There are crises in relations; not a single union can do without quarrels. And so that these breakups in a fit of emotion do not lead to a complete
breakdown, it is necessary to have a clear idea of what to do if the girl abandoned.
The very first thing you need to find out is whether you have a chance to restore relations. Both the reason for the quarrel and the girl’s character will tell you about this: if she is extremely expressive, then the gap occurred in a fit of feelings, nevertheless, her love and warmth remained. Perhaps you are guilty of something, then the chances are quite high. If the reason for the breakup is that she got cold for you or fell in love with another, then most likely you will have to come to terms.
Before deciding what to do, you need to find out the reasons why girls abandon guys :
- lack of attention;
- treason (on your or her side);
- jealousy;
- misconduct;
- the girl fell in love with another;
- lack of diversity in relationships and so on.
So has this happened? Here are some recommendations on what to do if a girl quit:
- Surprise her. Have an unforgettable evening. Wait at the house with a large bouquet of flowers, take it somewhere, try to cheer and remind how you felt good together.
- Take it easy. You can not panic and torment yourself with the question of what to do. If a girl abandoned, then this is not the end, the meaning of life is not lost, and she continues with or without a lady.
- Talk to her. Conversations never hurt, on the contrary, if you have accumulated a lot of omissions and claims to each other, it will be extremely useful to discuss this. All problems are solvable, and it is likely that your case is no exception.
- Do you need it? For example, if a girl left a guy not for the first time, then does he need to constantly invent something and break up in order to return everything? In this case, it is easier to throw it out of your head and forget about everything that reminds of it.
What to do if a girl quit because she found another?
Of course, forget it. Since she betrayed you once, however sad it may be, she will be able to repeat this “crime” again. Now the challenge is how to forget it. Here are some suggestions.
- Remember what you did before this relationship. Walking with friends, doing sports, playing in a music group or something else? Use this as an excuse to return to your previous activities or find a new hobby.
- You can not fall into despair, even worse - start drinking alcohol and rush "in all serious ways." Get distracted by something else.
- Take care of yourself, improve yourself. Think about how to get better, so that she later regrets that she lost you.
- Can't you forget her because everything reminds her of? Take all the photographs and gifts received from her far, far away so that they do not catch the eye. Talk less with her friends and relatives.
- Try to have a relationship with another girl, but not out of revenge, otherwise you will make the other person miserable.
Now you know what to do if the girl quit. In no case do not fall into apathy and remember that true love comes over the years, and it must be expected. The girl who needs you will love you the way you are, and all the minor flaws will go by the wayside.