Quite often couples face such a problem as incomplete sexual intercourse. What is the reason for this? Most often, the reason lies in the fact that both partners were not sufficiently excited. The fight against this problem is possible and in most cases very effective. In this article, we will learn to look for erogenous zones in men and women, and also consider ways of influencing them. After all, if you correctly find the point, then you can deliver an unforgettable experience to your partner.
Types of female erogenous zones
Infrequently, people show a desire to communicate on the topic of sex, and very in vain. Modern sexologists can tell a lot about how and where to work, so that the partner is completely satisfied. Erogenous zones in women are divided into two groups: primary and secondary.
Primary is the physiological structure of the female body. This group includes: labia, breast, clitoris and the vagina itself. This is easily explained by the fact that in these parts of the body there are many nerve endings. Everyone knows that if these sites are stimulated, the partner will enjoy and, in most cases, complete satisfaction.
But every man should remember that you can not be limited only to these places. After all, over time, this will bother a woman. And in order for your sex to be diverse, you need to remember about secondary female erogenous zones. But here it is already impossible to accurately determine the area of the body, since each woman has everything purely individual.
However, if you manage to find such places on the body of your beloved, then you can give her pleasure and really really excite.
Stimulation
Do not be afraid to experiment and touch your lips with absolutely any part of the female body. Someone is dying from kisses of the eyelids and temples, and for someone it is enough just to bite a little earlobe. It’s no secret that the female body is made from kisses on the neck. Few women can resist these caresses. When kissing on the ears you need to be as gentle as possible, then the shoulders and neck can withstand more passionate touches.
No man can even imagine how pleasant it is in the morning to admire the traces that he left on his lover's neck. After all, this is evidence of a really passionate night. After kissing the neck, you can move smoothly below. Now the next step is the stomach and belly button. Here "into battle" you can let not only lips, but also the tongue. Be careful, as some ladies are especially sensitive to tickling, and you can achieve a reverse arousal reaction.
Experts do not recommend men to start caressing in the genital area after 2-3 minutes. It is better to devote more time to the navel and lower abdomen. At these moments, the woman will be anticipating what will happen next, she will wait with bated breath for your next actions. And such an expectation sometimes excites much more than any action.
For many years, the buttocks have remained the most erogenous zone of many women, so one should not forget about their stimulation. But you need to be careful, because in this area, every lady has her own desires and preferences. It will be better if you start with gentle touches, and then gradually take more active steps.
You can try the weasels on the feet and legs, but this issue is better to discuss in advance. This is due to the fact that some people consider this unhygienic and may react incorrectly. As we see, a man faces a difficult task not only to find the erogenous zones of the female body, but also to act on them correctly. It is important here to listen to the body of your beloved, and it will itself tell you what and how to do.
Why does sensitivity change?
An important point is that the sensitivity of the erogenous zone in women can change. And there are a number of reasons for this. Even the most minor changes can affect the reaction of the female body to a particular touch. This is especially strong during menstruation, after childbirth or during lactation. It is also considered an interesting fact that even with a change of partner, changes can also occur in the preferences of the girl.
Even if a girl previously liked this or that action from one partner, she may be unhappy with similar touches of another man. It is difficult to explain such changes. We can only say with confidence that the psychological state of your partner has a big impact. Literally everything can affect her mood: sound, smell, lighting, a child sleeping in another room, and much more. If the lady is in a similar state, then it will be quite difficult to excite her. And talk about complete sexual satisfaction and generally not worth it.
That is why a man must be attentive to his partner. You need to be interested in her mood and desires, as well as be able to create a suitable environment. And do not think that you will do this only for the girl. Do not forget that your mood will directly depend on how satisfied you will be with yourself tonight.
As for men?
Perhaps for some women this will be an amazing fact, but men also have erogenous zones. Most representatives of the stronger sex adore when a partner licks and bites their earlobes slightly. And this is a long proven fact. But men do not really like French kisses. Therefore, experts recommend that women do not delay this moment and rather move on to more decisive action.
Pay attention to the chest. If she is not as attractive as a woman, then this does not mean that she does not need to be given due attention. You can do circular movements with your fingers around the nipples. And guys especially like it when women's breasts touch them.
What else to look for?
The courageous and strong back is another erogenous zone in a man. If you pat your partner between the shoulder blades, then he will begin to feel like a real hero, which means he will feel his power over the girl and his desire will increase. Do not ignore the buttocks, as they have a powerful sexual charge. In the beginning, you can just pet them slightly, and when you feel that passion is overwhelming both partners, you can even spank your partner a little. Do not doubt that it will give him great pleasure.
Courtesan Council
In ancient times, women were interested in ways to excite men, and the courtesan owned one such secret. They massaged the male sacrum. From such actions, male energy began to grow, and it was simply impossible to keep a partner. Therefore, women should not forget about the existence of this "magical" place on the body of her lover.
Top of enjoyment
After you warm up your beloved with various intimate caresses, you can safely proceed with the genitals. Each touch of the girl should be filled with tenderness and affection. The most exciting effect is the massage of erogenous zones in men, when a woman simultaneously captures the male penis, scrotum and testicles, and then pulls them to the lower abdomen. No man can resist such a pleasure.
And it’s not a secret to anyone that any oral sex brings a man into ecstasy. In addition, the erection of many representatives of the stronger sex is enhanced by fondling the area between the anus and the scrotum.
And do not forget that massage of the partner’s erogenous zones can give pleasure not only to him, but also to you. After all, a woman is also very excited at the moment when she caresses her lover.
Erotic massage
The main rule of erotic massage has always been the absence of rudeness. Yes, some strength must be shown gradually, but it is also important to stop in time.
- The beginning should be gentle. It’s good if you draw your fingertips over the body of your loved one.
- Without taking your hands off the body, with the whole palm try stroking the body of a loved one. Try not just rubbing it, but stroking it with a little force.
- Apply pressure, but not with your whole palm, but with a few fingers. Remember that the use of force should be minimal.
- Tweezing is a good technique, but effective only in places where there are fatty deposits, and more precisely on the buttocks, shoulders and hips. In the remaining parts of the female body, they can cause discomfort.
- When you move closer to the genitals, you don’t need to invent anything special. In the area of the chest and genitals, it is enough just to move the palm of your hand, and these sensations will bring pleasure.
- Highly effective contrast touch. Remember the famous tricks using pieces of ice, and women also like to kiss with hot lips. To do this, do not lower your face into the fire. It is enough just to hold hot water in your mouth for several minutes. In addition, you can use various strokes with a feather or a light silky cloth.
- Massage your partner's head, although this is not part of an erotic massage, but such actions also give pleasure and help to relax. Some women even like to be pulled lightly by their hair.
Horoscope
We are often interested in a horoscope that can make us forecast for the coming day, but few think that the erogenous zones of the zodiac signs are different. The representative of the fire element, Aries, will be grateful if you caress his face and begin to slightly bite the earlobe. Aquarius certainly will not appreciate your rudeness, because he loves tenderness and affection in the intimate sphere.
Invite together to take a bath of Leo, and then you will find an obedient kitten in your bed. As you can see, each zodiac sign has its own erogenous zone. And this fact cannot be left unnoticed. When reading a partner’s horoscope, be interested not only in his character traits, but also in sexual preferences.
Conclusion
Thus, we can conclude that each of us is an individual. Much in bed depends on the mood of partners, on their desires and preferences. Entering intimacy, you need to study your chosen one from all sides in order to satisfy him and enjoy yourself. If you have known each other for a long time, you can discuss some of the intricacies of staying in bed, talk about what you are missing, and find out what you would like to try for a soul mate.