Sometimes the habits of the second half make us angry, weary, and sometimes they simply make us laugh. In order to save the family, build strong relationships, it is necessary to make efforts for both men and women. None of us are perfect, and it’s important to be able to forgive each other's small flaws.
Women sometimes can not understand how to react to the behavior of the beloved man and his habits. After several years of family life, when the passion leaves, we notice that many things begin to annoy us in our loved one, although they do not have an important effect on marriage. It would seem that recently beloved was so romantic, and now falls asleep immediately after sex and throws socks in the corners.
What kind of habits of men do not allow representatives of the beautiful half of humanity to live in peace?
Scattered things
Different details of the wardrobe in all conceivable and inconceivable places of the house are a real threat to family happiness. Dirty socks scattered around the house are especially annoying . Interestingly, according to the theory of some scientists, in this way a man marks his personal territory.
Loud noises
Switching channels from one to another and not discovering anything interesting, a tired man falls asleep, not taking care to turn off the TV or at least reduce the volume. Another sound that is able to infuriate is the snoring of a loved one. This phenomenon is not the norm and may be the result of trauma, diseases of the respiratory system. Therefore, it is necessary to undergo examination and be treated.
Lack of attention
Unfortunately, more than half of family men have this drawback. Of course, this state of affairs is very annoying for their wives. According to psychologists, forgotten words of love, unwillingness to pronounce them - this is a serious test for marriage. A woman needs to communicate with a loved one and simple attention to her problems. Marriage is the closeness of two people, both partners must remember this.
Washing dishes and table behavior
Each of us was taught in childhood to clean up after meals. Only representatives of the strong half of humanity usually leave mountains of utensils in the sink, ignoring this rule. Moreover, they consider such an occupation to be exclusively a female privilege, without even bothering to rinse the cup after drinking tea.
In addition, not every man is distinguished by knowledge of etiquette at the table, so he considers it normal to champ and chew food noisily. It is especially unpleasant when such habits of men are manifested in a guest or restaurant.
Long “meetings”
One of the most annoying women male habit is a long stay in the toilet room. Representatives of the strong half of humanity often accompany this entire process with reading books and magazines, solving crosswords, smoking, etc. As a result, getting to the toilet for other family members becomes very problematic.
Another annoying factor associated with the toilet room is the habit of not closing the door behind you. Undoubtedly, there should be no secrets between husband and wife, but it is not necessary to put on display something that I would not want to observe under any circumstances.
Another annoying moment for many ladies is the not raised toilet lid. And no matter how many times it has been said about this, all the same, men forget to raise it.
Hygiene
Many representatives of the strong half of humanity do not consider it necessary to visit the shower daily, as well as change socks and underwear. Such habits of men force a woman to play the role of a caring mother and continually call for order as a reminder to wash her hands before eating or take a shower.
Staring at a stranger
A very unpleasant moment for a woman is looking at the companion of other ladies while walking with her. Many men have a desire to go to the left, as they say, in the blood. However, a faithful spouse, not lacking in the attention of her beloved, can glance at the beauties only in order to prove her worth and cause jealousy in the wife. But if a man belongs to the category of womanizer, then no scenes of jealousy will improve.
In the bed
The sexual habits of men that annoy women are quite diverse. Many men love to urge themselves to swear words during sex or express their pleasure so loudly that all neighbors in the district hear it. One cannot but note the uncleanliness and the peculiarity of falling asleep immediately after proximity.
Often women complain that a man requires sex at the wrong time. For example, when she is going to work. Although at the initial stage of the relationship, this healthy habit absolutely does not bother anyone.
Another point that angers women is phone calls in the midst of love games, to which the partner immediately responds. Such habits of men cause just indignation among representatives of the opposite sex, because it creates the feeling of the presence of an outsider in bed.
Computer addiction
In the modern world, a computer is often a substitute for communication with a wife. Indeed, in the virtual space there are many interesting opportunities to spend time. It is not surprising that the number of men who are fond of virtual life is constantly growing. In this case, the woman only has to watch her husband’s back. And even the most daring will not risk turning off the computer at the most interesting place. Here you will have to try to come up with a way that can turn the attention of a man to his family and children.
Sportsmanship
It would seem that sport is a healthy habit. But only if the man is engaged in it, and is not an avid fan. Many women complain that their beloved do not spend hours watching TV watching football, hockey or basketball. The most reliable way to distract your loved one from such a pastime is to play sports together, which is not only good for health, but also allows you to spend more time together.
Smoking and alcohol
These bad habits of men not only cause irritation in the fair half, but also are a threat to health. Smoking can cause lung, lip, trachea, or oral cancer . Under the influence of nicotine, pressure rises, the risk of developing atherosclerosis increases, vasospasm occurs . Smoking negatively affects the nervous system, leading to poor memory and decreased mental activity.
Passion for alcohol can be called a real social disaster that destroys families and human health. All human organs are negatively affected, the normal functioning of the heart is disrupted, the liver is destroyed, brain cells die. In addition, these addictions negatively affect the reproductive function of men.
Positive habits
But at the same time, our men have many positive habits that cannot but rejoice. For example, the habit of opening a door in front of a woman, giving a lady the most delicious piece of food, taking an interest in her lover's family, watching films that his beloved likes, giving flowers with or without flowers, giving her companion outer clothing, etc. All this speaks of the excellent upbringing of a man.
Some men's habits can conquer the hearts of most women. For example, the ability to speak beautiful compliments. Shy girls and self-confident ladies like this. After all, each of us is pleased to feel our own uniqueness.
Any woman is pleased when, for her sake, a lover or spouse refuses to meet with friends or go to football, thereby putting her beloved in the first place. Such habits of a man make a lady feel special, give her confidence that the partner really values this relationship.
No less pleasant calls or SMS from a loved one without a reason. Just a few pleasant words are enough to feel yourself necessary and desired.
Pleasant surprises that men can do do not leave women indifferent even after many years of marriage. And it is not at all necessary to present the wife with jewelry, because a lot of positive emotions can give an unexpected invitation to the theater or cinema, or just a pleasant walk in a picturesque place.
Such good habits are a manifestation of men's care for women, they remind us that real knights and gentlemen have not yet been transferred.