It can be said that this concept is well known, but many still do not understand the true meaning of the word "cuckold." What does this really mean? First of all, it’s worth understanding that this is not at all a synonym for “cuckold.”
Cuckold - what is it?
The word itself, in all probability, comes from the English cuckoo. The behavior of these birds is not too common. The female has a good time with the alpha male, who subsequently goes to other cuckoos, and she returns to her "spouse" and raises chicks with him, which appeared as a result of "treason". If the wife was in bed with another, she was considered a traitor, and he was called Cuckold. What did that mean? He became the object of ridicule and contempt.
Kukold: what is it with an alternative lifestyle?
Now, this word sometimes means a cross between swinging and the original definition. Modern kukolds are aware of cheating wives, and thoughts of infidelity excite them. Unlike swinging, only one partner goes "to the left."
Cuckold husband. Why?
One of the reasons such a union is possible is submission. He dutifully accepts his wife’s desire and can even bring breakfast when she wakes up with her lover in the morning. In this case, he is usually limited in sex to what the spouse wants. She can dictate any conditions.
Passion for humiliation can also be a cause. For some, moral pressure is like a sensation of physical pain that excites masochists.
Voyeurism can also move a partner. Live watching how the wife enjoys, albeit with another - a sight that turns some.
Fear is also an extremely strong aphrodisiac. Some people have an adrenaline addiction, and the idea that a man can be humiliated in the eyes of a lover or spouse is a strong incentive.
Kukold: what does this give a woman?
Some ladies are simply deceiving their spouses, but this is not related to the topic of the article. In this case, the husband is not a cuckold at all - a cuckold.
Women also want such a relationship sometimes because their spouse is simply not comfortable in bed. Sometimes the reason is the husband’s desire. Some women have had little experience before marriage and want to "fill in the gaps." Usually begins with the fact that the wife begins to subtly hint. If it comes to action, at first she reluctantly shows her pleasure in the process. But if the husband is aroused by this action, she soon begins to get involved. This gives some women confidence in themselves, in their own attractiveness and that the husband will make every effort so that she does not leave him.
In fact, some believe that a true definition of a concept means that a man knows that his wife prefers sex with another. Some do not at all allow their fiancées to touch themselves.
Often, if the husband admits that he cannot give everything that the partner expects in bed, he seeks to show his affection in other ways. For example, cleaning the house, preparing food.
Some are excited by the sight when the wife has a good time with others, and some men find the expectation after a “date” more exciting. But it’s everyone’s choice - to be able to make his woman happy or to come to terms with the fact that she is happier with another.