How to fulfill your dream? What to make dreams come true? Do dreams come true or is it something unattainable and accessible only to the elite? You will find answers to all these and many other questions in this article.
You should start with the very concept of "dream", what it really is and whether it exists in reality. Most people put a specific, concrete meaning into this word - it is something unrealizable, inaccessible, inaccessible to “mere mortals”, untrue, a fairy tale, fiction, and so on. And only a few understand that a dream and a goal are actually one concept, and it is thanks to this approach that their dreams are realized, that is, materialized. They don’t think about how to fulfill their dream, they just get everything they want. Think about it, dreams and desires are two different things for you? And how do they differ from each other? Is it not because dreams are unrealizable, and desires have a more mundane character that does not raise doubts about real availability? Or maybe the whole point is that desire ultimately becomes a goal and that is why it is realized in life, and dreams are initially doomed to failure?
With such an approach, it is impossible to fulfill a dream! Let's see why for us a dream, a desire and a goal are different concepts that are in no way related to each other. The reason is the banal stereotypes, that is, the long-standing habit of sharing these concepts among themselves. For example, take a person with an average monthly income who has a desire to purchase, say, a laptop of the latest model - his desire will not shock anyone, right? Of course, he will not be able to buy it right away, but by saving money, after some short period of time, he will be able to afford to make this purchase. That is, desire gradually turned into a goal. Now imagine that this same man thought of his own three-story house on some exotic island! Most people, including our hero, do not hesitate to weed out this thought in a bag with the inscription "pipe dreams" and continue to live in the familiar "real" world. How to realize a dream if a person himself does not believe that it will come true?
Another example: a person with a low income or with his complete absence wants only one thing - to get food, which becomes his only and constant goal. What is the latest model laptop in his case? Dream! And for a millionaire, what is a mansion on the islands, not to mention such trifles as laptops? For him, this is a familiar reality. All these examples are given in order to understand a simple thing: the dream of one person is the familiar reality of another. The main mistake is that we ourselves label and sort our desires into dreams and goals. We build on our position, status, income and are guided by the so-called real state of things. Do you know the phrases: “I really look at things”, “I can’t afford it”, “all these are dreams, but in life everything is different”? Reality is what we ourselves create! Who decides who can dream, for example, about a car, and who should not? Who is the “mere mortal” and who is the chosen one? Now a shocking truth will open before you: this “who” really exists! It is you! Realize that you decide everything that concerns you and your life!
When your desire and dream will have one meaning, you can go directly to the question of how to realize a dream. Let us return to the example with a laptop: when a person had a desire, at that moment he did not know how to implement it, but over time he had a definite plan of action, and when he put everything on the shelves, making this purchase was no longer in doubt. This is the main rule: first desire, then a plan of action and not vice versa. You do not need to know from the first seconds of the appearance of your dream how to realize it, an idea or a plan will come naturally unexpectedly. Lead a familiar lifestyle without tormenting yourself with a lack of answers, as this can raise doubts - the only obstacle to a dream. It is worth doubting for a second, and you will be forced to return to where you started.
Your desire should be specific, you should not ask a question every day how to realize a dream, and wait for an answer to come to you. Your dream should sound specifically: “I will buy a new car” (all in the smallest details: color, brand, etc.), “I will meet an extraordinary girl (man) and create a beautiful family” (imagine in detail what character traits this a person must possess) and so on. The principle is the same for any dream: wish, do not hesitate to receive, but when you receive, thank!