Venus in conjunction with Saturn in the natal chart makes you a very devoted and caring person, but you may have problems with the perception of people. This can lead to some delay and restraint in the formation of close relationships. You crave love and affection, but it seems that there are many obstacles to this goal. Life throws you various painful trials so that you learn to love yourself and love others.
Retrograde
This can be a karmic aspect, especially if Venus or Saturn are retrograde. In such cases, people who knew each other in past lives, while feeling mutually betrayed or offended, will seek each other in this life to teach a mutual lesson and restore justice. It is also possible that people who hurt you in previous incarnations will return with love for you in this life. As soon as you reach a certain evolutionary point in your life, difficulties and sadness will give way to a loving and lasting relationship.
Growing difficulties
This aspect can be particularly difficult during growing up. Lack of self-love or self-esteem is usually the main reason for any shyness or inability to maintain close relationships. It would be much worse if your parents or teachers were tough with you. Perhaps you are faced with deprivation, meanness, withdrawal from love and affection or its absence, especially from your father. Abuse is also possible, but the bottom line is that you may have felt unloved and unappreciated by others.
Insulation
Failure, isolation, and loneliness exacerbate these difficulties as you miss the opportunity to develop communication skills. Feeling awkward in social situations is common, and you would most likely prefer to communicate with only one person or with a very small number of people at a time.
The more you resent, the more people will shun you. Imagine that you are wearing a sign with the words "unloved" on your neck. Your karmic lesson in this life is to learn to love yourself so that others can love you. You may experience periods of isolation between relationships. Parting and divorce are common to this aspect.
Other difficulties
The complex aspects of the Venus-Saturn conjunction are generally considered the most complex of all natal aspects by most astrologers. You feel worse because you are deprived of the love that most people want in this life. As a young person, you may prefer a company of more serious or older people. When you are older, you may prefer a younger partner.
Reliable advice
Patience, zeal, and determination, however, will be rewarded, as is the case with any difficult aspect of Saturn. The more you learn to accept and love yourself, the more you will be able to express your love and affection. Self-esteem inspires respect from others, and you will receive the love and fidelity that you deserve.
Financial questions
The same conditions as in your personal life may also apply to your finances. The lesson here is to learn the value of money and how to save it enough to live. In the end, as is the case with love, you learn to hold it, and not experience periods of restraint or poverty. Savings and investments will bring you the stability and security that you seek.
Saturn Venus Connection: Transit
This connection can bring isolation, sadness, and privation to your life. It will be difficult for you to express love and affection, but it is easy to be cold and mean. Relationships are most affected by this transit, but at this time you may also experience some financial difficulties.
Existing relationships can be verified by distance or diversity, as well as a general inability to connect at an emotional level. Problems associated with feelings of guilt or disloyalty can be the source of the problem. A healthy relationship will easily pass this test and may in fact lead to greater commitment.
An unstable love relationship may not last long, but as a rule, there should be other indicators in your or other charts. Any sadness or painful experiences experienced now will be karmic lessons that will lead to a greater understanding of mutual love and respect or fidelity. Women are especially vulnerable to domestic violence.
Novels and Affair
A new romance is possible now, but it will not be so romantic at all. Most likely, it will be based on practical considerations and may entail your career. A noticeable age difference is also possible. This is not the right time for parties, as you tend to feel depressed and more concerned about serious issues.
Budget
Money can be difficult to achieve, and the transit Venus in conjunction with Saturn will give us a good time in order to learn how to properly budget, in order to reduce the risk of future shortages. Starting a savings plan would be a good idea now.
Saturn-Venus Compound in Natal
On a personal level, these people restrain the free expression of their feelings, especially with regard to the expression of love. Keep in mind that they are masters of compromise, duty and responsibility to their comrades, and it is thanks to this dedication that they truly express their love. Often in childhood there is some form of deprivation associated either with the mother, or with the father, or with both. Most often, the child perceives something from the relationship of the parents, which leads to a deep sense of duty towards the spouse and emotional reserve: the fear of letting go, enjoying the moment and openly expressing love. Although this aspect in classical astrology is associated with delayed marriage or loneliness, it is much more often seen in the charts of people who really “enter into partnerships”, often in the early stages, and who adhere to the relationship through the fingers. Often they are alone, even if they are partners. As a rule, they are prone to a demanding partner for most of their lives.
Love fears
There is fear associated with love, and many people with this attitude struggle with a lack of trust. One of their greatest fears is failure. Another reason that they can remain faithful to a difficult marriage may be the fear of disappointment in the family, and what he or she feels will be a blow to reputation. Sometimes material problems are related to relationships. Some people have relationships because they give them a sense of material security. Self-sacrifice is extremely common in this position. However, although they crave to be loved unconditionally more than anything else, their conviction that they will not receive such love does not allow them to truly try to find it. With Saturn, there is at the same time a fear of failure and a fear of success, which prevents people from feeling free or courageous enough to go after what they really want.
Detachment
You may have a somewhat detached manner of communication, and many people with this aspect (especially men) may seem skeptical, factual, and even superficial on a social level. They are masters of protecting their feelings and do everything possible so that others do not know about their vulnerability. Of course, this type of defense mechanism further prevents them from finding happiness in love. It’s so hard for them to let down their defenses. They need to truly know where they stand with you before they can feel at least to some extent safe. Negative expectations in love must be handled to begin work on this aspect. The good news with Saturn is that time and maturity do better with its energy. These people must make a conscious effort to evaluate their behavior. If they admit to themselves that they really want and should be loved by their partner, they can gradually lower their protection. For example, keeping loved ones at arm's length and pretending to be fine with them, but that will not encourage intimacy between you.
The influence of other planets
With a mix, and especially with supportive aspects from other planets, these people have every opportunity to advance in their chosen career. The business sense is strong, especially in finance and art. A commitment to something, whether it’s a favorite project, work, business or person, is very characteristic of the Venus-Saturn connection in directorates.
Intimacy is not easy for you, and you may seem cold or insensitive to others because of your emotional coldness and caution. Perhaps because of the painful relationships and separation in your youth, you do not trust others very easily, and it takes a lot of time to remove all your barriers and protection. You may feel that you have few friends or people who really care about you. You must learn to value and love yourself more and express your appreciation for others more openly. For the Venus-Saturn conjunction in a solarium, this is also very relevant.
Coldness and detachment
The ability to give and receive love is not natural for people born with Venus in the difficult aspect of Saturn. Locks are experienced, and loving relationships can be a source of frustration until locals learn to love themselves and feel worthy of love from others. Duty is often associated with love, and some may find themselves, for example, married without love. Especially in their youth, these people may feel uncomfortable in some social situations, not knowing how to express their feelings, and fearing rejection. However, problematic positions on Saturn often improve with age, experience, and practice! In a more negative expression, some people with this attitude learn to draw up schemes to get what they want from a partner, or they can treat a partnership as if it were a business. Venus in conjunction with Saturn in a man creates clearly not the best lovers.
Developed intuition
These aspects can make people especially sensitive to “clues” that suggest that they are not loved or rejected in any way. People with Venus-Saturn in a difficult aspect can often expect rejection in matters of love and care, whether they are aware of this trend or not. This can often lead to negative situations in love or a feeling of failure in a relationship. The Venus-Saturn conjunction in the Synastry also stimulates the development of ethical intuition.