When a love relationship is more like a roller coaster, a person willingly or not begins to think about what are the reasons for these stormy feelings. Why can't he control himself in this love affair? Often the answer lies in the fact that it is rooted in a previous incarnation.
Definition
Karmic love is a relationship that often brings a whole bunch of problems to a person. No one is safe from this phenomenon. Young and old, both men and women are exposed to love from a past life.
Often people wonder what karmic love means. The explanation of this term is simple: those are called relationships, one way or another connected with previous incarnations. For example, in a past life, a man and a woman were husband and wife — or perhaps a mother and a child. They have not fully worked out their karma and must do it now.
Love at first sight
One of the most common types of karmic relationships is love at first sight. There are many interpretations of the phenomenon when one person falls in love with another without memory, seeing the object of his adoration for the first time in his life. Often this happens even with quite mature, sane people. What happens at that moment when people first meet each other's eyes and passion flashes between them? Esotericists believe that in the vast majority of cases this phenomenon has the following explanation: these people in the previous incarnation were spouses, lovers, or were in a platonic relationship. When they meet with their eyes, this energy is activated again - they “recognize each other”.
New love relationships begin. Two discover how similar their tastes and ideas are. If one of the partners or both of them are weak-willed people, easily amenable to emotions, then this connection begins to occupy a dominant position in their lives. Succumbing to a storm of feelings, they destroy old ties, forget about work matters, abandon children.
All this happens because to people such a meeting seems like a real sign of fate. Of course, such a meeting is not accidental. But it can have various reasons. It is possible that the couple should complete some process that was not completed in the previous incarnation. Maybe they need to realize some important things. This will not necessarily mean that they will have a happy love affair or family life.
Why are these relationships unviable?
Often such meetings take place precisely for karmic reasons. When “recognition” occurs during the first glance, and it seems to people that fate itself has “reduced” them, it is necessary to remember one important point. Having a memory of previous incarnations, the soul begins to impose on another person certain expectations, psychological projections that existed in the previous incarnation.
At present, the partner is a completely different person. In some ways, he looks like a lover from a past life, but in many ways - this is a new personality. At the moment, it is the quintessence of previous incarnations. And he embodies the features of many, not just one embodiment from a particular life. This person will act completely differently. Her feelings vary. Even if in the previous incarnation it was love to the grave, not necessarily relationships from the past will be serious now.
When such a couple begins to equip a joint life, the relationship gradually fades. Powerful energy is gradually coming to naught. Past and present realities collide, come into conflict. If people have a certain life wisdom and experience, and the feeling between them is not destructive, but bright, they will find a common language. If desired, they will succeed in building harmonious relationships, and become happy.
But most often it happens and vice versa - people break up. Their karmic duty is not fulfilled and passes into the next life.
Signs of a love affair from a past life. Surprise
Whether current relations are connected with a past life can be determined without going to fortunetellers or clairvoyants. One of the main signs of karmic love is surprise. Relations fall like snow on a person’s head. In this case, a man and a woman may differ in age, social and material status. Sometimes it happens that people have known each other for many years, but it never occurred to them to start a family. For many years they communicate as friends, but one fine day the situation changes dramatically.
Rapidity
Relations are formed very quickly - within one month after meeting the couple begins to meet. A person is not able to correctly perceive all information and only after a year or more begins to realize what really happened to him. Prior to this, he is in full control of his emotional reactions, which he cannot explain. No matter how stormy the passion may be, far from always partners after “awakening” want to see each other, not to mention maintaining friendly relations.
Relocation
After the official marriage, spouses can change their place of residence, move to another city or country. The distant move, the breakdown of ties with friends and relatives, the beginning of life “from scratch” is another important sign of such a connection. But whether it really represents karmic love must be judged by the presence of other signs. One move abroad does not mean that feelings came from a previous incarnation.
A difficult situation in a relationship
One of the most common options is an alcoholic partner or drug addict. Sometimes it can be a partner’s problems related to his health, for example, living with a person bedridden or disabled. In some cases, the early death of a partner. One way or another, such a relationship can be safely called "punishment."
Usually this "punishment" a person arranges for himself, unconsciously choosing a psychologically or physically dysfunctional person. This choice is due to guilty feelings for the bad deeds committed in relation to him in a past life. In the previous incarnation, the roles of the “bad” and “good” partners were opposite, in this justice is restored.
Lack of children
Another sign of karmic love is the absence of children. Spouses are focused only on themselves. A love affair serves as a way of understanding their own character flaws. In karmic relationships of this kind, their outcome depends on how much each of the couple’s members “correctly” does. For example, if a husband and wife do not curse because of infertility, but take a child from the baby’s house, a joint child soon suddenly appears. If only one of the partners tries to behave “correctly”, but he does not receive support from another, here the situation ends differently. As a reward, fate gives him another partner, from whom he has children.
