Many Japanese women are very positive (even with a certain degree of enthusiasm) towards acquaintance and marriage with a representative of a different nationality. Many of them dream of meeting a tall blue-eyed guy - Russians quite often fit this definition. Well, which of our guys do not want to have a relationship with a miniature and fragile girl who will be distinguished by loyalty and sensuality? Therefore, let's figure out how to get acquainted with a Japanese woman for marriage.
How do Asian women relate to Russian men?
If you decide to meet a Japanese woman via the Internet or want to go to Tokyo specifically for this purpose in the near future, then you should first know what these girls think about Russian guys. Perhaps they represent them as stern and cold-blooded men who are used to face dangers and remain calm even in difficult situations. Or do they like romantics, which often show their feelings?
- The stereotype of the first. Most Japanese women love Russian men because of their looks. As mentioned earlier, they prefer to make themselves a tall and handsome gentleman, behind whom they will feel like behind a stone wall. So if your height is 180 centimeters or more, then you already have a huge advantage over local guys. And it is quite difficult to argue with the beauty of European men.
- The stereotype of the second. Asian girls think that all foreign men tend to show gallantry and the basic rules of etiquette. Unfortunately, most Japanese guys do not follow these life principles. However, almost every Russian boy at school was taught that girls should give way to public transport, as well as help them bring heavy things home. So Russians have a big advantage here too.
- The stereotype of the third. Many Japanese women think that Russian guys are quite resistant to alcoholic beverages. Of course, in this statement there is a grain of truth. Since a European man has a greater mass than an Asian, he will need much more booze to get a cloud of reason. Japanese women are very fond of hardy men in this regard, because they themselves often like to drink.
You can talk for a long time about how exactly Asian girls relate to Russian guys. However, these three stereotypes should be enough to win the heart of almost any beauty. In the following sections, you will find detailed information about why, sooner or later, a Japanese woman will become acquainted with a Russian, even despite her modest nature. Follow the guidelines below to build a relationship with an Asian.
Show yourself a gallant gentleman
Even if you decide to meet a Japanese woman through the Internet, you should not neglect the basic rules of etiquette. Most Asian women are quite busy with household chores, so they rarely need to hear compliments or receive gifts from members of the opposite sex. So remember this when you correspond with a beautiful woman on a social network. Be polite, courteous, and also show care and attention to the girl.
If you decide to meet a Japanese woman in Moscow or Tokyo, then you should especially remember these rules. At the first meeting, give the girl a beautiful bouquet of flowers and make a compliment about her appearance. Also show all kinds of courtship on a date: move the table in the restaurant, open the door in front of the beautiful woman, serve the coat and so on. Japanese women have to seldom feel such courtship from men, so use this.
Entertain the girl in all ways
Unfortunately, Japanese women are very fond of when men spend money on them. If the material side of the issue is not a particular problem for you, then use this advantage to win the heart of a beautiful woman. Take her to an expensive restaurant or amusement park, go shopping with her to buy branded clothes. In a word, satisfy all the vagaries of the girl so that she understands that you are worthy of becoming her husband.
However, do not think that Japanese women are ready to go to bed with everyone who has money. Girls are extremely selective in this matter and prefer to maintain their chastity until the wedding. In addition, if a rich boyfriend cannot maintain an interesting arbor with a beautiful woman, then nothing good will come of a date either. Therefore, try to entertain the girl in all possible ways.
Go on a date at the bar
If you happen to meet a Japanese woman on the Internet, then you should not delay in order to meet her in real life. Asian girls are very fond of determined guys who are the first to invite them on dates. However, if you do not do this just because you do not know what place you can go with a beautiful woman, then we are in a hurry to please you. There is one restaurant that will appeal to most adult Japanese women - a bar.
Yes, Asians are very fond of drinking. So be prepared for such a turn of events if you decide to meet a Japanese girl to create a strong family. Before getting married, they prefer to fully enjoy freedom. And if you have to drink also in the company with a gallant gentleman, then the date can be considered automatically successful. So you can safely interest a Japanese woman by going to a bar - she is unlikely to refuse it.
Do not use anime templates for communication
Let's be honest with ourselves. Most guys want to get acquainted with a girl from Japan only because they dream of getting a beauty who behaves in exactly the same way as the characters from the animation. And although in many respects their behavior is very similar, still try not to use the templates that develop relationships on the TV screen. Most Japanese women don't like being compared to painted 2D models.
It is hard to imagine, but anime in Japan is considered the lot of children and the so-called otaku - adults who adversely affect society because of their addictions to the painted world. But quite a lot of people read manga, so you can use certain romantic patterns to impress the beauty with knowledge of Japanese culture. However, do not get carried away too much so that the girl does not consider you an otaku.
