Many women once start to think: “My husband doesn’t sleep with me as often as it was before, our intimate games are not so passionate ... But didn’t he have a lover?”
Time puts out the fire of love
Unfortunately, passion often fades over time. Love games gradually come to naught, giving way to a rare and boring act. And it also happens that a woman who was once passionately beloved and constantly lusting for a sexual partner desperately admits: “My husband does not sleep with me!” Of course, the first thought that comes to mind is a suspicion of the spouse’s infidelity. But is it?
Witnesses in a relationship are not needed!
First of all, it is necessary to find out the cause of the situation. Do not immediately complain to friends and mother: “The husband does not sleep with me!” In the best case, they will act as good advisers. But there is an option that a friend, having adopted family troubles, will become the very homeowner whom the unlucky wife is so afraid of. A kind and caring mother, still pretty loyal mother-in-law, fiercely hates a negligent son-in-law. And then even after the resurrection of feelings, it will be very difficult to establish previous contacts.
Why did the husband get cold?
In fact, the reasons for cooling can be not only external communications, although this option should not be immediately discounted. You should seriously think and ask yourself the question: “Why does my husband not sleep with me?” The reasons can be very diverse, and not just love on the side. “The husband has stopped sleeping with me,” you lament. Perhaps he is very tired at work. Or maybe the man suffers from some kind of disease that changed his sexuality. Or the spouse simply became bored with dealing with the same woman, the wife no longer excites him.
What to do to a woman in this delicate situation
The first thing that psychologists advise is not to cause scandals. Stormy clarifications of the relationship can completely negate the communication of the two, between which there were ambiguities. It is not necessary, as mentioned above, to involve outsiders in the discussion of this problem, no matter how close they are to the fair sex. But to remain silent, to remain inactive, hoping that everything will form by itself, is also not an option. Therefore, no matter how embarrassing the wife was, she should gain tact and strength and speak frankly with her husband.
1. If the husband just gets tired, you can review his weekend. Perhaps even these days he is loaded with country work, which he hates, forced to go to friends and family at a time when he would like to just lie on the couch.
2. If a man experiences physiological discomfort, then going to the doctor can correct the situation.
3. A man is unlikely to admit that he has stopped loving his wife, and she has ceased to excite him. So, you concluded: "The husband does not communicate with me." In this case, you should reconsider all your behavior, change your wardrobe, and take up your appearance. Typically, men who are inclined to diversity respond positively to the fact that instead of the usual modest brown-haired woman in a plain-looking gown, a burning brunette in sexy lingerie suddenly appears on the doorstep, who passionately without pretexts will pounce on him with kisses.
If the entire arsenal of female tricks does not give any results, it makes sense to seek the help of an experienced psychologist.