It is said that female tears are the most powerful weapon, especially if the “opponent” is a man. A strong half of humanity is ready for everything, just not to hear sobs, sobs and not to see how tears are rolling from the girl’s eyes. And all due to the fact that men are lost, fall into a stupor and stand aside "like a statue" at the sight of female tears. However, men want it or not, but sometimes in life there are situations that can upset even the most balanced and calm girl. So she starts to cry. What can be done to calm a girl?
First of all, don’t panic, don’t be nervous, show the lady that her problem is not indifferent to you, hug her, touch her shoulder, kiss. Tell her how much she means to you, shower her with compliments, and then, when the girl’s emotions subside a little, ask her to tell in detail about the cause of the tears. Be sure to listen to the interlocutor to the end, without interrupting and nodding sympathetically during the conversation. Believe me, she will appreciate this and understand that her life, her interests and problems interest you. Perhaps she simply considered that you began to devote less time to her, because you did not feel the same feelings for her, in this case you should try to prove the opposite, suggesting, for example, to go to the store together and then cook dinner. Then your beloved will not feel so alone.
How to reassure a girl if the cause of tears is feeling sick or sick? It will require your support and care. For a common cold, make tea with raspberries, go to the pharmacy for medicine, and along the way buy an interesting movie that you can watch together. Only when choosing, focus on her taste preferences. If a girl loves comedy, it’s just wonderful, because scientists have proved that laughter not only prolongs life, but also, as you know, enhances immunity and helps fight various diseases. If the health problem is serious, show your beloved that you believe in her strength, convince her that she can overcome all difficulties. This can be done with the help of gaming moments, competitions, where she can and must win. Be it a "sea battle" or a "monopoly", or maybe a competition in the speed of inflating balloons.
How to reassure a girl if her tears are caused by the death of a close relative? Here you just do not need a lot of words and do not even try to cheer her up, otherwise you can run into a fit of rage. Only your patience, participation and time can help in such a situation.
If the girl has problems at work, promise her that you will always support her beloved and help her in resolving issues. To cheer up a girl, at least a little is enough to be a romantic, a noble knight of our time. Order a bouquet of flowers by phone and intrigue her with a mention of a prepared surprise. Make her coffee with sandwiches or sweets, and put a romantic note or flower on the saucer. It’s worth turning on your imagination and you can find a large number of ways to calm a girl and restore her good mood.
It so happens that tears on the cheeks of a loved one arise at the time of your quarrel with her. And no matter how confident you are, remember that both are always to blame for any conflict. Do not try to “win”, because in doing so you will only aggravate the situation. For a moment, step back from what is happening, calm down, do not respond to harsh statements, no matter how difficult it is. How to reassure a girl if you feel that the situation is getting out of control? Try to overcome yourself and admit your own wrong, even if inside you are against it. And then you can offer a walk together, this will help relieve irritation and tension of your beloved.