Love moves the sun, directs the elements and changes the structure of dense bodies. The energy of love nourishes and grows, accelerates and sends into flight. A girl or a woman, seized by this force, ceases to perceive reality as she always has been, and understands: “I fell in love. What to do? ”Unfortunately, today, in an age of equality and grand opportunities, femininity is becoming a prisoner in a relationship, and love more often brings suffering than happiness. Why is this happening? Due to confusion in concepts. Today, children are taught writing, arithmetic, the exact sciences and the fundamentals of economics, but they are not taught to respect a man and protect a woman. They do not learn to read in hearts, to distinguish between love and love. In a good intention to simplify life, scientists have reduced sexual relations to sex. But a woman can’t just ignore her heart attraction, although many aspire to this, having survived their first disappointments ...
What should I do if I fall in love?
The wise say: keep your feet warm and your head cold. But, see, they were lucky in life - they have never experienced this comprehensive immersion in passion: a heart beats somewhere in the throat, hot breath drains lips, dizzy, palms become wet, and the doctor does not even register an increase in temperature. When this happens, you understand: I fell in love. What to do in such a situation? If you are only twelve years old, this does not mean that you are not ready for serious trials. Think for yourself - now that you are in love, the whole world has been painted with new shades, every day you feel an amazing feeling of happiness. You are constantly visited by fantasies about the object that awakened all this firework.
But, you yourself understand that approaching the Sun threatens with incineration. If the object of passion was an unattainable star - you're in luck. You can chat about it with your girlfriends - this will not break the idyll of your love. But feelings for a real boy will have to be kept secret. It is very difficult, but you are strong. Keep a diary and pour streams of tenderness on its pages. What do you dream about? About reciprocity? This is fine, but most likely they forgot to tell you one important thing: even if a young man seeks relationships with you and gets attention, you need to check him, find out what kind of person he is. And recognition affects the feelings so badly - they often go out.
As long as you have time, enjoy the feeling of being in love alone. Do not reveal your secret to anyone.
You say that Romeo and Juliet were so happy that they wanted to die? Be attentive. This Shakespearean story also captivates beyond its sad ending; everyone forgets the no less tragic beginning. Re-read how it all began: Romeo from the first minutes of appearing in the play was already in love - passionately and recklessly, and, as he himself claimed, for life. His heart and mind were focused on the image of Rosalina. But what happens next? Only a few hours after the enthusiasm for her and genuine suffering, we see Romeo swearing on Juliet's love. If they had time to get to know each other and get to know each other, where is the guarantee that Romeo in the near future would not give Juliet a horn ... There is something to think about, right?
Is it possible to benefit from temporary insanity?
Do not think that falling in love is only a teenage problem. “Oh horror, I fell in love, what should I do?” - such questions arise in women of any age. Neurobiologists, psychiatrists, psychologists attribute this experience to the category of obsessive states quite rightly. Falling in love is a crisis experience that makes a woman think about what she wants, why she lives. Any crisis is a potential possibility of death and rebirth to a new life. Unfortunately, we cannot choose whether to fall in love with us or not. This is an illusory reality, a disease of the mind and heart, given to us in sensation. But if a woman knows what she deserves, she has a much better chance of turning this crisis into something good. After all, it is not at all necessary to rush headlong into a whirlpool of new relationships.
If we recall, most creative people used the state of love to activate their potential, to express emotions in objects of art. Isn't that a worthy alternative to tears in the pillow?
I fell in love, what to do? Use your chance!
You may not agree with this, but personally I adore the state of love. This sensation has a life-giving force that neither coffee, nor alcohol, nor chocolate can compare with. No vitamin cocktail stood next to a bowl of happiness filled with love. In fact, every girl knows how to properly dispose of this gift. If you fall in love - what to do: sing, dance, draw, write poetry and prose. Use your chance. This flight condition will not last forever. Embody it in creativity. Fall in love more often with people, with flowers, with paintings. And always be in love with life - this is the secret of happiness.