In the countries of Europe, the USA and here, in the CIS, approximately 42% of women are cheating on their spouses. As a rule, men in such situations, for the most part, try to hide their emotions. However, the fact remains that women's infidelity is now one of the most pressing problems of society. And men are betrayed at times even more difficult than the fair sex. First, let's find out why wives cheat on husbands.
Causes
Some women tend to feel loved and desired again. Others, cheating on their spouse, want to avenge him for his betrayal. Among the most common reasons why wives cheat on husbands are the following:
- feeling of loneliness (occurs mainly among housewives);
- unwillingness of the partner to talk with the spouse, take an active part in her life and discuss her problems, experiences;
- the feeling that her husband no longer finds her sexually attractive;
- lack of affection and love on the part of the spouse;
- the husband is too keen on his work or some hobby, spends little time in the walls of the house;
- the desire to get rid of everyday life;
- lack of romance in bed;
- boredom or interest;
- the desire to feel in your personal life as strong as in a career;
- resentment against spouse.
Sometimes, unexpectedly even for herself, a woman begins to actively communicate with her former partner, school or university love. According to statistics, very often such seemingly innocent communication of “old acquaintances” ends in bed.
“Kill this ***!” Or ... this?
Practice shows that in our century, when literature, the press, and TV practically lack censorship, almost all women sooner or later think about getting some sexual experience with a representative of their gender. Why do wives cheat on husbands with other girls? There are also reasons for that.
The most common among them is the lack of understanding on the part of men. Having been disappointed several times in various partners, a woman may think that no one will understand her better than the other.
Many are driven by ordinary curiosity, the desire for new non-standard sensations (both physically and emotionally).
How to find out?
In fact, signs of
female adultery are always striking. The problem is that many loyal and loving husbands do not want to notice them to the last, and they start to fuss even when it is almost impossible to save the marriage.
The first sign of treason is that the wife begins to sharply limit her personal space (access to a mobile phone, accounts in social networks and the computer in general). Like men, women, establishing new relationships, begin to pay much more attention to their appearance. Another alarming signal is that a wife has a new company of friends or girlfriends with whom she spends almost all her free time, without showing any particular desire to acquaint her spouse with them.
The most unpleasant sign of treason is, of course, cooling in bed. If she goes to bed sooner or later, her husband, explaining this for various reasons, it is likely that the man became uninteresting to her and she simply avoids having sex with him.
Even in terms of quarrels, everything changes: if before they looked like the beginning of the Third World War, then the girl who cheats will absolutely not care. But at the same time, she will begin to focus on all the shortcomings of the missus, which she had never noticed before.
Forgiveness cannot be reconciled: where to put a comma?
So, we examined the main reasons why wives cheat on husbands. We listed ways to learn about the infidelity of his beloved. However, the most important question remains - is it worth forgiving treason at all?
People say that there are wives who never cheat on their spouses, but there are no women who cheat only once.
In addition, if for a man cheating is nothing more than a physical desire, then a woman cheats on her husband emotionally long before her first sex with her lover. Forgive betrayal or not? The answer to this question must be sought only in the depths of your heart.
PS But for those whose wives got a mistress, you can give two tips at once: to break off relations or come at the most inopportune moment and ... join! :) If the wife is dear to you, in this case you can just let her feel that you are “on one side of the barricade”. Perhaps after such an attitude they will become even better than before.