“I want a child, but it doesn’t work out,” - today this is one of the most common problems in Russia. Why sometimes couples who are completely healthy from a medical point of view cannot conceive a child? Because in this seemingly trifling business there are pitfalls! Now I will tell you about some of the nuances that may not give you the road to the long-awaited miracle, and give some simple tips and tricks.
I want a child, but it doesn’t work! Tip number 1
Have sex more often!
Many couples are simply sure that you need to have sex only on the days of the alleged female ovulation. They seriously think that abstinence from sexual intercourse for ... a whole month is the key to a successful conception! How do they explain this? Very simple! Allegedly, during this time, sperm is stored and accumulated for the "control shot". Friends, this is a huge mistake! Perhaps that is why you do not succeed in fertilization and conception. Of course, there will be much more sperm from monthly abstinence, but it will be sluggish and "toxic" ... The sperm in it will be inactive, they simply will not be able to fertilize the female egg! In order for the conception to pass most likely, fresh and active sperm is needed. Therefore, do not wait for special days, but confidently tell your partner: "I really want a baby!". And pounce on him in the literal sense of the word! It’s good if a guy (man) masturbated several times before conception throughout the day. In this case, the sperm will be "cocked"!
I want a child, but it doesn’t work! Council number 2
Throw out the grease!
Unfortunately, such a thing, sometimes necessary for sex, as artificial lubrication, significantly reduces the chances of pregnancy.
Most synthetic lubricants simply damage the quality
of semen. Remember, a couple planning a child, such store things are strictly contraindicated! By the way, if you need it, as if in a breath of air, then you can use natural
egg white. The most ordinary egg protein is a good "friend" for male sperm that does not conflict with it, believe me!
I want a child, but it doesn’t work! Council number 3
There is no place for drugs!
In principle, every woman and every man planning children should know about this simple truth. During this period, you should, if possible, give up all medicines that you take. If health does not allow this, then give up at least half of them!
Stress and pregnancy
When I was planning a pregnancy, my friends repeatedly repeated to me: "Relax, you will succeed!". Probably, you, dear ladies, have often heard such oral motivators. Support for dear people is, of course, an important psychological moment, but not in this case! From this, many, on the contrary, are even more tense! After all, a woman experiencing problems with conception is in constant tension. I mean, stress is a fairly frequent and serious obstacle to long-awaited happiness ... The advice is: do not listen to anyone! Pray to the Almighty and mentally make a wish: "I want a child (girl or boy)." After that, “armed” with the support of the Lord himself, proceed with decisive actions: have sex day and night, do not take any rubbish such as medicines and other drugs, give up alcohol, artificial lubricants, and so on.