Have you come across people who complain about a failed life, poor work, or inattentive friends? Undoubtedly, everyone at least once met with such representatives of the human race. However, it is worth asking a person to tell what exactly he wants from life, as in 99% of cases puzzled silence sets in.
Have you ever had to painfully decide what to do in the evening? Hang out with friends in a club? Try to compose a song? Finally, go to the gym? How to understand yourself if you are not even able to decide what exactly you want to do at the moment? How long did you then experience dissatisfaction with yourself? Day? Or did this state of discontent become familiar?
How many times have you been interested in understanding yourself? How many times have you tried to do this?
It has long been established that the better a person understands himself, the more harmonious his relationship with life. Unfortunately, few of us think about what we are, what we are. More often there are people who are sure: “I know for sure what I am and what I want from life.”
But is it? Is the life of such a person a complete proof of his failure.
I have a friend who has been dreaming of getting married and starting to earn a lot for 15 years now. What only men did not fall in her path. But ... she still does not even meet with any of them. Feeling like a queen, the girl does not understand that she is not able to change her habits, is not ready to take care of another person. What is it about something else! Over the past 15 years, she has not made a single attempt to find a new job. Every year she becomes more angry, more and more offended by others. But not once during this time she tried to ask a question about how to understand herself, to admit to herself what she was really dreaming of. A boring life passes by.
What needs to be done to recognize yourself?
You can start small. Take a pen, a sheet of paper. Write down 20 points of what you really want from life. Marry the king of an exotic country? Buy a palace? Write a book? Become a great actress? I am sure that not everyone will be able to fill out these 20 points.
If you still succeeded, think about what you did to fulfill your desires. What are you ready to do? What will you never sacrifice?
It is worth seriously thinking about this, as soon as it becomes clear what exactly you really want from life.
Find time for yourself and study your habits, your desires and aspirations every evening.
It does not matter that someone condemns you, he says: “What do you think of yourself? Who are you?". You are a woman, so you can achieve a lot.
If at least once a day you think about how to understand yourself, if you listen to yourself, your desires, if you try to bring them to life, your life sparkles with fantastic colors.
Want to do fitness right now? Act! Do you like your fullness, but others condemn it? Decide what is more important for you: your own comfort or recognition of outsiders.
Each of us has our own tastes, passions, aspirations. To understand what one wants from life, to achieve the fulfillment of desires, one must be able to listen and hear oneself.