A straightforward song that there are a lot of guys around, but love arose only for one, and married, unfortunately, is an actual description of the life situation of many girls and women. “I love married ...” In someone’s lips it sounds hopeless and doomed, but someone, on the contrary, flaunts such a relationship. Why do such situations arise? And what do they most often end with? Next - reflections on this topic.
It is impossible to say with certainty that falling in love with married men is characteristic of any particular type of women . This can happen with a student who does not yet know life, and with a sophisticated life experience of a scorched business woman. Women who seem to be loved and those who lack romance in their lives fall into this “pool”. Only here feelings, emotions and, most often, suffering turn out to be very similar.
And conversations with friends, parents or even psychologists begin, in which you can hear: “I love a married man.” It seems that the woman is asking for advice and seeking help, because in most cases it is clear that this feeling just needs to be eliminated! But frankly, some probably don’t really want to. Many simply cannot live without romantic feelings and sufferings. And, as practice shows, just the opportunity to say “I love a married man” for other young ladies is just a gift of fate! This is a chance to seek sympathy and complain about your hard share, which did not allow the two "halves" to meet earlier!
But there are situations when there is no question of declaring “I love married” in a pointed manner. For example, when a woman herself is married (or a long-term and serious relationship). This is even harder! You have to worry about everything yourself. And torment is sometimes just awful.
Is there any hope at all? Everything happens in life. And, perhaps, it is better for loving people to reunite, even initially hurting abandoned previous partners. But often married men, assuring their lover of their ardent feelings, are in no hurry to leave their wife. And it can drag on for years! And what? He is comfortable and familiar! And the woman in love only remains what to continue to share with her close feelings on the topic “I Love Married”. And wait…
Although if a man most often prefers to go to his mother-in-law on pancakes at the weekend, and on weekdays he hurries to go to the supermarket with his wife, then maybe their family is not so bad? Such a sober understanding of the situation can sometimes help to reconsider the attitude to the object of love. Maybe he is not a miserable and tormented lover, but just a type who is always in search of diversity? So why waste time on it?
When looking at those who say with bitterness (or pride): “I love a married man,” one thinks of minimizing such situations. After all, resolving them painlessly is almost impossible! And give advice - an thankless task! The only advice that will definitely be relevant - do not try to idealize your lover and to pass by the ears of your loved ones.