In a crowd, all people are alike. But it's worth talking, and an attentive observer will see that this or that person is unusual, not like the others. An extraordinary person is always a curious phenomenon and an occasion to reflect on the fact that for a person there are no boundaries of improvement. This is always a reason to reflect on your own achievements.
Nothing specialists
Abilities look impressive, but they themselves are of little value. In the labor market they pay for achievements and stability of high results. An extraordinary person is a person who proves daily that more can be done. Proves by example. Once Donald Trump was asked if he would have hired the winner of the erudite contest. The billionaire answered in the negative - after all, such a person knows a little about everything and nothing deeply. Therefore, every day in business he has nothing to do. He can be hired as a consultant for a one-time creative project, but not for long-term work. So an extraordinary person is always a narrow specialization. It is always many hours of hard work in an area that is boring for most people.
Non-glamorous work
Tennis players spend hours practicing movements without a ball. It takes a lot of time, it is uninteresting and not at all spectacular. Often in the first few years a young tennis player does not participate in tournaments at all. The result is far, happiness is not far. And in the end - victories in sports and the highest achievements. Examples: an extraordinary man Maxim Mirny or an unusual woman Maria Sharapova. Thousands of hours of hard and boring work lurk behind their non-standard.
Be yourself
An extraordinary person is always a developed system of his own views and sufficient courage to live in accordance with these views, not to be afraid of opinions, not to tremble before condemnation. And, by the way, a really deep personality will not strive to become extraordinary. It turns out naturally. Just know your goals and follow the dream, work hard every day. Then you will make the world wonder.
Unpleasant, but surmountable
An extraordinary person is always the result of a painful experience. People who find everything outwardly easy usually know the price of this “lightness”. Talents are often associated with either early development or hard labor. And with a lot of very unpleasant situations when the child feels weak, awkward, stupid. Remember - even in stressful, “ugly” situations, you look much better than you think. Often observers do not even understand the nature of your difficulties. So do not be too hard on yourself. Do you speak English badly? It’s okay that you cannot surprise your teacher. Do not be afraid, try, make mistakes, correct yourself. And everything will turn out!
To become an unusual person, you do not need to strive for alien, imposed ideals. Look for what you like and get better and better. Sooner or later, you will understand how to apply your knowledge to the benefit of other people. So, you will become unusual and interesting for them. Courage and belief in a dream is most important. An extraordinary person is a passion for improving oneself.