Very often in adulthood, people suddenly learn that someone - a good and kind person - was in love with him in his youth. But it did not work out. Why?
Yes, because the simple love fell unnoticed. But guess about the feelings of others before, everything could have turned out differently, perhaps much more successfully. But how to understand that a guy is in love with you when you have not yet met him? Of course, there are no exact recipes here, but a few general points can be deduced.
1. The man in love sharply changes his behavior. Shackled and shy can suddenly become cheeky and bold, and sassy and cynical, on the contrary, turn into a shy and insecure person. Moreover, the behavior of a guy in love differs from usual only in the presence of the subject of his sighs. When the beloved girl is not nearby, he behaves in the most usual way for him.
2. A boyfriend in love often sneakily looks at the object of his dreams, and when he meets with his eyes, he quickly looks away. Sometimes he can even blush at that moment, as if he had been caught at the crime scene. Since it is quite easy to understand that a guy is in love with this moment, a girl should most often look into the guys ’eyes.
3. A guy secretly in love with a girl tries to meet her as often as possible, therefore she constantly gets in her way, it turns out, as if by accident, in those places where a sweetheart is dear to his heart.
From time immemorial, it was believed that the first step towards a relationship should be made by a man, boy, boy. However, practice proves otherwise. Representatives of the stronger sex are most often lost when the first feeling comes to them. That's why a girl should help a lover to overcome this psychological barrier a little.
Nobody says that a girl should come up and meet herself, make a date or offer friendship. But to create a situation where it will be appropriate for a guy to take the first step towards rapprochement, she is quite capable of it. And this is the first step that will allow the girl to draw the right conclusions about the true feelings of the young man.
So how do you know a guy is in love? The girl sometimes has a false opinion about the feelings experienced by the young man. It seems to her that he avoids her, even sometimes rudely for no reason, demonstrates his superiority. But at the same time, she sees that with others he is completely different. So, you need to conduct an experiment.
You can turn to him with any request: to fix the computer, navigate through the courtyard in the evening, explain difficult teaching material. The main thing here is that during the conversation there should be no witnesses.
It is far from a fact that the young man immediately after the request “melts” and rushes to fulfill the request, although it happens so. But sometimes even in private, a guy will refuse the one that he really likes. May even laugh or be rude. But we must remember that this is an experiment, and for the girl it is not the help itself that is important, but the other - understanding the situation. A truly attentive person will unravel the soul of a person in love with her.
So, how to understand that a guy is in love by asking him for help? You should carefully monitor his reaction at the time of uttering the words of the request. A loving young man will be worth a great deal of work to keep himself free and relaxed at this time. Reddened ears and cheeks, ignorance of where to put your hands, stomping on the spot - this is not a complete list of signs of excitement and, as a conclusion, his love.
There is another way to understand that a guy is in love. True, for this it is necessary to play a small performance. It is necessary to artificially create an extreme situation: turn up one’s foot, “lose” the keys to the apartment or imagine something else, but such that it would be impossible to refuse to help the young man, and there would be too little time to think. Usually in love at this moment acts as his heart tells him, instantly rushing to the rescue.
Perhaps then he will turn his impulse into something mundane, trivial, perhaps he will speak with irony about this incident. But the fact that the young man immediately rushed to help, save, says a lot.
It is very important to know whether a young man is in love or whether elementary flirtation is included in his plans. Knowing how to understand what a guy wants, a girl will be able to draw the right conclusions, make the right decision, and not break her destiny.