The vast majority of women struggle with age-related changes and try to look younger. Some of them go to extremes in this struggle and at one fine moment, going to the mirror, exclaim: "I look like a child!". What to do in order not to look at one’s own years and not go to extremes?
Trying to change maturity to childhood
Firstly, in order to prevent such a situation from happening, one must have a measure in everything. And in order not to ask the question “Why do I look like a child”, it’s better not to forget about your real age, choosing your image.
This does not mean that you need to look exactly at your age. You just don’t need to wear the things that teenagers wear, don’t wear too bright and behave as if you are really seventeen years old.
Younger soul
First of all, youth, like beauty, comes from within. That is why it is very important to look the way you feel, taking into account your experience and acquired wisdom.
To create a younger, fresher image, you just need to keep your body in good physical shape: do yoga, go to the pool, spend more time in the fresh air, eat right.
In addition, you can make a stylish styling that will refresh the face and the whole image as a whole. To do this, find a good specialist.
In order to complete the image, in clothes it is better to have more gentle, bright colors. It can be pearl, pale pink, light blue, peach shades. Clothing of such colors will be very refreshing, without giving vulgarity.
Start to grow up
When a young girl says “I look like a child”, this means that the first step in transforming into a real lady has already been taken. It happens that girls are too late in their teens. It’s very convenient: you live with your parents, they constantly take care of you, they treat you like a small child. Without a doubt, in this situation there are many advantages. You can prank, hurt like a little girl, and parents will forgive everything. But such a position is very difficult not only to start a family, but just to find a mate.
And so, when the girl says, “I look like a child,” it means that she is finally ready for a serious relationship. But this does not always mean that she decides to assume all the responsibilities of an adult. But you need to! Indeed, without this, it is simply impossible to grow up.
After testing all the difficulties of adulthood, the girl’s external image will begin to change on her own. Young people very quickly and easily adjust their appearance to the inner world.
Just do not break yourself completely and irrevocably. In the soul, one must still remain herself. And if a child lives inside you, you need to educate him a little, to accustom him to duties, but sometimes to allow and fool around. This approach makes life much easier and more fun. In addition, childishness to some extent gives the girl charm, adds a twist to her new look. And men really like it. Although many of them do not even realize this themselves.
Among other things, leaving a drop of a child inside, in the future it will be much easier to establish contact with your children. And stress is much easier to deal with. After all, a child can afford to fool around and cry.
On clothes meet
The situation is more complicated when a girl dresses according to her age, leads an adult, serious life, and everyone perceives her as a schoolgirl. And, in spite of all efforts, at one fine moment she declares to herself: "All efforts are in vain, I still look like a child."
This happens because of children's features. So, for example, if the face is round, the nose is slightly upturned or with a button, the eyes are large and the look is good-natured, those around it are perceived as signs of childhood.
In addition to the face, the perception of people is strongly influenced by growth and build. So, if a girl is fragile, small, but behaves like a real lady, those around her treat her like a child, not taking them seriously.
Transforming outwardly
This situation is very simple to change. It is enough to choose a more adult image, make the right makeup, which in no case should be rude and too bright, change the hairstyle for a more feminine and stylish. If the work is serious, you can create a more business image.
But to change your tenderness and femininity to the severity and rudeness of a business woman is categorically not worth it. After all, besides a respectful attitude, any girl wants to find a loved one. And, as long-standing practice shows, strict business women suffer very much from the fact that men are afraid of their strong-willed character. Or they come across continuous gigolos who need only money from a girl. Therefore, once saying "I look like a child," you should not "kill" the child in yourself to the end. He will serve you well.
So, if a girl complains “I look like a child”, she should not panic. You just need to transform a little without breaking your inner self. Then life will sparkle with new colors, and everything will go completely different.