Each person has a time when he has his first sexual intercourse, and his further sexual life depends on how everything goes for the first time.
Unfortunately, a bad experience can lead to a lot of emotions and even stress, and in the future it can leave a serious imprint on the subsequent development of sexual activity.
There is no specific scheme for the relationship of partners, because each couple in love has its own story and its own path, consisting of defeats and victories.
The first sex for a girl is an important moment on the way to adulthood. But it so happened that this very process is often associated with fear and pain. She may like hugs, kisses, affection, but she perceives offers to have sex warily and cautiously. The young man in this case should be gentle and courteous, in no case should not press and not insist on coitus. For a young girl, the partner’s unwillingness to reckon with her opinion and requests can cause physical and psychological trauma.
The first sexual act hurts a woman, it happens due to the rupture of the hymen. Painful sensations can be minimized if you approach this process correctly and choose the most successful posture.
We’ll talk about preliminary caresses and preparing a girl for sex a little lower, but now let's look at the pose for the first time. The girl should lie on her back and, bending her legs at the knees, press them to her chest. Under the buttocks you can put a rolled up blanket or pillow. This position of the female body makes hymen extremely tense, which means that its rupture will pass less painfully and more easily.
It is important to learn one thing. No posture can bring pleasure if sex is not out of love and mutual deep sympathy. Perhaps with age we are more skeptical of this process and believe that animal desire is enough, but for a young first time it is very important to use the attraction between a guy and a girl and feelings.
You can make the first sexual intercourse the most enjoyable if you thoroughly approach the process. A man should not rush and as much as possible prepare a partner for sex. He should sufficiently excite her with the help of preliminary caresses and relax thanks to gentle words.
Remember that sex must be safe, so use condoms. This will protect the girl from unwanted pregnancy and various sexually transmitted infections. For less painful penetration, use grease and various lubricants.
In the future, sexual intercourse for both partners will already be a pleasant experience and will help bring relations to a new level.
It is very important to make sure that the first sexual intercourse does not take place in a dirty entrance or in a separate room at a noisy party with a lot of people. Anyway, you need to approach this process responsibly and be prepared. The best option is to have sex at home, on a clean bed with a pleasant aroma around, and you don’t need to try to make love in a hurry, when parents should come from work any minute. Believe me, if a man in such an environment can get a hasty orgasm, then there can be no talk of any pleasure for the girl.
As for behavior during preparation for sex, it should be noted that both partners should be as relaxed as possible and pay enough attention to foreplay. You can start with an erotic massage, rub against each other and caress.
I must say that the first sex in men is also exciting. They are nervous and worried so that everything goes at the highest level. Perhaps their debut will happen very quickly and they will not be able to please the woman, but there is, after all, oral sex, and the man will be able to rehabilitate. If a girl already has experience, then she should also treat a man with descent and understanding.
A glass of champagne will help to relax, but be careful with alcohol, the main thing is to observe the dose and not overdo it, otherwise the consequences can be unpleasant and lead to the opposite effect, when nothing comes out simply.