Intimate life is of great importance to a woman. But during pregnancy, she has quite justified fears for the health and life of the future baby. So is it possible to continue sexual activity or should you refrain?
Myths
Among pregnant women there are many myths that make them refuse
to her husband in intimacy. Consider the most common of them.
During intercourse, the male organ reaches the child. For this reason, future fathers themselves refuse sex, believing that they can harm the baby. This is actually not the case. Even at a long gestation period, the baby is located at a sufficient distance from the vagina. In addition, it is located in the uterus inside the fetal bladder, surrounded by amniotic fluid, which is reliably protected. Therefore, intimate life can not cause a child physical trauma.
Sexual activity can lead to a miscarriage. A healthy woman will not have this. Yes, an orgasm leads to a contraction of the uterus, but it is minimal and a miscarriage will not occur.
Sexual contact worsens well-being. This myth is partly true, but only in cases where a woman feels so bad and pregnancy is difficult.
Why not refuse a husband?
Intimate life brings many benefits to the relationship between future parents. Refusing sex, the couple becomes tense, irritable. Arise
conflicts and serious quarrels. And this has a negative impact on women's health and the condition of the fetus. On the contrary, when the family has a sexual life, everything is stable and regular, harmony and love reign. And these are the main components for the future baby.
Before birth, sex, or rather the sperm of a man, softens the cervix, facilitating the birth process. In addition, regular intimate life prepares the birth canal, and the baby is born much faster.
When do you need to refuse?
There are contraindications when a woman's sex life is not permissible. This happens in case of a threatened miscarriage, severe pregnancy, inability to bear a child, as well as in the presence of a genital tract infection in a man. But this moment needs to be discussed with an observing gynecologist, who, depending on his state of health, will recommend to refrain from sexual intercourse.
Do not go into love joys three weeks before the DA. There are two reasons for this: the birth canal must be clean, infection is not allowed, excitement and orgasm can lead to premature birth, when the fetus is ready for appearance. Some doctors do not recommend leading an intimate life in the
first month of pregnancy. But then again, everything is individual.
Separately, it is worth saying that it is worth refusing to her husband in those cases when the expectant mother feels bad, tense or not ready for sex. Going against your will is contraindicated! It happens that a woman all nine months does not want sexual intimacy. A man needs to understand this and accept it.
Sex life after childbirth will be completely different. There will be practically no time for this, and the sensations will become completely new. Therefore, if health allows, future parents should continue their sexual life until the very birth.