was heard by many, but not by many. This is not surprising: men very rarely show their weaknesses in public. Yes, they consider the manifestation of sentimentality to be a weakness. Why can't men cry? Because it seems to them that makes them vulnerable. How is he - a man, so strong, so powerful, so independent and brave, will cry in front of others? For him, as a representative of a strong half of humanity, this is simply unacceptable. His tears are personal, intimate, belonging only to him. They contain his pain, his joy, his emotions, his suffering, and he does not intend to share his feelings and experiences with others.
When men tend to cry
Why do men want to cry? There are a number of reasons for this. Despite the fact that they pride themselves on their qualities of a tough nut and the dignity of a powerful personality, they, like women, are also vulnerable and are subjected to emotional outbursts. These flashes of feelings overwhelm with your head and break through the dam of emotional experiences in a veil of bitter tears. But why do men cry? Often the reason for this will be very strong and serious reasons, which are mostly tragic in nature. However, there are special cases.
Men's tears from the pain of loss
Perhaps the most common, deepest and bitter emotional shock and source of shedding tears by a man is the pain of losing loved ones. This is probably almost the only case when no one ever laughs at the man’s weakness manifested in this way. What could be more severe, more oppressive, more murderous, than the feeling of losing a loved one? What could be worse than the realization that you can’t return him, don’t hear his voice, don’t see his smile, don’t hug and feel the joy of spending time together? Tragedy and the severity of the situation, hopelessness and uncertainty in the future fill a heartbroken man and seek a way out in tears. It is sinful to blame him in this case for the manifestation of weakness, because no one is immune from losses and the destructive power of pain that these losses settle in the heart of the sufferer.
Men's tears of joy
The strength of bitterness from the loss of a loved one is directly proportional to the powerful surge of joy that a man experiences, for example, during some positive and happy moments of life. Why should a man not cry in front of people and show his feelings if he experiences an irresistible sensation of joy and a storm of positive emotions? Human stereotypes sometimes too negatively affect the public. And ridiculing male tears is direct evidence of this. The manifestation of a violent reaction in the form of tears of male happiness may be preceded by the following prerequisites:
- the news of the pregnancy of a beloved wife;
- the birth of a child;
- long-awaited meeting with a comrade after long years of separation;
- victory in the world championship of your favorite football team;
- achievement of a certain significant success in career activity.
Man's tears for a woman
It also happens that men cry in front of women. Why is this happening and what causes this state of affairs? The fact is that, despite the fact that alpha males position themselves as arbiters of fate and are free to control, rather than be subject to, women still have enormous power over them. No wonder female charms are considered the most powerful and powerful leverage on the male ego. Society is used to the pattern that men lie and women cry. Why do situations happen when everything happens exactly the opposite? Because the male mental organization is no worse than the female one is susceptible to insults, to defeats, to humiliation, to the harmful effects of external factors, especially if a woman leads them. Just because of their reputation, representatives of the stronger sex veil their feelings and do not show them to others, but inside them everything is in full swing when they learn about treason, lies, indifference of their beloved, and then the men cry. Why do women sometimes strive to avenge offenders in the face of young people by such methods: they want to see the most personal and the most secret - men's tears.
Crying from helplessness
There are frequent cases of tears of representatives of the strong half associated with a feeling of total helplessness and the inability to influence a particular situation. Usually he is preceded by a sense of injustice of what is happening and the resulting outburst of rage, anger and indignation. And in combination with powerlessness and lack of ability to prevent what is happening, explosions of aggression and anger are transformed into meager tears of helplessness. History knows many examples of how crying befell even the strongest, strongest and most persistent husbands from a sense of hopelessness in this situation. Why do men cry and what cases provoke such a male reaction?
- Ruined by someone's unfulfilled dream.
- The loss of a favorite cause and the nullification of the efforts invested in it.
- Unforeseen financial collapse.
- The loss of a roof over your head due to natural disaster or other disasters.
- Parting for a long period with your beloved child.
- Lying on her deathbed, dying of a spouse's illness.
Men's tears from sentimentality
Another answer to the question of why men cry is sentimentality. Often it manifests itself in those who are older, who survived the crisis of the “fateful forties” and stepped over the edge of their fiftieth birthday. A senile stingy male tear creeps up to senile age, uncontrollable, impetuous, bitter. Nevertheless, one must distinguish between the concepts of sentimentality and sensitivity. Not always a sentimental person can be emotionally pliable in everyday life and able to be moved from the tenderness or trepidation of the moment. The sentimental representative of the strong half can be incredibly cruel, while a sensitive person can not be cruel. Therefore, you should not trust an elderly man stroking a mongrel or feeding pigeons, because he can simply relate to them an order of magnitude better than to the people around him. And this is explained quite simply - during the fiftieth anniversary, the body loses most of the male sex hormones. Hence the sentiment, and tears, and excessive sensitivity.
Men's tears of love
The most unpredictable, the most passionate, the hottest and searing male cheeks tears are born in the emotions of love. First love, first touch, first kiss, first night ... This all has a powerful euphoric effect on the psycho-emotional state of a man. And now we are talking not just about some fleeting affair, but about really the first, real, sincere affection for a woman. This is manifested not only by carnal attraction, but also by rampant platonic love, the desire to hug, warm, protect your woman from adversity. A man wants to cry again and again from the happiness of owning his beloved, because she awakened in him feelings that he had never experienced before. And he worships again and again the one for which madness takes place. One that deserves a million scarlet roses. The one that, with its appearance in his life, turned everything upside down. The one who taught to love, to love passionately and passionately, to love infinitely strong and fiery.
Men's tears from contemplation of the beautiful
It may seem strange and incredible, but the powers that be are crying because of the beauty they saw. It is difficult to believe that sometimes rude, sometimes uncouth and brutal men in their habits can be influenced by the beautiful, and this beautiful can generate such completely unexpected emotions in them. So, a lump coming up to the throat and moistened eyelids can be seen in a young man looking at a ballerina performing a dance from Swan Lake in her gentle, light and bewitching train of air movements. As well as listening to an amazing musical composition performed by a symphony orchestra or representatives of high art in its best manifestations, they can touch a strong representative of society. The beauty of music, choreography, painting, opera, ballet and other types of virtuoso mastery absorbs listeners with their heads, and men are no exception. They, too, are able to appreciate the quality of the material being listened and viewed and moved by the power of contemplation of such a beautiful action that unfolds before their eyes.