Threesomes are what many dream of, but few decide. Psychologists recommend casting aside all doubts and plunge into the abyss of new sensations with your head. How not to spoil the first impressions of sharing a love bed with two partners? Specialists share their experience, practicing masters leave feedback.
A few words about whether you should read further
After evaluating the reviews about the first time three-way sex, which is replete with the Internet, you can give some recommendations to doubters. So, who will not help the tips from this article:
- You met by chance and plan intimacy for once.
- You are two girls (guys) who want a thrill right now.
- It doesn’t matter to you what the consequences will be; a repeat of the triple intercourse is not planned.
- You don’t care if everyone will be satisfied.
If you do not belong to those, the recommendations below will help the couple get a lot of pleasure, new sensations and not get burned on it. Go ahead.
Why is sex diversity a must?
So, more details. According to couples about threesomes, passion subsides over time. This is a proven fact, agreed by men and women who have lived together for more than three years. A trio is one way to maintain interest in each other. The purpose of this article is to help established couples diversify their intimate life.
Here you will not find stories about how to persuade or force a partner. It is assumed that your relationship is frank and trusting, where each of the partners can talk about their desires and will be heard. If not, the path will be different.
Where to start, or first experience
But, in order. Read any review of your first threesome experience and see the phrase everywhere: a test for any relationship. What does it mean? It is important to let your partner know that your relationship is the highest value, not an invited member.
If during the love games you notice that the other half is uncomfortable, pause. Separate in the kitchen or in the bathroom and put all the dots on the “and”.
Remind each other of the feelings that bind you. Calm, relax, motivate - you better know what words to choose for a partner. If you managed to get rid of discomfort - continue with pleasure. If not, it’s better to complete the meeting today. You will still have a chance to repeat.
After reading reviews of threesome sex, it becomes clear that for the first time you should not invite friends and good acquaintances. The meeting may not go according to a favorable scenario, and relations with the third participant will be spoiled for a long time.
Experienced trainees of the “threes” advise - it is better to train in a professional. Let it be a girl or a guy from an elite escort agency, who have repeatedly had a threesome and will help not to get confused for a beginner couple.
At the end of the meeting, discuss whether you liked everything, look at the reaction of the second half. Do not forget to recall how dear to each other. So, when all the pros and cons are weighed, the couple is confident in the decision to try the threesome, you need to decide on the format.
Two men, one woman
The next moment. According to reviews, the first three-woman sex is exactly that. MZHM is the simplest format. Its simplicity lies in the fact that a woman quickly reaches the peak of pleasure, her debut in the world of triple encounters ends in a positive way. For the most part, such couples continue the practice of group meetings in other formats.
MZHM advantages
Two men will satisfy a woman much better than one - four hands, two mouths, two penises. Double penetration is satisfaction squared. According to the girls' feedback on threesome, their most common fantasy is she and the two machos. Being the object of desire for two men at once, any woman will feel like a queen.
The described method practically does not need preparation. Only trust is required from the girl, and two guys will always find something to do with her.
Legends make up the multiple orgasms of women ... The body of the stronger sex is slightly different. After ejaculation, he needs time to recover. While one is in the process, the other is resting, and vice versa. MZHM - an opportunity to achieve continuous many hours extravaganza.
Maximum safety. If the invited partner agrees to use a condom, the risk of transmitting harmful microbes and fungi is minimal.
Disadvantages MZHM
A woman must fully trust at least one of the partners. To the words: “Stop, I do not want so” were heard and taken into account. Four courageous hands in a fit of passion significantly reduce the degree of freedom and independence of the partner. So, it is easy to overlook that increasing pleasure was replaced by progressive discomfort.
In some reviews of three-way sex, women argue that when two partners have “played out,” it hurts with every friction. I.e. Tables of pleasure and pain are difficult to distinguish. Especially if they are not familiar enough. There must be someone who will notice a change in mood in time and change their pose or amplitude.
Other threesome reviews. The girl, for example, is not ready for anal sex. In the heat of passion, two strong men could not resist the pleasure of penetrating into a narrow passage. Exhausted after the next orgasm, the partner simply did not have time or failed to object. It's not about coercion! At the end of her love joys, she tells the guys that she didn’t want this and instead of pleasure she felt discomfort, disgust, etc. The impression of triple sex is pretty tainted.
To avoid such situations, first stipulate a stop word. If one of the participants in the process pronounces it, others cease any of their actions.
Homophobia in our country rolls over. A man must imagine that he will be in the same bed with another representative of the species, and even naked, and even with an excited member. Avoid accidental touches will not succeed. Therefore, if at the sight of any penis goosebumps run, and touching is equivalent to a heart attack, it is better not to raise the topic of such adventures at all.