Also, do not forget that in Japanese universities and schools, not everything is as smooth as it is shown in the anime. Many students often have to endure humiliation and various harassment by classmates. If a girl stands out in front of other peers, for example, leads a guy, then they can begin to insult her in every possible way. This attitude leads to the fact that even after graduation from school, Japanese women remain very frightened.
Where to meet a Japanese woman on the Internet?
This question will arise in the head of almost every man who decided to connect his fate with an Asian. It is immediately worth noting that it will be rather difficult to do this without knowledge of English or Japanese, since a very small percentage of Japanese women speak Russian. And a boyfriend who is fluent in foreign languages will look much more attractive. Here is just a small list of services that you can use to get to know:
- Facebook
- Hello talk
- Hello Pal.
These three social networks should answer the question of where to meet a Japanese woman on the Internet. After all, they are distributed throughout the world. So with the help of these messengers you can easily find your life partner by setting in the status: “I’ll meet a Japanese woman for a serious relationship”. It is possible that after some time of communication you will be able to exchange contacts in Skype to go to the next level, conquering the Asian woman with her European appearance.
Try to choose a girlfriend by age
Do not forget that in most Japanese women are extremely shy. If a guy who is clearly over 20 will try to get to know a schoolgirl, then she will most likely just run away from him. Therefore, the best option would be to find a peer who is already studying at the university or is working. You don’t have to worry about the question of chastity. As mentioned earlier, most girls retain it until the wedding.
Also try to make acquaintance not with a lonely girl, but with a company of young beauties. Thus, you will not only increase your chances of finding a potential life partner, but also avoid situations where a Japanese woman can get scared and run away. In addition, someone from the group of girls will constantly admire these or those qualities of a foreigner, thereby increasing his importance in front of other interlocutors.
Do not kiss Japanese woman in public
Most girls from Asia have a very negative attitude to expressing feelings in public, so they are unlikely to allow themselves to be kissed in a public place. This is especially true in situations where a beautiful woman meets a foreigner (such information should not be known to everyone who comes across, since various charges may be rained on the Japanese woman). So if you decide to start building relationships with a Japanese woman, then be prepared for this.
For Japanese couples between a man and a woman, it is also not customary to hug at a meeting or to accompany a companion right to a house or apartment. For a Russian person, this order of things may seem something out of the ordinary, but it’s worth it to come to terms with this. Do not try to put pressure on the girl to take her home. In the best case, she will simply take her gentleman to a completely different building.
Refrain from long walks
All Japanese people prefer to value their time, so even small distances they travel by metro, bus or taxi. Therefore, do not even think about walking a few kilometers with a beautiful woman to a certain place during a date. The girl is unlikely to like a boyfriend who does not tend to value time. Although for a foreigner, of course, a girl can make a certain exception, but this behavior definitely won’t be a plus.
Quite an interesting fact is that most Japanese women prefer to ride a "hare" in the absence of money, rather than walk. The girl should feel that the guy appreciates her time and energy. Your task is to visit as many interesting places as possible in one date. Therefore, it is best to take a taxi or even rent a car to impress the beauty with a comfortable trip.
Beware of becoming a “cute puppy”
In some cases, Japanese women can communicate with a representative of another nationality only to brag to their friends or acquaintances. Most often this happens with guys whom the girl does not consider as a potential candidate for the role of the future husband due to lack of money or lack of self-confidence. However, she will communicate with him, seeing in the representative of the stronger sex "cute puppy."
Try to recognize such a manifestation as early as possible so as not to waste time on futile relationships. The best option to recognize the seriousness of the girl’s intentions is to ask her directly when exactly she wants to introduce you to her parents. For 99% of Japanese women, such a gesture means that she considers the young man as a future spouse. If you are just a friend to her, then she will never make such a gesture.
How to win the respect of parents?
If you all had the opportunity to meet the ancestors of your passion, then be prepared for the fact that you will be asked about the seriousness of intentions. If it comes to the wedding, then you may be asked about the material condition. Moreover, we are talking about the current status. If you say something like: "After the wedding, I am going to sell an apartment in Moscow and buy property in Tokyo," then do not expect much recognition.
Also, do not forget that most parents will be opposed to marrying their 22-year-old daughter. Although they can make an exception for a foreigner, because they prefer to adapt not only to their traditions, but also to customs of a different nationality. You can say that in Russia it is customary to marry young girls, which is why you paid attention to their daughter. It is unlikely that parents will reject the boyfriend in this case.
Conclusion
We hope that now you better understand where you can get acquainted with a Japanese woman and how best to do it. Of course, the effectiveness of building a relationship largely depends on the characters of two people, however, if you follow all the recommendations described above, then the chances of winning the heart of an Asian woman will increase several times. Just do not forget that representatives of different nationalities may have different views on some things. Therefore, respect the opinion of your life partner, and also try to show as many of your positive aspects as possible.