The question of what men like, sooner or later arises in the minds of any woman. Of course, we all want to impress: on ourselves, on friends, on relatives, on casual passers-by and, no doubt, on the opposite sex.
Apparently, that's why so often women come up with myths about men. Which ones? Yes, you can give hundreds of examples! Let us dwell on the two most common. For example, you most likely have heard the statement that:
- a man should not cry (Strange ... But, in fact, why? Is he not a man, or something, or does he not feel sad, annoyed or offended?);
- all men are womanizer / liars / bastards / egoists. (And why is everything? Maybe you do not need to bring everyone under one comb?)
It seems to me that all this is nothing more than stereotypes, moreover the stereotypes of the crowd, and those who are happy with their chosen ones and really understand what men like, will never be scattered by such statements.
Those. it turns out that only unhappy women who are unlucky to meet their soul mate are capable of such a statement? It turns out that yes ... Sad ...
It’s not without reason that I called my article “The Dispelling of Myths”. It is dedicated to those girls, girls, women, ladies and ladies who, despite all prejudices, strive to be close to a reliable and loving chosen one.
I propose to talk about how to understand what a man really likes, having overcome the whole set of prevailing conjectures and prejudices in modern society.
Myth number 1. The path to the heart of any man must necessarily lie through the stomach.
Of course, there are exceptions, and you may well meet a bachelor who is tired of dumplings, sausages and instant dishes. But, dear women, do you really need someone who will initially consider you only as a cook? The care and attention of a beloved woman is much more important to a modern man than a varied diet. For many, a simple scrambled egg, prepared with caring hands, is more valuable and pleasant than some intricate salad made up of a huge number of overseas ingredients, so it’s not necessary to spend all days in the kitchen trying to surprise him with another culinary masterpiece.
Myth number 2. In everything and always the initiative should come only from the man.
Very, very controversial point of view. By the way, experts are sure that no matter how strong and courageous a man may seem, in amorous affairs he often shows weakness and expects the first step precisely from his beloved.
According to psychologists, such complexes stretch into adulthood since childhood. It was in school years in order to express our sympathy, the boys tugged at us, girls, for pigtails or doused themselves with water, trying to attract attention, but being afraid to openly admit. What to do now? It remains to be a little bolder on our own, but the main thing, as they say, is not to go too far, since assertiveness is not at all the quality that men like.
Myth number 3. Men are not able to love, and all they need is sex.
Of course, this is a fallacy, and this is confirmed by the statements of modern psychologists who insist that it is men, and not we, women, who are more able to idealize their love.
For example, a special social survey was conducted, as a result of which it was found out that 90% of males and only 70% of women believe in love for life. Looking for an answer to the question of how to please your husband? Just be yourself if you are together now, which means that most likely he is already crazy about you.
The love experiences of men and women are very different, and if so-called “love-friendship” is more acceptable for most women, then “love-passion” is more characteristic for men. Apparently, the latter just explains their strong desire to have a beloved woman.
There is nothing to be done, we are arranged too differently.
Myth number 4. A man in a woman rarely notices something other than a figure.
Of course, the man does not mind having an attractive companion next to him, however, according to the same opinion polls, the man pushes beauty to third place, giving preference to charm and sex appeal. So, dear ladies, we conclude: we don’t run with every wrinkle that is slightly outlined to the cosmetologist, but try to use what men like, namely looseness, immediacy, mischief and a sense of humor.