Each of us has a friend who chooses the wrong person from time to time for a relationship. His love affairs are like swamps, having got into which, he can get out, only having lost something. A quagmire of sadness and inseparable feelings sucks him deeper. Despite all efforts, I can’t get out. Or maybe you are this person? What to do? Astrology will help to figure it out.
Such feelings from life are experienced by a person in whose horoscope the tender and beautiful planet Venus has stood in opposition to the harsh and decisive Saturn. How to make out this combination in the natal chart? And is it really disastrous for personal life in fact?
Venus
Named after the goddess of love and beauty, the planet in the horoscope carries the energy of harmony and sensuality. Venus is responsible not only for the quality of a person’s personal life. The sphere of influence of this planet includes all relationships with others, a penchant for creativity. Strong Venus in the horoscope of people who are sociable, inspiring confidence. Depending on the house where the planet is located, a person clearly has positive qualities associated with personal relationships. Aspects of Venus provide a field for the application of her powers and talents. With the positive influences of other planets, Venus rewards a person with the best manifestations of its sides: the energy of harmony and passion. With negative aspects, it makes him moody, blocks creative endeavors. The energy of love is redirected to another channel. Only the strong position of the planet can stop this outflow of joy and feelings. Then the energy drain turns into a block, stagnation of energy, and does not allow a person to use it fully.
Saturn
This planet, as a rule, brings with it heavy energy. Its impact responds to suffering, loss, waste. With a favorable location, Saturn gives a person decisiveness and obstinacy in achieving goals. Such people are restrained in feelings, attentive to the world around them, not talkative and true to their choice to the end. They do not like wealth, although money is given to them easily. Prefer a modest lifestyle, be patient and prepare for the blows of fate in advance. Saturn's weak position affects the mental state. The person is anxious, worried about trifles, any situation that has gone out of control can bring him out of balance. Such a person is impractical, he constantly has sudden monetary losses, hence the poverty and lack of internal self-confidence.
Venus vs Saturn
Opposition to planets is a negative factor. Given the energy of Saturn, which, with a bad aspect, greatly weakens the enemy, and the owner of the horoscope can significantly worsen the natal chart, we can say that the unpleasant qualities of Venus will be revealed in full. Particulars of characteristics are best clarified depending on the house where this couple is located. The general interpretation boils down to the fact that the opposition of Venus with Saturn brings deprivation in both personal life and in the financial sphere. Saturn is a depressive planet, with its mood it kills all the joyful prospects of a strong Venus in a horoscope. A person in a state of internal instability and resentment loses confidence in his own strengths, becomes tense and nervous. Over the years, the character of a person with such a combination of planets is becoming tougher, he ceases to feel. The choice of the second half is usually unsuccessful. It falls on a person who is cruel, depreciating, destructive, or simply not suitable for age or social status. Even when creating a family with a rich person, happiness in marriage is not expected, since there is no love for the spouse.
The work is the same story. Leadership does not like, deprived of bonuses, salary is small. Whatever a person does, without elaboration of this opposition, the financial sphere in his natal chart is blocked. He is inclined to choose friends older than his age, relations with them are superficial. A lot of unworked grievances against parents and this negatively affect the whole life of the individual. A man is afraid to seem vulnerable. He hates close relationships with anyone.
In general, all the best qualities of Venus are: the ability to love, feel life, put your soul into work, protect your parents and be a good friend - all this is in a deadlock. Naturally, such a position of the planets will bring a lot of problems to the owner of the natal chart. They can be solved only by strengthening Venus and appeasing Saturn.
Harmony between Venus and Saturn
The favorable aspects of this pair do not contribute to a complete solution of personality problems. This situation says that to develop the positive qualities of the planets will succeed only in adulthood. In youth, a person is secretive, indecisive. Differs in emotionlessness, complexing. Venus makes such people attractive, they like a magnet attract the opposite sex, but are not capable of a long-term relationship. They like loneliness, however hard it would be to accept loved ones. In a positive vein, the business of such a person is developing. Effectively work alone or in a managerial position. In life, he adheres to the rule that everything should be "on the level", the opinion of others is important. A man with a conjunction of Venus and Saturn is able to make decisions with a cold head. Everything that he says has been thought over previously, do not expect surprise and emotionality from him.
The Importance of Opposition for Personal Life
Sinastric astrology interprets the conflict of planets as follows: it is good if Saturn is a man - in opposition to Venus women. And while they are in harmony. Then a confident, strong and decisive man in a pair becomes a leader. A girl with a strong Venus is a creative person, she is able to captivate him so much that she will melt a cold heart and warm her soul.
If Venus is in opposition to Saturn, the relationship collapses for unknown reasons. Both partners become mercantile. A person with Saturn is cold and prudent; she has the habits of a home tyrant. Saturian is jealous, prone to pathological distrust. The person with the energy of Venus from such treatment will quickly close and try to leave. Her emotional outbursts annoy the Saturian. The capriciousness of a man with Venus infuriates a partner from himself; he can afford rude antics. The Venusian does not tolerate criticism, and the other half cannot restrain himself. In the synastry, the opposition of Venus to Saturn is characterized by the absence of warm relations, revenge, excessive interest in the material side.
