The relationship between a man and a woman is a very interesting, rather complex and at all times relevant topic. You can discuss it for a long time, but now we will focus on only one aspect. Namely, about the energy connection. After all, if you believe the tantric teachings, it is from her that relationships are born.
Briefly about the concept
In simple words, the energy connection is a term that characterizes the state that people usually describe as being on the same wavelength as the opponent.
We see such moments quite simply, although something really amazing is happening. Namely, intense energy metabolism.
People, being "on the same wavelength", do not just enjoy communicating with each other and think that they have met a soul mate, a like-minded person. Numerous channels are formed between their auras, through which energy flows are directed in both directions. They have unprecedented power. These flows connect the aura of partners through the chakras, literally combining their souls and subconscious.
Where does the connection come from?
It should be noted that any relationship begins with her. There is no other way. But close relationships begin with karmic connection.
If a person in this life came across someone, got acquainted, began to further develop communication of any kind - that means that something connected him in a past life. And this meeting is no coincidence. He probably needs to work something out, or maybe fix it or even continue.
Chakras
As mentioned above, the energy connection between a man and a woman is established through the chakras. Which ones? It depends on the type of communication. It should list all the chakras and the connection that is formed with their participation:
- Muladhara. This is the basic chakra, and through it a connection is established that defines kinship.
- Svadhistana. Sexual chakra, through it is the formation of relationships like lovers or couples.
- Manipura This is the name for the umbilical chakra. Through it, family ties and relationships are formed between colleagues and other people with whom a person is forced to compete.
- Anahata. A very powerful emotional connection is established through the heart chakra. This is how love is formed. However, in order for such an energetic connection between a man and a woman to be strong and harmonious, a channel of sexual energy must be developed in them.
- Ajna. This is the name of the frontal chakra. If communication is established through this energy channel , then most likely a person copies his idols, leaders of any organizations and sects. In this case, we can say that the person is easily suggestible. However, if according to Ajna a connection is formed with a real opponent, then it should be considered very strong, telepathic.
- Sahasrara. This is the crown chakra, and it establishes an energy connection only at the level of egregors - programs created by the co-directed thoughts and emotions of a group of people.
- Vishuddha. This is the throat chakra, and through it, relationships are established between colleagues and like-minded people.
It is important to make a reservation that the stronger the partners are interested in each other, the more extensive the energy channel formed between them becomes. And when strong relations are established, a close connection begins to be observed in all energy centers.
Development of a relationship
The close connection that runs through all energy centers is the basis for a long sincere relationship. Nothing will dominate them - neither time nor kilometers. Surely many came up with quotes about love from a distance. They say that strong feelings can reduce hundreds of kilometers. And this is true - it is proven at the energy level.
If a healthy relationship develops between a man and a woman, then the channels are formed clean, pulsating and bright. The partners are united by sincerity and trust, but at the same time they have their own personal living space. This indicates an equivalent energy exchange without any disturbance.
Signs of Communication
Many people are interested in knowing by what features it is possible to understand that this unique energy contact was born between a man and a woman.
In fact, everything is simple to primitiveness. When he is, even such a question does not arise. People just feel good together, they feel only the unity of souls, harmony and comfort. There is no negative, no negative emotions, no doubt, no mistrust. Not a single destructive aspect, simply put. There is only love.
Unhealthy relationships
You need to talk about them too. Often, the energetic connection of people does not carry anything positive. And because of this, unhealthy relationships develop.
The most striking example is the acquisition by one partner of another dependence. If this happens, the energy channels become heavier and fade. Communication loses freedom, anger, aggression, irritation appear in the life and relationship of people.
Unhealthy relationships are those in which one person tries to take control of the second. This is fraught with the so-called twisting of the aura from all sides.
Roughly the same thing happens if a relationship dies. Channels weaken, become thinner. And over time, the energy ceases to move at all. As a result, people who once did not see the meaning in life without each other become like strangers. As if they were not connected by anything.