Two women, one man
The first threesome with sophisticated nymphs is just “wow” for any member of the stronger sex. Imagination draws a bewitching picture: two excited furies kiss each other, slowly take off their clothes, stroke each other and call on a man.
In fact, not everything is so cloudless. Female reviews of three-way sex are disappointing - in 9 out of 10 cases, one or both partners remain unsatisfied so that they do not speak in person.
Causes of failures in the ZHMZH format
There are a lot of reasons for once and for all chopping off a man’s dream of intercourse with two women. The most common are presented below:
- A man paid more attention to one partner than the second.
- One of the women was too jealous and could not stand the rival being nearby.
- The man was too busy with one partner, and the first managed to cool.
- Girls began to compare their physical parameters and suffer from their far-fetched imperfections.
- The man finished too quickly from overexcitation.
In fact, male powers and attention did not have enough for two beauties at once. Do not despair, there is a solution!
Advantages of ZHMZH
The sight of two naked ladies in the same bed is a sight to the million. 97% of heterosexual men find lesbian eroticism exciting. No wonder this is one of the most popular and profitable stories in the porn industry.
The ZHMZH format allows to give vent to female sexuality. According to statistics, 70% or more women are bisexual in nature. However, not everyone is ready to admit this to themselves and, moreover, to begin active actions. In their reviews of three-way sex, women often admit that they went to this just to copulate with another woman.
The disadvantages of ZHMZH
A man will have to give his best. Without a specific set of skills, this will be practically impossible. All three are unsatisfied at risk.
Women are shy of each other more than men. For example, the fact that their extra pounds and fat on their sides will be even criticized.
In the ZHMZH format security measures should be observed at the maximum level. The transfer of microflora from one vagina to another can be carried out not only by the penis, but also by the fingers, lips and other parts of the body. After playing with the labia of one partner, a man needs to wash his hands or use a bactericidal agent.
According to the women’s reviews of threesome, it becomes clear that there is a certain percentage of those who do not accept erotic games with a man of their gender. If your trio will have such a person - she will not like it. You can try to awaken her interest, but such attempts rarely have a successful ending.
How to organize a meeting of ZHMZH so that everyone is satisfied?
Satisfying two women with one man is not an easy task. This can only be done by a sex giant who does not disdain the use of auxiliary means such as Viagra. But there is another, more effective way - to cooperate.
The key to success ZHMZH - a game in a team when two partners are engaged in the third. Better to start with an invited girl. Partners in close relationships should pay attention to her first. After the climax, a change of roles takes place. The center of attention is the second woman, caressed by two other participants in the process.
It is good if the partners are prone to bisexuality. Then the idea of ​​giving pleasure to another woman will be enthusiastically received by her. But what if they are convinced hetero?
According to real reviews of threesome sex, in order to give such a respite for a man and not to sit back, it is not necessary to depict passionate lesbian porn with cunnilingus, dildos and nipple stimulation. Enough non-binding strokes of the back, abdomen and legs, kisses of the shoulders, neck, caresses of the head and hair. Tested by hundreds of trios - sincere hugs, an encouraging smile and a peep into the eyes will lead even Orthodox heterosexuals. Do not doubt.
General practical guidelines for threesome sex. Reviews
Finally. Reading a couple of dozens of reviews about threesome will avoid many mistakes when planning a meeting. In any case, your first time will happen completely different from what fantasy imagined, but something can be foreseen.
Three should be sympathetic to each other. If at least one of the participants has a dislike for the other, sex will only aggravate these feelings. An attempt to have fun in such a combination will be doomed to failure. Try to search for a partner again.
To get the most pleasure, a few days before the triple meeting, sexologists recommend that you refrain from sexual intercourse. The diet should be enriched with aphrodisiac products.
The meeting should take place in neutral territory. In the apartment of the owners, the invited partner will feel uncomfortable and constrained. In a hotel room or in a rented apartment everyone is equal, it will be easier for you to relax.
Take care of creating a romantic atmosphere. Candles, pleasant relaxing music, chocolate, flowers and twilight are important for one woman and for two. Scented candles are an attribute of the night that not everyone likes, a rich exotic smell may not please the guest, therefore, at the first meeting it is better to replace them with ordinary ones.
Some masters recommend starting the evening watching thematic porn. Although such a solution can both help and do much harm. It all depends on the addictions of partners.
A small buffet of fruits, light snacks and weak alcoholic beverages should be organized. About the taste preferences of the invited party should be known in advance. Water must be present!
Contraceptives and lubricants should be in stock in sufficient quantities. Also, it is worth preparing a disinfecting solution - Miramistin and analogues.