Fatality
Relations in such a pair are often fatal in the most negative sense of the word. This usually includes:
- love triangles;
- relations in which love and hate reign;
- relationships that continue regardless of the desire of partners, due to the influence of certain external factors.
Karmic love in real life is usually filled with hardships and suffering. In fact, this connection is incompatible with normal human existence. For personal and professional growth, a person simply does not have any spiritual or physical forces. On the other hand, having acted “correctly” in a similar situation, a man or woman gets a chance to become at the highest level of his development, to rise above his shortcomings.
Other signs by which to judge karmic duty in love
Other love bells indicate that the love affair is karmic in nature:
- A powerful and inexplicable attraction.
- The feeling of "recognition" of each other. From the very first conversation it seems that people have known each other for many years.
- Constant thoughts about this person.
- Relationships can be exhausting, but people cannot see life without each other.
- The opposite of characters - for example, the right girl - "excellent student" meets with a "bad" guy.
Karmic love by date of birth: calculation
To learn about whether love is an echo of relationships from a past life, you can also use numbers. To do this, you must fully add the number of birth dates of both partners. All zeros are omitted. For example, a girl was born on 05/11/1990, and a man on 07/15/1985. The numbers add up: 1 + 1 + 5 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 1 + 5 + 7 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 5 = 62. Then the resulting amount is adjusted to a single digit. In this example, 6 + 2 = 8. After that, look at karmic compatibility by date of birth in love according to the table.
- Number 1 - Union is based on passion and love. But relationships can be superficial, and partners risk each other quickly getting bored.
- Number 2 - love affair comes from distant previous incarnations. The union can be full of secrets and romance. But relationships can deteriorate due to excessive soaring in the clouds.
- Number 3 - a woman more than a man influences a love affair. It is for him that the union will be karmic. For a lady, it will be either a convenient option, or another entertainment.
- Number 4 - Relationships are karmic for a woman, not a man. The union may be strong, but to a greater extent it depends on the desire of a man.
- Number 5 is the highest wisdom. Communication is built on understanding and mutual respect.
- Number 6 is a situation in which both partners cannot get rid of claims, disagreements. Relations are unlikely to be lasting.
- Number 7 is love that will last a long time. For the sake of their own happiness, the couple is ready to go through many trials.
- Number 8 - Communication is based on cold calculation and formality.
- The number 9 is a good union. Communication can last until a very old age.
Karma according to the horoscope
Astrology can also suggest what a past life was like. A karmic horoscope of a general nature allows you to find out the features of the previous incarnation - both your own and your partner. Comparing these data, relationships will be much easier to build. In astrology, the following opinion is accepted regarding the karma of the zodiac signs:
- Fire (Leo, Sagittarius, Aries) - the current incarnation occurred immediately after death.
- Air (Libra, Aquarius, Gemini) - a person is embodied in the present shell after months or years.
- Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) - centuries have passed between this and the previous incarnations.
- Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) - a very large amount of time has passed between the previous incarnation and the present. It may be a thousand or several thousand years.
For example, if one of the partners has a small “history” and the other is “older”, these relations can be safely called karmic. Most often it happens that the "debts" accumulate more "senior" partner. For example, relationships in a pair of Aquarius-Capricorn will be difficult. A partner under the sign of Aquarius will be pleased with a love affair. Capricorn, who has already managed to "break firewood" for his many incarnations, will experience difficulties in them, working out his duty to fate. The information provided by the karmic horoscope is useful not only for analyzing a love affair, but also for any other relationship - for example, a subordinate and leader, parent and child.
How to solve past life problems
How to get rid of karmic love? The ability to break a difficult relationship is determined by their features. If one partner plays the role of a “debtor” who behaved inappropriately in a past life, in this embodiment the situation is such that he must repay his “debts”. Once they are paid, then the need for a love affair will disappear. Feelings fade themselves. This will be evidenced by the ease in the relationship, the absence of guilt or fear for a partner.
To achieve this, sometimes just breaking a love affair is not enough. A person suffering from the vicissitudes of karmic love needs to do a lot of work on himself. He should identify the negative qualities that are in his character, and which in the present relationship cause problems. For example, a man may love a woman who does not seek a serious relationship. If he suffers because of this, he should work on his qualities of sanity, realism, and even some pragmatism. Perhaps if he turns his attention to more pressing problems in his life, then the situation on the love front will change for the better. In this case, karmic love from a past life will fulfill its function, and the relationship will either become happy, or by themselves will collapse as unnecessary.