The expression of the eyes ... What can be hidden in their depths? No wonder they say that someone else's soul is a darkness. On the other hand, the eyes are the mirror of the soul. So let's learn to carefully look into this mirror and understand what people around you like. The expression of the eyes (synonym - look) along with other signs will allow you to "read" the interlocutor without words.
Basics of Psychology
Experienced psychologists and manipulators know for sure how to give the eyes one expression or another and what it will mean. As a last resort, eyes are hidden behind dark glasses. So, we will understand how the eyes of you or the interlocutor can give out.
1. A change in the usual, habitual expression of the eyes signals that the interlocutor has changed emotions, feelings, and so on.
2. The movement of the eyes is involuntary, which is also said that "eyes are running", indicates the imbalance of an emotional nature, fear, shame, deceit, anxiety.
3. Shiny eyes indicate nervous excitement, fever.
4. "Glass look" - evidence of apparent mental exhaustion, fatigue. If you have never even seen such eyes, then at a meeting you will immediately understand and feel.
5. An increase in the pupils indicates pleasure, interest, or, conversely, unbearable suffering. You should not put aside the assumption, such as narcotic drugs, which can also act like on the eyes.
6. The narrowing of the pupils indicates the dominance of negative emotions. For example, those include anger, hatred, anger, irritability, or rejection of something. In addition, this may be the result of the use of narcotic substances.
7. When the eyes move randomly,
alcohol intoxication can be detected
. Moreover, the more chaotic and faster the movement - the greater the degree of intoxication.
8. Increased blinking makes it clear to you that you are being deceived, trying to mislead or a person is experiencing severe excitement.
9. A missing look symbolizes a decrease in interest or focus on any thoughts.
10. The transfer of gaze from subject to subject indicates a clear decline in interest. It is likely that your monologue has dragged on.
11. A glance from the side speaks of distrust, and either the abduction or the return of the glance indicates that a person is either lying or feeling guilty. Expression of the eyes, in a word, can say a lot.
Women's Tricks
Women, probably at the subconscious level, are driven by certain qualities that help in communicating with other people. Many women make eye contact when listening to someone else. When they are going to convince someone, then in addition to looking into their eyes, they use
verbal-tactile contact with the interlocutor. Such methods make it easy to tune in with the partner and achieve success.
If someone from the conversation looks less than a third of the time of the dialogue in the eyes of others, then with a calm soul, you can suspect him of deceit. On the other hand, if the interlocutor looks at you for a long time, then you can determine that the person is delighted or interested in you (the pupils are dilated), angry at you (the pupils are narrowed) or tend to dominate.
But in order to surely calculate the interlocutor and his emotions, secret thoughts, it is necessary to determine not only the expression of the eyes, but also verbal, non-verbal signals, such as a change in intonation, blanching, the habit of twisting the ring on the finger, rubbing the earlobe.