Even the authors of manuals on "bervology" do not recommend their readers to cheat on their husbands. Modern female society has begun to realize that male jealousy is not a spice for a dish of love, but a very difficult and painful feeling. A man often retreats if his wife cheated. What to do and how to make the right decision?
To live with this woman further? The right decision is possible if you correctly establish the causes of betrayal and think about whether it is possible to solve the deep problems of your relationship. Usually the reasons are quite definite and they can be guessed by indirect signs. However, in any case, she needs to be told that the relationship cannot continue as if nothing had happened. Regardless of whether you forgive her or not, she should know that it will not work easily in this situation.
The most common reason is the lack of admiring masculine attention that many women need. Often combined with a certain amount of emotional hunger for your wife. She wants vivid impressions and relationships, but just taking care of her for you becomes something commonplace for her. So, due to lack of attention , the wife changed. What if you still tend to forgive her and she is not eager to leave? Firstly, more interested in her appearance, buy her a fitness subscription, a swimming pool, plan a gym together. Demand interest in her. Do not encourage her “bad” behavior by giving money to buy new clothes. Secondly, you just need to devote more time to talking with her when she is cooking, do not go watch TV, but sit and talk with her. After all, your family is more expensive than TV.
Cheating is less common as a result of the fact that a woman prefers a more socially or financially successful man. In this case, the idea that her “cool man” is not so interested in her to marry is able to cool your wife’s hot head. So, for the sake of vague prospects , my wife changed. What to do? It is very difficult to stop a woman in a situation where she has what is called “dollar signs in her eyes”. It is better to wait until she returns herself, and this happens quite often. An exception is the case when a woman has exceptional virtues, such as a very spectacular appearance or an objectively higher IQ and intellectual attractiveness than yours. But this is rare, usually the "cool" play around - and drop out. And you can console and take it back if you really need it.
There is treason, as revenge for your betrayal. Of course, this is also a shame. After all, men are secretly allowed more. But in this case, the woman is not trying to break off the relationship, she is simply trying to show that she, too, may be interesting, such a not-so-smart female treason. What to do? In this situation, you need to ask her forgiveness for your sins and offer to start all over again, forgiving the old insults.
She could also fall in love. Usually fall in love with peers or elders, as a rule, these are married men. And your wife’s prospects for living together with him are very vague. The wife fell in love and changed. What to do? Also let her go, a sense of duty and guilt for a long time you can not keep. When he returns, forgive and accept, if you still love her.
The rarest case is problems in a sexual life. She does not like the frequency, size or tenderness. The frequency can be increased with drugs, there are nozzles for size correction, with a lack of tenderness, you can experiment and read literature. So usually this problem occurs in parallel with one of the above. And this is only an excuse for treason (except for the situation when the wife is a nymphomaniac). So you need to look for the true problem.
"What if you were cheated?" In each case, the decision is made only for you. Can you forgive and start building all over again? If so, try. After all, a family is the closest people, and children need both parents.