It cannot be argued today that any woman seeks to start a family. Many, having heard the propaganda, are sure that a career and their own pleasures are much more important. Only a soul cannot be locked and an ideological revolution cannot be fooled. That is why sometimes even the most emancipated young women are disturbed by vague dissatisfaction. Often exacerbations occur under the Protection of the Veil, ceremonies for marriage in which our ancestors did. Maybe this gene memory works or something appears in the air? Let's get it right.
What kind of holiday is this?
In mid-October, namely the fourteenth day, a large Orthodox holiday is celebrated. They call it the Protection of the Blessed Virgin Mary. This day is considered women's. The mother of the Lord Jesus Christ descends to the laity, listening to their manifest and secret aspirations, helping in troubles and sufferings. The people call him simply - Veil day. Rites for marriage at this time are considered traditional. Even strict clergymen do not forbid them. After all, every day, everyone is free to turn to the Mother of God with her experiences. She, according to the clergy, will listen to everyone, the council will whisper or push in the right direction. And what could be more important for a woman than family? Keep in mind that this holiday is traditional. Hence, the extension of the clan is the most important task of a woman prescribed by her Lord. With such aspirations and dreams, the girls of "marriageable age" fled to the Temple in the morning of October fourteenth. They believed: the Holy Veil of each bridegroom will give, if the words of the conspiracy are pronounced correctly. They were passed from mouth to mouth from grandmothers to granddaughters. Yes, there was much more that was important in the rites. Something has come down to us.
Ancient rite with nuances
Each girl, deprived of the attention of the guys, was waiting for Veil day. Rites for marriage had to start at dawn. Get up, tidy up, use yourself, braid the braid. This was done especially carefully, with love and hope. Still it was necessary to get to the Temple among the first. Grandmothers said that the Mother of God was inclined to welcome not lazy, but quick beauties, leaving the most stubborn grooms for those who bask in feather-beds before noon. In the Temple, it was necessary to withstand the entire service, from the first to the last minute. Carefully listening to the words of the Father, it was necessary to become close to the Icon of the Virgin.
Address her prayers, light candles. Only then the Holy Veil was believed to bring good luck. They lit a candle and held it in their hands. While she was burning, it was necessary to utter a conspiracy three times. Here are his words: “Holy Mother of God, Lord's saint! Cover the earth with white snow, and a modest girl - not a poor groom! Amen!"
What to do after the Temple
In the church service, conspiracies and rituals at the Intercession did not end. Almost all of this day was subordinated to one goal: to secure the help of Heaven in the organization of personal life. The girls were ordered to cook all kinds of goodies. Usually baked cakes or cookies (later). With a treat they went on a visit. Each person they met had to be congratulated and endowed with the fruits of their labors. It was necessary to demonstrate exceptional gentleness and friendliness on Veil day. Rites for marriage prescribed humility, the taming of one’s own pride. Otherwise, you will not see the bridegroom this year (or, perhaps, you’ll have to live alone all your life). By the way, the tradition of not skimping on treats for everyone you meet is understandable. Everyone walked around the villages. One could indeed meet a suitable gentleman or members of his clan. There was a kind of “advertisement” of a potential bride. And now it is very relevant for those who usually do not seek to expand the circle of communication. Closely connected with this nuance is the need to work on your mood, on what you radiate into the world.
Peace and harmony in the soul
Conspiracies and rituals on Pokrov imply a special mood of the one who practices them. The point is in the holiday itself, and in the energy that it is desirable to get yourself into allies. They are exceptionally kind and harmonious. Therefore, you can attract them to your person, being in a similar condition. Its acquisition is facilitated by a prayer for Intercession for marriage. Do not consider this a separate ritual. No, praying on this day is simply necessary, without any special conspiracies. You can do this in the Church if you are going to go there. No - so at home, at the Icon of the Virgin. Words are recommended to be selected from your own soul. They should reflect your condition, hopes, inner experiences. That's why she is a prayer. Not only girls are asking for marriage at Pokrov. Widows, divorced women are also under the protection of the Virgin. All rituals are suitable for any lady. There is no need to be shy, since faith is in the soul. Prayer for Intercession for marriage should be passionate, sincere, humble and very kind. That is, do not be like the girl who Morozko demanded a husband. Just talk to the Saint about the issues that are troubling and disturbing.
Ritual preparation
You know, when the prayer to the Virgin Mary of the Intercession for marriage is mentioned, it is assumed that some specific text is needed. Most likely, this is not so. Prayer is not quite a word. This is a special state of mind. The texts only help to create it. But now it can be done with completely different methods. Science does not stand still. So why do not modern girls use her achievements? Since the rites on Pokrov imply a good mood, it is necessary to work on it. It is recommended to start in advance. Refuse heavy food and alcohol before the holiday. There should not be any interference on this day. Prepare a new elegant outfit. It is recommended to refuse trousers. Clothing should be very feminine, cute. It would be nice to have a meditation. It is needed to create a connection with the Higher Forces, transferring their intention to them.
Other ceremonies at Pokrov
Not everyone in the Temple asked for help. And no one claims that the Virgin will hear you only within the walls of the Saints. You can turn to her in nature. To many, this option seems more attractive. Here's how to do it. In the morning write your innermost desire on a piece of paper (so that thoughts do not jump). Be sure to express your intention that everything that happens will be for the common good (and not just yours). Now head to the river. Collect fallen leaves or dry herbs. Weave a wreath and drop it into the water. Say this: “Forces of a rapid flow! I appeal to you, you flow far. Find my groom there, bring me to his doorstep. Let him come and lead me down the aisle. My marriage will come true in the Protection of the Virgin! Amen! ”And keep the leaflet with desire. It will be possible to open it only in a year. Surprise yourself how much everything will change.
A ritual with a treat
On a holiday, light candles at home. Say this: “Cover me the Mother of God with a happy fate, rich in wealth, rich in kind, noble bridegroom. Amen! ”Proceed to the cooking. It is recommended to bake any baking, which is good at your turn. Pronounce the plot every time you put the dough in the oven. As you manage, then call the guests or yourself go to friends. Just be sure to treat someone unfamiliar. Maybe neighbors on the porch, people in the store, and so on, who you can imagine. And for the kindness and generosity of the Virgin Mary will definitely reward you.
Widow Ritual
Women who wish to remarry to marry, such a ritual is suitable. It is not entirely ancient, but effective. It is recommended to tune in the waves of love. May the soul tremble with anticipation. Memories of a past marriage should help. If he was unsuccessful, then think "from the opposite." Head to the park with your pies. There, treat the kids and adults, mentally saying: "For two." Feed the birds more. In general, it’s good to organize a bird feeder on this day and then not leave this “charity”. This occupation of the feminine essence is very useful. Reminds constantly of your maternal vocation.
Features of holiday behavior
There are some rules that “strict old women” consider mandatory. The girl was instructed to braid the braid and not to dissolve it until the next morning. All men must be treated with special respect and respect. Let him be a beggar, hello him, even smile for a start. Cover your head with a scarf (not a hat or a hood). This is a symbol of marriage. But most importantly - fill your soul with love for all things. Maybe special ceremonies will not be needed. They say potential suitors fly to the radiated affection and femininity that those motels are born. Give it a try! Everything will work out!