The psychology of women is a mystery behind seven seals. Today, a kind of fashion for same-sex relationships of a predominantly female nature has appeared. Why do girls love girls, what are the features of such "love"? Let's figure it out together.
Why do girls become lesbians?
Gene predisposition theory
Before looking for the psychological reasons why girls love girls, I want to note a very important fact that scientifically explains same-sex love. The fact is that recently, genetics, together with sexologists, discovered a gene responsible for homosexual behavior.
This is called the theory of genetic predisposition. If this element is present in human DNA, then the latter one way or another will experience sexual attraction to his own sex. Scientists say that if a woman does not have this gene, then she will never become a lesbian in her life.
Girls love beautifully ...
Of course, lesbian sex is a highly aesthetic pleasure! There is no rudeness, carelessness, immorality. Yes, you heard right! According to the theory of genetic predisposition, all accusations of lesbians of immorality and licentiousness of their homosexuality are pointless! To blame a lesbian for the fact that she loves another girl is the same as blaming a blonde for not being a brunette.
Of course, this does not in any way justify lesbians, because the genetic predisposition to one’s sex in one way or another depends on certain social and, most important, psychological factors that affect female self-identification. So why do girls love girls? What is she - the psychology of lesbians?
Reason # 1: An Unhappy Family
The fact is that women who treat all men badly and to their spouses in particular, unwittingly pass on the state of hate speech to their daughters. The image of a parasite lying all day on the couch, fear and squeamish feelings for these "animals" leave their imprint on the child, becoming the main reason for his unconventional choice in the future. If you do not want to raise a lesbian, then do not hold a clear evil on men and do not show it to your child.
Reason number 2: unrequited love
This is perhaps the most common reason why girls love girls. Inability to build relationships with guys and psychological trauma from unhappy love, which generate a feeling of loneliness, make a teenage girl seek her love where competition is not so high - among representatives of the same sex. However, there is one caveat: a lesbian girl can undergo a complete mental transformation towards other representatives of the fair sex. Such "sincere" lesbians in the future come to the therapist with the words: "I love the
ex-girlfriend ... What should I do? How to forget her?"
The fact is that such ladies love and desire other women more platonically than carnally. However, not every lesbian partner will agree to such a relationship. Many of them only need sex without commitment. Therefore, it is better to survive your young and unhappy love alone, than to constantly suffer from both of them!
Reason # 3: Diversity
In principle, if one girl occasionally practices sex with another, then this does not mean her lesbianism. This is the usual bisexuality, which will continue until happiness enters the life of this lady in the image of a handsome prince on a white horse!