Surely many women are wondering what to do if a man loves and avoids at the same time. After all, it is clear that the attitude towards you, let’s say, is not indifferent, there are both views and compliments, but the chosen one is panicky afraid to stay alone with you. What is the matter? You need to try to consider the situation from the outside, as it is quite possible that the cause of this problem is you.
The presence of a sense of humor in a woman is always welcomed; the question is how developed it is. If a man loves and avoids crossing with you in a conversation, confining himself only to on-duty phrases, most likely he is afraid to be ridiculed by you. You can joke, hitting his pride, and it is no less vulnerable than yours. And if a man has repeatedly witnessed your witticisms towards colleagues, then he will not risk coming closer than a cannon shot.
In that case, if you are used to commanding, surrounded by zeal, to defend positions and listen only to your opinion, get ready for a similar result. No matter how quivering the feelings of representatives of the strong half of humanity may be, they cannot play second roles, so it is inherent in nature in their genes. If a man loves and avoids discussing any issues in your company, most likely he is just afraid to be disappointed in the subject of his admiration, since you absolutely do not care about the opinions from the outside.
These examples relate to situations where a woman must certainly understand her character, learn to remain silent and think carefully about her jokes, perhaps for some they are rather offensive. But what if the man loves and avoids the slightest hint of talk about family, about marriage? Do not put pressure on him, try to understand the reason for this behavior. If the point is his observation of the unsuccessful experience of family life with friends or relatives, show him that you have a completely different situation, he must be sure that everything will work out. But in the event that he is a strong self-sufficient male, who needs a woman nearby only for status, and conversations about marriage are carried out exclusively with a touch of irony, run away, because this man will not be able to become an ideal husband.
In modern life, it sometimes becomes quite difficult to understand whether a man loves a woman or is he just comfortable being around her. There are some representatives of the stronger sex who subconsciously seek someone for the role of patroness, the so-called mom. Such a woman will always help, prompt, protect, caress and comfort, but these relationships are difficult to call love, they remind family only from the perspective of mother and child.
To understand why a man avoids communication, you need to be able to put yourself in his place. Perhaps you were too persistent, then stop imposing on him. Do not forget that the man is attracted to the lady who needs to be achieved by making efforts, and not the one who willingly agrees to everything. Become the woman you want to conquer, and then the subject of your adoration will definitely not avoid you.