If you are a girl, and you like a guy, then you probably do not know how to behave with him correctly, how not to blunder, not to push him away from you. Such situations occur all the time, so you need to develop your own tactics of behavior and conversation in order to achieve the object of sighing. In this article we will tell you about
what questions you can ask a guy who likes, what you can talk about with him (except for standard topics). You will also find out what you should definitely not talk to with a young man.
What questions can you ask a guy you like on a date?
To begin with, let's decide whether you have known each other for a long time or recently? In the first case, the situation is greatly simplified: after all, you probably know a lot about him and are able to understand what he likes and dislikes, including with regard to conversations. And in the second case, you should use the tips on what questions you can ask a guy who likes:
• Ask him where he studied or is studying, what subjects he is interested in, how he sees
his career later on.
• Take an interest in what you enjoy in your free time, whether you have a hobby (if so, then for the next 15-20 minutes you will listen to his stories about the collection of cars, wrestling and so on).
• If you understand that you share common interests and hobbies with a guy, then do not hesitate to admit it, for you it will be only a plus.
• What other questions can you ask a guy you like? Ask what kind of movie he loves (the genre of films, his favorite films, actors and so on), tell us about your addictions. Thus, you will not only learn more about the young man, but you can also quietly ask for a second date, for example, in a movie.
• If your date is in a cafe or restaurant, then ask the guy what he likes to eat the most, at the same time brag about your culinary skills (if, of course, you have them).
• Ask in more detail about his activities, work, and if a guy starts long stories about how to assemble plastic windows and the features of this craft, then listen to him carefully, even if this is not very interesting to you, and half of the terms are incomprehensible.
• Do not be afraid to ask for advice on any issue that the guy understands. Thus, you will conquer his location and help him feel smarter (and this is very important for males).
Ask about what to avoid ?
What questions you can ask a guy who likes, we already know, now it remains to find out what you can not ask about:
• about past novels (of course, if the guy himself does not start a conversation about it);
• about how many children he wants and when he plans to get married (this will scare away even a guy with serious intentions);
• questions about priorities in life (for example, “will you choose me or your friends”);
• Do not ask questions to the guy you like about the items of your wardrobe (for example, “do you think this dress suits me, or it was worth choosing a different color”).
Summary: What questions do guys like?
Questions that do not relate to past relationships, your shared future and provide an opportunity for a young man to show himself only on the good side, will certainly be pleasant to him. Especially on the first dates, when both the guy and the girl tend to open up to each other and prove themselves well.