Non-reciprocal separation
Relationships are complicated. It happens that people part for one reason or another, although they still have feelings and they continue to be drawn to each other. After all, how is it sometimes? One breaks the energy connection, closes itself from subsequent influences, but the other tries to restore relations, to break through this protective “layer”.
However, if people are really destined to be together, then they will not leave each other. A logical question arises: why then do they break up? And why do they converge again if once a break has already occurred?
Because we are all people with unique spiritual organizations and a complex subconscious. Sometimes we are influenced by factors that we cannot resist. Sometimes this “pause” in relationships (whether it lasts several weeks, months, or even years) can further strengthen them.
Energy bindings
Within the framework of the topic under discussion, it is necessary to talk about them. What is energy binding? This is a kind of love spell. But he acts on an energy level. The effect is on the sexual and cardiac chakras.
The result of this kind of rite is the reconfiguration and change of energy. As a result, a person understands that his partner has developed not just a cordial affection, but a real addiction. He almost feels the need for his constant presence.
There are three types of bindings:
- Short-term. Lasts from a couple of days to several months.
- Long lasting. They are valid for several years.
- Lifelong. Based on the name, you can understand how long they are. Neither more nor less - all life.
Interestingly, attachment is also an energy channel. But in this case we need to talk about a violation. After all, the basis of attachment is dependence, which means that it contradicts the main law of the universe, which states that all people are free. And the main danger of attachment is to halt development, to degradation.
Binding Examples
Above, the karmic relationship of a man and a woman, the signs pointing to it, and other features related to this topic were examined. Now we need to discuss this aspect.
Examples of notorious bindings are:
- The desire to save and help, pity. A person may think that he is doing good, and his “ward” will draw energy from him for years.
- Resentment. This feeling affects health more than others. Each time, returning thoughts to his offender, a person “feeds” him with his life energy.
- Revenge. It is impossible to “let go” of a person, to forget him, if you constantly scroll in your head a plan of retaliation.
- Guilt. In this case, aggression is directed by a person at himself. This is an unproductive emotion. After all, a person does not correct anything - he simply engages in self-flagellation.
- Material losses. Bad debt for a long time connects two people. And the larger the amount, the stronger this binding. The only way to get rid of it is to mentally say goodbye to money by forgiving the debtor. In any case, his situation is worse. This debt will hang on him all his life, and he will never forget the one to whom he owes.
- Call of Duty. This is the feeling that a person experiences if he believes that he should pay for the service rendered to him. And yes, you need to repay debts, but do not forget that sometimes people sincerely do good deeds without demanding anything in return.
- Passion, jealousy, desire to have a partner completely. When a person constantly thinks about the subject of his desire, dreaming about it around the clock, then he simply does not notice anything else. And that is not love. This is something worse. Indeed, love does not infringe on the right to freedom of another person.
- Nonreciprocity. It is a very thin, but durable structure. And the strongest - the lack of reciprocity is always more intense than other bindings pulls energy out of a person. This condition exhausts both. Moreover, a new love cannot appear in any way - after all, non-reciprocal one draws all energy out of a person.
- Living together in the absence of feelings. Also a sad state. Two people went through the stage when they felt good together, both had already outgrown the connection, but they could not move on, since they connected each other. In this case, attachment to joint property, a sense of duty, pity for a partner, habit, caring for children, fear of new relationships in the future can feed on attachment.
- Parental bindings. They are considered the most durable. Many parents literally choke their children with care and attention, which affects their development. Is it love? No, rather, the desire to subjugate a different personality.
How to get rid of attachment to a person?
The answer to this question would be desirable to complete the discussion of the topic. In fact, there is no universal advice. Everything in this topic is very subjective. But some points need to be clarified for sure - you will not be forcibly sweet and you need to live on. You can free yourself from the shackles of painful dependence by letting go of a person both physically and mentally.
We are able to get stuck on the same topic for a very long time, think about it around the clock. But it’s much easier to disassemble it once in parts, give answers to yourself to the questions that have arisen, finally put all the points on i with your partner and live by the principle of “whatever happens”, devoting all the time exclusively to his self-development.
After all, as already mentioned, if the energy connection is established between people at the karmic level, then they will meet again.