It happens that you see HIS, and the heart stops for a second, and the mind begins to forge suitcases. From that moment on, only one thought lives and dominates in a woman’s head: “How to get a guy?” It is foolish to hope that he will turn his attention to the person he is interested in first, because he could have done it before, and if such happiness did not happen , you need to take the initiative into your own hands. Some 30 years ago it was not proper to approach the guy you liked first. Today, girls take an active position and do not intend to so easily and simply let go of their potential happiness only because dubious moral standards do not allow her to take the first step. So, how to get a guy who really liked?
In order to choose the tactics of how to achieve the location of a guy, you need to decide on what goals he will then need. Creating strong, serious relationships with a man you like, and easy non-binding flirting, continued in a horizontal position, are two completely different goals that require a radically different approach. So for the first option you will have to try hard and show all your imagination.
Young people are ready to be with a girl who is natural in everything. The fact is that it is this naturalness that men and women understand in completely different ways. So for the guys it is imperative that their girlfriend should look great regardless of the situation, and she could be proudly introduced to her friends in any form. At the same time, busting with cosmetics and men's outfits is annoying. The main thing for them is the grooming of the girl. In other words, her natural attractiveness is brought to such a state that she is already waking up beautiful. This is aerobatics, which is not available to every girl. To become attractive to him is only the first step on the path of his subjugation, since only the girl who is visually pleasing to him can achieve a guy.
The next step in taking the fortress called the “man of dreams” is to find common interests and, if possible, mutual acquaintances in whose company they could meet. He can be a football fan and spend hours discussing his favorite team. In this case, the girls need to know at least some basic things from this topic with which she could easily appeal. The main mistake of all the girls at this stage: a deep study of the topic of interest to the man and the subsequent statement of all the facts. Such female behavior confuses a man, and he begins to feel stupid, because a woman in his area understands better than he does. No guy will tolerate female superiority over himself. So still, how to get a guy?
Any man is ready to listen to compliments addressed to him for hours, even if it is flattery, even if it is not as thin and beautiful as we would like. Do not think that the guys will perceive all the praise addressed to them as the woman wants it. Here it is necessary to show imagination and when making another compliment to your object of conquest, you need to focus on its real merits. For example, telling a too thin person that his muscles play in the sun will be stupid and cruel. But to praise the young man for helping in some matter, since he could not have been another, would be appropriate and effective. A beautiful woman with whom there is something to talk about and who will also always appreciate him, is unlikely to be left without attention from the guy who interests her.
But it also happens that no matter how the girl tries, she cannot achieve the expected result. The question arises: “Is it worth it to seek a guy who does not react to you in any way?” The answer, most likely, will be: No. Such situations are quite normal. He just has no attraction to the girl, and this feeling of creating and maintaining for a long time is artificially almost impossible. Then you just need to come to terms with the idea that this is the hero of someone else’s novel and with an open heart and a wide smile, go in search of a new prince.