Female horoscope
A girl with such a combination of planets in the natal chart repels men with an internal barrier. It is difficult for her to create a strong relationship. At a young age, a woman with the opposition of Venus to Saturn either often changes partners, or prevents them from approaching at all. As a rule, it acquires the second half in adulthood, and the spouse can be much older. This is also due to the fact that outwardly over the years such people are significantly prettier. Often, such individuals do not have a positive example of a parental couple. She has nothing to be guided by, the family model is not set. This combination of planets is common among older children in the family. Little attention is paid to them, thereby giving rise to the idea that they are not needed. A child grows up with a lack of confidence in the world. A person, growing up, becomes cold and prudent, shows authoritarianism and a tendency to bring up a partner. It is hard for him to entrust his life to another person.
Male horoscope
In men, the opposition of Venus to transit Saturn is characterized by a tendency to control a partner, pettiness and secrecy. Such a man is a hard worker. And often, due to excessive enthusiasm for the work process, he leaves his personal life for later. Usually has problems with parents, so it is better to leave home early. Early marriage is contraindicated, as it will bring even greater destruction, undermine faith in love and sincerity. A man needs to learn how to communicate with people. He looks at everything in his life through the prism of a personal relationship, that is, if he likes, it means it's good, if not, it's bad. In the expression of feelings constrained, does not enjoy life. Builds boundaries in relationships. He is having a hard time parting with a partner, losing confidence in other people if this happened. A native with this position of the planets in the map is jealous, but does not show his feelings. This causes neuroses.
Children's horoscope
The kid with the opposition of Venus to Saturn in the natal chart is reasonable and modest. He may think that he is not loved enough, because his parents pay little attention to him or attract him excessively to adult work. He wants to stand out, to do something useful and important, to be appreciated. Without the response of his parents, he will have an opinion that love brings pain and disappointment. It is important for parents to understand that their baby needs to understand and show feelings for him. Embrace him more often, say that you love and that he is important for the family.
Reviews of native
People who experienced Saturn’s transits in opposition to Venus agree on one thing: it is extremely difficult for them to establish relationships with others. This is frustrating and consuming. Moreover, such people become very attached to partners and with an initial coldness in relations, later they begin to show excessive interest, obsession. They complain that those they love don't like them. And vice versa. Often, over the age of 30, they are not married and have no children.
How to strengthen Venus?
It is important to understand: such combinations in the natal chart serve to indicate to a person what he should correct in this life. What karma needs to be worked out. What can be done so that life changes radically and energy flows freely throughout the body and brings joy and well-being.
In order to correct the destructive effect of the opposition of Venus to Saturn in the natal chart of a woman or a man, the native needs to first love himself. Understand that no one is perfect, and he, too, that every person has the right to make mistakes. Accept yourself as you are and love. Find your creative talent and develop it. For example, if you painted well in childhood, you can do it now with pleasure. Develop a creative taste, dress well, attend theater, exhibitions and galleries. A woman should take more care of herself, for this is suitable Friday - the day of Venus. Visit a beautician, hairdresser that day. Money invested in yourself, as a rule, motivates to love yourself even more. Men feel when a woman treats herself with love. This motivates them to become those who are supposed to be according to natural laws: defenders and support. After all, such beauty must be taken care of as the flower is watered so that it does not wilt.
Men to study Venus in the horoscope must pay close attention to the woman nearby. Pamper her and look after her, gifts will help propitiate the capricious Venus. For active actions, also select Friday.
How to strengthen Saturn?
These recommendations are useful even for those with a strong Saturn. The planet causes severe damage, there are even whole periods when adversity lies in wait at every turn. Saturn is in transit during this period. In opposition to Venus, the native gains a nervous character, the ability to despotism and excessive control. Saturn can be worked out by the following actions:
1. Be patient, humble and not respond to criticism.
2. Turn off selfishness and unconditional acceptance of one’s fate.
3. Do not be hyperresponsible, be able to protect their interests.
4. To show firmness in good intentions, not to leave things halfway.
5. A very important point: you must respect the elders, especially relatives and leaders. A good practice for working out Saturn will be visiting the nursing home, selfless help for the elderly. If you don’t have time to visit shelters, help older relatives or just make them happy. The best time for this activity is Saturday, the day of Saturn.
Opposition neutralization. Astrologers Recommendations
To neutralize the negative impact, it is necessary to reconcile the planet. Understand the essence of the energies that they carry within themselves. The love and creative energy of Venus and the calm and moderation of Saturn. Understand that in order to establish personal life and relationships with people in general, you will have to work hard. Accept the fact that now you have to bring all things to their logical conclusion, after that comes the joy of the task, the feeling of fullness and the energy of Saturn will stir.
To neutralize the opposition of Venus to Saturn in the natal chart on the physical level, you can do yoga and meditation. A taut figure favors the patronage of Venus. An excellent study of Saturn will be a trip to the mountains. Such a place is its element. In the process of working out, you will feel internal resistance. This reaction is natural, because you want to change the balance of energies within yourself. The main thing is not to give up, patience and perseverance will bear fruit. Harmonization of Venus and Saturn will give you the opportunity to create long and successful relationships. Self-love will give confidence that you deserve constancy from a partner and loyalty to the end. Make a daily routine, so the order that is so pleasing to Saturn will come to life. Strengthen communication with loved ones, with the older generation. The energy of the kind is a powerful nourishment on the path of life.
Finally
In order to find out the position of the planets in your natal chart as detailed as possible and to know for sure your strengths and weaknesses, contact an astrologer. He will examine the map in detail and determine the influence of the planets. There is no such combination, even a very negative one, which could not be worked out. After all, all the limitations, problems and blocks are in our head.