Relations between daughters-in-law and mother-in-law have long been an object for a lot of jokes and even jokes. It is generally accepted that the communication of these two women cannot be friendly. The situation is aggravated if, according to the horoscope, both the mother-in-law is Scorpio and the daughter-in-law is Scorpio. The fact is that it is precisely people born under this zodiac sign that are characterized by such character traits as secrecy, imbalance and even cruelty. Scorpions are perfectly able to poison the life of even the closest people. Today we will try to answer the question of whether two Scorpions can coexist under one roof. Let's talk about how to find an approach to the mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, if she was born under this constellation.
Mother in law-Scorpio: characteristic
According to the horoscope, the mother-in-law Scorpio is a lady with incredible acting skills. She just loves to weave all sorts of intrigues, this must be taken into account when communicating with her. Often such a mother-in-law creates situations in which she can feel like a victim, and after that she will relish them with pleasure. In order not to be drawn into this drama theater by one actor, it is worthwhile to step back in time. Among the character traits of a Scorpio woman is incredulity. In order to gain her trust, it will take a lot of effort and time.
In-law, born under the zodiac sign Scorpio, it is extremely difficult to adapt to something, she can feel a sense of security only in the circle of the closest people. No wonder the Scorpions call people moods - within an hour they can survive a whole kaleidoscope of emotions. From apathy, they instantly go on to wild fun or even unmotivated aggression, and then again return to a calm (sometimes even lethargic) state. The stars say: Scorpios are ladies extremely energetic and enterprising, they always have specific goals. But along with a huge supply of energy, Scorpio women also get a predisposition to bad habits.
Attitude to life
The Scorpio woman is confident, quite active and strong in spirit. A mother-in-law born under this constellation is distinguished by a male mentality, and besides, she is incredibly hardy. Therefore, not a single life nuisance is able to unsettle her. Scorpios never panic, instead they begin to look for a way out of this situation. And the Scorpions find it incredibly fast. If you believe the horoscope, the mother-in-law Scorpio is successful in all matters, very proactive and full of new ideas. Such a woman is appreciated by everyone around. Usually Scorpios pursue material goals, so often they prefer to remain in the shade and benefit from all their activities. The mother-in-law Scorpio is very insightful. Another feature of her is increased jealousy. The daughter-in-law with her will have a hard time - after all, such a mother-in-law will constantly torment her son with jealousy.
By the way, it is this zodiac sign that occupies the top line in the ranking of signs that can survive in any conditions and adapt to them. Scorpio women never run from reality. They are not inclined to despondency. They perceive any losses and troubles adequately, mourn for a short time. And then make every effort to return to normal life as soon as possible.
Attitude towards children
Scorpio women do not like when someone (no matter, close or outsider) intervenes in the process of raising their children. They are convinced that it is they who are the best versed in this process. The sons and daughters of the Scorpions can always count on good advice and support. And the fact that Scorpio mothers are extremely demanding leads to the fact that their children are always ready to face troubles. Women born under this zodiac sign bring up responsibility and independence in their children. It is worth noting that usually Scorpios love their sons more, and therefore forgive them all sins and mistakes.
Attitude to the daughter-in-law
The Scorpio Woman is a true energy vampire. Do not forget that she is a master of intrigues and omissions, and therefore it is not recommended to argue with her. Otherwise, not only observation and revenge, but also the ability to weave intrigue will be directed to the war with the daughter-in-law.
It is worth saying that if the mother-in-law - Scorpio and daughter-in-law - Scorpio, there can be no talk of easy and joyful relationships. In general, a mother-in-law born under this constellation will not be happy with any daughter-in-law, but it will be catastrophically difficult to endure herself like her. Even if you keep your distance, you can be sure that she will continuously criticize the chosen one of her son and intervene with the advice. In addition, the impression is periodically created that the mother-in-law looks at you, trying to get into the most secret thoughts. It is important for a mother-in-law scorpion to know absolutely everything about her daughter-in-law (especially pain points). She notices all the miscalculations of the opponent. After - draws conclusions and, of course, shares them with others. The sense of humor of the second mother can also be straining - usually this is black humor that offends. Much later, when the daughter-in-law will be able to achieve the location of the mother-in-law, the latter comes to the realization that she literally spoiled a person's soul. Conscience turns on, the mother-in-law begins to engage in self-flagellation, but this usually happens with a decent delay.
How to find common ground with mother-in-law Scorpio
The compatibility of the mother-in-law Scorpio with the daughter-in-law is initially extremely low. Relationships with this woman are difficult. But astrologers know a few secrets that will help you not make an enemy.
Firstly, never complain about my mother-in-law to life's troubles. Scorpions like extremely strong personalities. You should not bring to the attention of the husband's mother and information about their mistakes. Secondly, never take anything to heart. For example, if the mother-in-law claims that you disgustingly cook even fried eggs, ask her to teach you how to cook this dish with a smile. You should not be upset when the husband’s mother in bright colors paints the details of her son’s personal life to you, lists all his former girls and their dignity. In this situation, a little humor and patience should be shown. The tactlessness of this woman can hurt anyone, but you should not enter into a confrontation with her. To offend such a mother-in-law is to make an enemy for herself. She knows how (and loves!) To plot, one of her traits is vindictiveness. That is, if desired, Scorpio will easily destroy any marriage. The mother-in-law born under this constellation does not stop at nothing, and her hatred knows no bounds.
