Love is a feeling that prompted the greatest men of the past and present to perform real feats. And in the future, probably, little will change! Why can you love a girl so that literally "turn mountains"?
Everyone knows Pushkin’s poems dedicated to Anna Kern, songs by Jim Morrison (leader of the Doors), which he dedicated to his girlfriend Pamela Kurson. No less famous are the sculptures of Rodin, whose creation he was inspired by Camille Claudel. And the paintings of Salvador Dali? Most of them simply would not exist if Gala had not appeared in his life. What was so special about these women? Why can you love a girl with such power? And maybe these girls and women were the most ordinary? But the men were able to find something special in them? Most likely, no one can give an answer to these questions. But nowadays, many boys, guys and men are asking themselves the same question: "Why can I love a girl?" And let's try to answer! Most likely, we will not determine the truth. But why not give it a try?
Someone says that he loves his girlfriend for beauty. But this is probably not love, but just sympathy, attraction. Beauty can enchant at first, when feelings "boil". And hereinafter, beauty can be pleasant additions to other features of the "lady of the heart." But girls, nevertheless, strive to be beautiful, no matter what. Moreover, under the beauty they often understand the similarity with models and film actresses. But the guy may seem the most beautiful that the girl does not consider it a “highlight” at all. For example, an upturned nose or dimple on the cheek.
Some say, when answering the question about why you can love a girl, that the reason for their love is a kinship of souls. And now this is closer to the truth. True, everyone has a different meaning in the concept of “kinship of souls”. For some, these are common interests. For others - faith in each other and the desire to support in joy and sorrow.
Someone will call her sexuality the cause of love for a girl. But this, most likely, is also not the main thing. After all, how many amazingly sexy women are left alone?
But if all of the above reasons are not true, then why can you really love a girl?
Yes, probably for nothing concrete. After all, love is a completely irrational feeling. And, probably, it is not in vain that they say that if a person knows what he loves for, then this is not love, but something completely different.
As a matter of fact, what difference does it make you love your girlfriend, and she loves you? The main thing is that there are feelings!
But here many men are overcome by a new question: “How to check a girl for love?”. Especially often this question worries those men who, for whatever reason, doubt the sincerity of the feelings of the chosen one. Some of them think that they “love” his money or position in society. And someone is simply pathologically unsure of himself. What to do in this situation?
You can arrange checks by sending your friends flirting to the girl, or by hiring a private detective who will study her whole life. Or you can just calm down. And understand yourself and your relationship. As a matter of fact, if your beloved cares about you when you are ill, is interested in your opinion (not only for the look, but for real) and listens to him, is interested in your life values and seeks to spend as much time with you as possible - her feelings, most likely real. Therefore, too meticulous checks on your part can simply offend her to the core. And make you doubt whether she needs a relationship with you.
Then another question will bother you: "How to maintain a relationship with a girl?" And then there will be no time for checks! But the offended girl may not forgive the checks humiliating for her!
Love each other and enjoy every moment spent together! And life will put everything in its place!