Sexual contact, the fusion of a man and a woman, in ancient times was considered a physiological act, necessary for procreation. Sex in the modern sense of the word is something more. It is based not only on the need to continue reproducing oneself, but also on obtaining pleasure. Today it is proved that a woman can experience much more pleasure from sexual intercourse than her partner. However, sometimes the opposite happens. There are times when a woman experiences pain during sex. An unpleasant feeling can be repeated with each sexual intercourse, then intercourse becomes joyless and even unbearable, which will certainly lead to a deterioration in well-being, mood and discord with his other half.
There are several reasons why a woman may have pain during sex:
- Distrust of a partner, fear of becoming pregnant, inability to relax is the most common cause of unpleasant sensations. A similar state in this case is characterized by psychological rather than physiological reasons. Bad past experience, lack of positive emotions, fatigue can cause a spasm of the walls of the vagina, which will inevitably lead to pain at the most inopportune moment. A way out of this situation may be a frank conversation with a partner. Share your fears and feelings with him, as it is much easier for the two of you to find a way out of any situation.
- Lack of lubricant. During intercourse, a woman releases a special substance from the body of the woman, due to which the penis glides in the vagina. A small amount of lubricant leads to the appearance of friction, the gradual rubbing of the vagina, resulting in pain when making love. The reason for insufficient release of lubricant may be: lack of arousal, a quick transition from foreplay directly to sexual contact, hormonal failure, inflammation of the gland secreting lubricant. This problem can be solved with the help of lubricants - artificial lubricant substitutes. Buying such a tool is not difficult. It is sold in every pharmacy. Most lubricants are based on water, so you can even use them with a condom.
- Endometriosis is a disease associated with the proliferation of uterine epithelial tissue. Usually, there is an acute pain during sex, it is localized, as a rule, in the lower abdomen and stops immediately after completion of sexual intercourse. In an advanced state, the disease can lead to infertility. Therefore, at the first suspicion of its presence, you should consult a doctor.
- An infectious disease of the reproductive system is often the cause of pain after and during intercourse. The most common "female" ailments are: thrush, vulvitis, vaginitis. Usually the presence of infection makes itself felt not only by pain, but also by itching in the genital area, their burning, violation of the menstrual cycle. At the first suspicion of a disease, you should undergo a medical examination. By the way, pain during sex can also be a symptom of such sexually transmitted infections as trichomoniasis, gonorrhea, chlamydia.
- Incompatibility of partners in sex. Pain can occur if the penis is longer than the vagina. Many men are proud of their dignity of impressive size. In fact, a long member is often the cause of discomfort that a woman experiences at the time of copulation. The solution to the problem may be to find the optimal posture for both partners.
Every woman should remember that there is a way out of any unpleasant situation. Finding it is much easier with your partner, because if you have any discomfort during sexual intercourse, immediately tell him about it. Doubt that he will understand and support? Then why bother to build any relationship with him?