One more rule - never discuss your past life with your mother-in-law. This information in treacherous hands easily turns into a trump card. The main thing that will help the mother-in-law-Scorpio to get used to the daughter-in-law is time and soulfulness. It is necessary to express positive emotions, show patience, support it. The share of artistry will not hurt. If you do everything right, your husband’s mom will take you to his family. However, two Scorpions in the same house is a real hell, and therefore it is better to live separately after all.
It is worth saying that the daughter-in-law should help the mother-in-law in everyday life. You can give your beloved mother some nice gifts - not necessarily great ones. It is much more important that the mother-in-law-Scorpio surprises to taste.
Daughter-in-Scorpio: Characteristic
The daughter-in-law born under this zodiac sign can safely be called one of the most dangerous. Scorpio - a test for any mother in law. She is arrogant, emotional, hysterical, vindictive and suspicious. It is practically impossible to deceive such a daughter-in-law: she sees through both people and their intentions. By the way, it is Scorpios who like to create stressful situations for people around them, and then with interest observe their reaction and how they get out of these situations.
The horoscope of a daughter-in-law Scorpio says that for your own safety it is better to stay away from her. And some even compare it with a snake warmed on his chest. Mood swings, painful touchiness, ambition and revenge - these are the qualities that distinguish the daughter-in-law of Scorpio from the chosen one of a son born under a different zodiac sign. At the same time, such a girl deliberately aggravates the situation. Complicates all the black humor, the perception of the world exclusively in dark colors. In-law, it is important to know that the daughter-in-law, who was born under this zodiac sign, expects worship from others. She prefers to be in the spotlight, loves to be admired. Sometimes in a desire to attract attention Scorpios cross all boundaries and behave, to put it mildly, defiantly.
Attitude towards husband
Of course, it is important for any mother-in-law to know how her daughter-in-law will relate to her son. It is worth noting that the daughter-in-law Scorpio holds his wife under the heel. As, however, and other family members. At the same time, one cannot fail to say that if someone dares to offend people dear to her heart, she will rush into battle without a doubt.
Scorpions - women are fickle, they are bored to be in a calm and stable relationship. They just vitally need new emotions, constant experiences. And therefore, if the second half does not pay attention to it, Scorpio either rolls up a scandal or changes the object of love. Despite the fact that the daughter-in-law, born under the constellation Scorpio, are very energetic, sometimes it is important for them to feel weak and defenseless. Therefore, astrologers advise second mothers to regularly remind their sons about this.
The qualities that Scorpios value in a man are nobility and sensitivity. In return, a woman born under this sign gives the chosen one all of herself. And her business acumen helps a man achieve a lot - make a good career and increase his social status.
Attitude towards children
To worry about grandchildren, if the daughter-in-law is Scorpio, the mother-in-law-Scorpio will not have to. Usually such women are good mothers: advanced and completely not tyrannical. And therefore, their children have a strong nervous system, a healthy psyche. By its attitude, such a mother preserves her children’s self-esteem.
However, there are exceptions. Sometimes Scorpio women are not too “advanced” morally and spiritually. And therefore, they will push their children all their lives with their authority and impose their view of the world on them (and these views, by the way, are far from optimistic). As a result, the children of Scorpions get used to the fact that all life is a struggle, and therefore it is extremely important to be able to defend oneself. Children of such Scorpions grow sandwiched, with a pronounced inferiority complex. They adopt from the mother and super-criticality, mockery. This, by the way, complicates the relationship between children and mother.
Daughter-in-law Scorpio: compatibility with mother-in-law
At first glance, it might seem that the daughter-in-law Scorpio is friendly and calm. Often mother-in-law consider such girls naive. However, under the guise of calm, real hurricanes of emotions are hiding! Scorpios usually do not show their feelings. But enough to exhaust the cup of patience - and destructive anger will come upon you. At the same time, it is better not to enter into an open fight with the daughter-in-law, astrologers do not recommend and play psychological etudes with her. The younger the Scorpio, the sooner it will defeat you - in any confrontation. And if both the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law on the zodiac sign of Scorpio - be in big trouble!
It is extremely difficult to get along with a daughter-in-law born under this zodiac sign. She simply does not stand advice and teachings. In addition, she is incredibly touchy, there are mood swings. Of course, in the characterization of a woman-Scorpio there are many positive aspects. For example, they are energetic, plastic. The nature of such women combines endurance, willpower and passion. Scorpions are deep natures, they are able to make an impression and stand firmly on their feet. But to reveal these qualities in a relationship with a mother-in-law with a daughter-in-law Scorpio will turn out far from immediately.
How to build a relationship with a dangerous daughter-in-law
What should I be prepared for in a relationship with my daughter-in-law-Scorpio mother-in-law-Scorpio? First of all, you need to understand that this woman is just a storehouse of positive qualities. But she is in no hurry to spend them on the mother or sisters of her chosen one. The relationship of these women with her beloved man does not mean that she will obey them or listen to their advice, no matter how valuable they are. Separate accommodation will help smooth out all the roughness in a difficult relationship! The spouse's parents will stop teaching young people how to live, and young people will immediately stop annoying the older generation. It is worth giving up on frequent visits. A sense of humor will help reconcile with the daughter-in-law Scorpio, or rather, with her freaks, mother-in-law.
It is completely useless to argue with a daughter-in-law or to impose her point of view on her. Otherwise, a conflict is possible not only with the chosen one of the son, but also with him! Astrologers advise trying to make friends with a daughter-in-law Scorpio. There is at least one reason for this friendship - love for the same person. Mother-in-law should just accept the daughter-in-law - as a daughter.